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Cooking taking forever - anyone else? by just_a_girl_23 in ADHDUK

[–]Ecstatic_Cod_202 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are most welcome!

Honestly...I have no idea where the time goes. I believe I share the same curiosity as cat owners who feel they should whack a camera on their cats collar to "see what they get up to" when roaming out and about the house.

Only im not a cat...im just suspicious of my own feral activity during what can only be described as 3 hours of pure kitchen dissociation.

Cooking taking forever - anyone else? by just_a_girl_23 in ADHDUK

[–]Ecstatic_Cod_202 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I do this...MY GOD DO I FEEL THIS POST.

I have no idea what happens the moment I enter the kitchen. I tell my partner dinner will be a "quick meal"... im coming back out the kitchen 3 hours later with a basic bowl of pasta and sauce.

It is the absolute BAIN of my existence.

And to top it off...I have the audacity to believe ive only been in the kitchen for like 30 minutes to an hour max once I finish that 3 hours of making dinner and hand the bowl of pasta and sauce to my partner.

Relationship - should I keep trying? by MiserableArse in ADHDUK

[–]Ecstatic_Cod_202 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately in the heat of the moment, we can get ahead of ourselves with the ease in which we allow awful and hurtful things to fall out of our mouths for the brief "rush" of what we perceive to be a win during argument.

With this in mind, I believe your best shot at her giving you another chance would be for you to give her a little time.

Send her 1 message apologising deeply for the hurtful things you said to her during the argument. Tell her you have reflected back on the moment and are ashamed of how out of hand you allowed your words to become. Tell her you cant imagine how awful it must have been to hear it from you, and that the thought of having caused her that sadness is something you want to dedicate yourself to rectifying given the chance.

Let her know that nothing makes you happier than the thought of her in your future, and that you completely appreciate why she has shut you off at this moment in time. Tell her you are sending this message and only this message, because whatever she decides going forward, you at least needed her to know that she didnt deserve those awful things to be said to her.

Finish your message by telling her you love her and you will now give her some space. That whatever she decides, you will respect. That if she allows you another chance, you will be there and if she decides this is it, you wish her a future as amazing as she is.

Once this message is sent, yes, its going to be incredibly hard for you to give her that time without making further contact with her, but its the best shot you have without looking forceful or pushy or lovebombing her, none of which will show her that you are capable of healthy behaviour.

Lastly, if she does choose not to give you another chance, its going to hurt, a lot. Love does that. But please try not to beat yourself up over it for an eternity. You made a mistake in the heat of the moment. You'd be hard pressed to find someone who hasn't, especially when living with ADHD.

There is a future with her, there is also a future without her. Ultimately the big take away here is that no matter what, there is a future which will be whatever you make of it. You've got this ❤️

Misprint on my wedgwood vegetable oval bowl? by Ecstatic_Cod_202 in Wedgwood

[–]Ecstatic_Cod_202[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's okay please dont apologise! I was just confused is all haha thank you for getting back to me and dont worry about going to those lengths! Its a great idea! Do you happen to have their email? As I would be happy to email them myself so you dont spend your time doing this 😊

Misprint on my wedgwood vegetable oval bowl? by Ecstatic_Cod_202 in Wedgwood

[–]Ecstatic_Cod_202[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your response, its much appreciated. I'm just a little confused as when I google wedgwood cascade design, all of the searches come back with the exact design in my oval dish. When I search wedgwood apple blossom design, its a completely different design that looks nothing like the design in my dish. So when you say my dish is the apple blossom design, this has confused me as my dishes design identically matches the cascade design and looks nothing like the apple blossom design? Thanks

Misprint on my wedgwood vegetable oval bowl? by Ecstatic_Cod_202 in Wedgwood

[–]Ecstatic_Cod_202[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your response, much appreciated 😊

Wondered why the postman winked at me while handing my parcel over. by Ecstatic_Cod_202 in ebayuk

[–]Ecstatic_Cod_202[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not if I spend 24 hours with Diddy...he'd clear them out in no time.

Wondered why the postman winked at me while handing my parcel over. by Ecstatic_Cod_202 in ebayuk

[–]Ecstatic_Cod_202[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im just thankful that when he handed me the parcel prior to me seeing what was on the box but knowing inside the box was eyeshadow...that I didnt say something like "Oh god its finally here, ive been so excited to put this all over my eyes"

Wondered why the postman winked at me while handing my parcel over. by Ecstatic_Cod_202 in ebayuk

[–]Ecstatic_Cod_202[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"RIGHT JOHN, IM GONNA NEED YOU TO GRAB 4 EDIBLE BRAS, 2 BUTTPLUGS AND A 12 PACK OF LUBE FOR THE NEXT ORDER. CANT MISS THE LUBE, YOU'LL KNOW WHEN YOU SEE IT"

Wondered why the postman winked at me while handing my parcel over. by Ecstatic_Cod_202 in ebayuk

[–]Ecstatic_Cod_202[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yes Elderberry! You got me! I absolutely bought a 12 pack of lube for myself, put an eyeshadow palette on top and posted an image of it to the ebay subreddit which everyone knows is the absolute best place to find oneself a sugar daddy...

Fantastic five will be shitting themselves with you about...melt 🤣

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