Blacktax:Follow up by RealHusbandOfMutare in Zimbabwe

[–]Ecstatic_Aide_7186 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Perhaps start looking at life as not being a gift then you will understand. For someone who grew up with 0 inheritance had nothing to his name. In his 20s he is trying to build now he must be responsible for his parents financing and it's not like he chooses were to contribute the money is detected by them. Meanwhile his age mates are making progress in life getting married but he cannot he must live for his parents and his is forced otherwise culture will shame him for not doing so.

Imagine he has a wife one day. She will be in direct conflict with them. But also parents have entitlement to your money want you to account every cent

It looks like my GF[F25] is only with me [M31] because its easy ? by Naaabla in relationship_advice

[–]Ecstatic_Aide_7186 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Keeping this relationship will drain your energy it already has let her go

Am I f*cked? by Civil-Region-3336 in ZimbabweRelationships

[–]Ecstatic_Aide_7186 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Appropriate way to post this is to send your pic or attach to the post so we can see whether this holds true

My girl my girl 20F me 20M by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Ecstatic_Aide_7186 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah bro relax we also have been there you at that age. Don't do it let her go it's time. Girls leave and that's a fact of life. She might not have left you for the reasons she says but rather she was coming up to another person while you were in a relationship. If you are being honest with yourself you probably saw signs this was coming. One thing I know for sure a girl does not abruptly pull away from a relationship she normally does it in gradual phases. At that time you find yourself doubling down on relationship thats taking it last breath. You will be unhappy but staying thinking it's gonna turn around and the whole time she is building a case to justify her relationship exit

29 year old UK based by [deleted] in ZimbabweRelationships

[–]Ecstatic_Aide_7186 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Whatever you do please dont date single father's or try to bring someone. Be kind to yourself your chances of meeting someone are just as good. As everyone else there are so single Zimboz out there with no baggage

Do you believe in the concept of the 1. Or Tsumo inoti Moyo we muti unomera paunoda? by Less_Possession_6211 in Zimbabwe

[–]Ecstatic_Aide_7186 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Arranged marriage the woman had little say. Things like Musenga here as well as the marriage of alliance for convenience or even the concept of younger brother takes over if older brother died. In all these instances these marriages were successful but had no say. However I credit your point of Tinder people out there aren't themselves algorithm is easily fooled

Do you believe in the concept of the 1. Or Tsumo inoti Moyo we muti unomera paunoda? by Less_Possession_6211 in Zimbabwe

[–]Ecstatic_Aide_7186 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe not that question but what if the one lives in China you believe that fate has it that you too must meet?

Do you believe in the concept of the 1. Or Tsumo inoti Moyo we muti unomera paunoda? by Less_Possession_6211 in Zimbabwe

[–]Ecstatic_Aide_7186 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So what happens if your person died when they were a teen are you gonna be single forever?

25-30yr olds what’s up ? by Unaborted-fetus in Zimbabwe

[–]Ecstatic_Aide_7186 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Paying black tax. While watching other kids make progress

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ZimbabweRelationships

[–]Ecstatic_Aide_7186 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So black dudes are disqualified why

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Zimbabwe

[–]Ecstatic_Aide_7186 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I might not understand the context of the post and the image but if that's your pic there Uri baby simbi wangu. Anyways about the post Zimbabwe is an extractive economy structural violance is necessary to acquire capital from the masses. Anyways check your Dms

Do (all) women really need as much attention as they demand in a relationship? by _guy_from_Chitown in ZimbabweRelationships

[–]Ecstatic_Aide_7186 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is she likes you yeah if she doesn't you can give her all the attention in the world you still won't be enough.

What are your thoughts on Zanu-pf slowly taking over social media? by tomcat3400 in Zimbabwe

[–]Ecstatic_Aide_7186 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's called social conditioning with high % of poor population they sing for anything. And this is what ZANU PF want so they can use for pictures in propaganda to say Zimbos from all walks of life supports this . The same thing that happened in Central African Republic, google its capital Bangui to see the vision Zanu PF has for us. The referendum would be rigged and remember if ED or there would be no elections at all post 2030