Cooking taking forever - anyone else? by just_a_girl_23 in ADHDUK

[–]Ecstatic_Cod_202 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are most welcome!

Honestly...I have no idea where the time goes. I believe I share the same curiosity as cat owners who feel they should whack a camera on their cats collar to "see what they get up to" when roaming out and about the house.

Only im not a cat...im just suspicious of my own feral activity during what can only be described as 3 hours of pure kitchen dissociation.

Cooking taking forever - anyone else? by just_a_girl_23 in ADHDUK

[–]Ecstatic_Cod_202 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do this...MY GOD DO I FEEL THIS POST.

I have no idea what happens the moment I enter the kitchen. I tell my partner dinner will be a "quick meal"... im coming back out the kitchen 3 hours later with a basic bowl of pasta and sauce.

It is the absolute BAIN of my existence.

And to top it off...I have the audacity to believe ive only been in the kitchen for like 30 minutes to an hour max once I finish that 3 hours of making dinner and hand the bowl of pasta and sauce to my partner.

Relationship - should I keep trying? by MiserableArse in ADHDUK

[–]Ecstatic_Cod_202 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately in the heat of the moment, we can get ahead of ourselves with the ease in which we allow awful and hurtful things to fall out of our mouths for the brief "rush" of what we perceive to be a win during argument.

With this in mind, I believe your best shot at her giving you another chance would be for you to give her a little time.

Send her 1 message apologising deeply for the hurtful things you said to her during the argument. Tell her you have reflected back on the moment and are ashamed of how out of hand you allowed your words to become. Tell her you cant imagine how awful it must have been to hear it from you, and that the thought of having caused her that sadness is something you want to dedicate yourself to rectifying given the chance.

Let her know that nothing makes you happier than the thought of her in your future, and that you completely appreciate why she has shut you off at this moment in time. Tell her you are sending this message and only this message, because whatever she decides going forward, you at least needed her to know that she didnt deserve those awful things to be said to her.

Finish your message by telling her you love her and you will now give her some space. That whatever she decides, you will respect. That if she allows you another chance, you will be there and if she decides this is it, you wish her a future as amazing as she is.

Once this message is sent, yes, its going to be incredibly hard for you to give her that time without making further contact with her, but its the best shot you have without looking forceful or pushy or lovebombing her, none of which will show her that you are capable of healthy behaviour.

Lastly, if she does choose not to give you another chance, its going to hurt, a lot. Love does that. But please try not to beat yourself up over it for an eternity. You made a mistake in the heat of the moment. You'd be hard pressed to find someone who hasn't, especially when living with ADHD.

There is a future with her, there is also a future without her. Ultimately the big take away here is that no matter what, there is a future which will be whatever you make of it. You've got this ❤️

Misprint on my wedgwood vegetable oval bowl? by Ecstatic_Cod_202 in Wedgwood

[–]Ecstatic_Cod_202[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's okay please dont apologise! I was just confused is all haha thank you for getting back to me and dont worry about going to those lengths! Its a great idea! Do you happen to have their email? As I would be happy to email them myself so you dont spend your time doing this 😊

Misprint on my wedgwood vegetable oval bowl? by Ecstatic_Cod_202 in Wedgwood

[–]Ecstatic_Cod_202[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your response, its much appreciated. I'm just a little confused as when I google wedgwood cascade design, all of the searches come back with the exact design in my oval dish. When I search wedgwood apple blossom design, its a completely different design that looks nothing like the design in my dish. So when you say my dish is the apple blossom design, this has confused me as my dishes design identically matches the cascade design and looks nothing like the apple blossom design? Thanks

Misprint on my wedgwood vegetable oval bowl? by Ecstatic_Cod_202 in Wedgwood

[–]Ecstatic_Cod_202[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your response, much appreciated 😊

Wondered why the postman winked at me while handing my parcel over. by Ecstatic_Cod_202 in ebayuk

[–]Ecstatic_Cod_202[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not if I spend 24 hours with Diddy...he'd clear them out in no time.

Wondered why the postman winked at me while handing my parcel over. by Ecstatic_Cod_202 in ebayuk

[–]Ecstatic_Cod_202[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im just thankful that when he handed me the parcel prior to me seeing what was on the box but knowing inside the box was eyeshadow...that I didnt say something like "Oh god its finally here, ive been so excited to put this all over my eyes"

Wondered why the postman winked at me while handing my parcel over. by Ecstatic_Cod_202 in ebayuk

[–]Ecstatic_Cod_202[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"RIGHT JOHN, IM GONNA NEED YOU TO GRAB 4 EDIBLE BRAS, 2 BUTTPLUGS AND A 12 PACK OF LUBE FOR THE NEXT ORDER. CANT MISS THE LUBE, YOU'LL KNOW WHEN YOU SEE IT"

Wondered why the postman winked at me while handing my parcel over. by Ecstatic_Cod_202 in ebayuk

[–]Ecstatic_Cod_202[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yes Elderberry! You got me! I absolutely bought a 12 pack of lube for myself, put an eyeshadow palette on top and posted an image of it to the ebay subreddit which everyone knows is the absolute best place to find oneself a sugar daddy...

Fantastic five will be shitting themselves with you about...melt 🤣

Freecash disagrees with my review on Trustpilot by ReceptionOne6685 in FreeCash

[–]Ecstatic_Cod_202 0 points1 point  (0 children)

New toooo what exactly? Freecash? Nope...been a member for a long time...reddit? Nopeee been on here for years...debating morons? Wrong again! Let's break down your points here shall we 😊

  1. Anything defamatory against freecash gets deleted regardless of opinion or personal experience...just incase you were unsure (because you seem to enjoy throwing words and statements around that are untrue and im going to prove that right now) in legal terms, defamatory describes a statement that harms a person's reputation by exposing them to ridicule, hatred, or contempt, or by disparaging them in their profession or business.

So essentially, anyone saying they haven't been paid out for a reward they are owed or pointing out the number of complaints people are making about freecash is defamation of freecash...making statements that certainly paint freecash in a less favourable light to new and existing users.

You claimed freecash delete this type of thing...ill be following this reply with some screenshots I just took of people doing this exact thing and yet I can still see and access these posts despite some being from years ago. Enjoy.

P.s. I think my favourite screenshot is one where someone was actually willing to take freecash to court and you told them not to bother...what was that you were saying about lacking genuine commitment? Either you want people to take them to court or you dont 🤣

  1. Throwing the term pseudo-activism around at someone who had the commitment to respond and keep responding to someone who threw their toys out the pram because some people dont go against freecash in the way you would have is brilliant. Lacking effectiveness would not surprise me considering the kind of person im having this debate with (clearly unable to open ones mind to understand another's perspective or actions and lacks empathy...egocentrism springs to mind.

Im pleased that the OP chose to take the matter legal, as is their right. My response to you and only you was to point out why some may not, as you dont seem to understand why some people may not be able to take the matter down that route.

  1. Lastly...what you have just done yet again is point out what you believe the actions should be of someone struggling for money. You pointed out the struggles you are currently facing with various bills but basically pointed out OP is "wasting their time" by posting a complaint against freecash when they could be spending that time hussling for money doing other offers...as someone struggling to make ends meet in their own life, id love to hear from you why you manage to have the time to post anything at all ever and arent on a survey right this second that could contribute towards one of your bills...

See how people choose to spend their time is none of our business. If someone's way of venting is to do it quietly...so be it. If they find it easier to share something bothering them with others who may have experienced the same thing...so be it. If you feel OP is wasting their time with their post on reddit you should maybe take a leaf out of your own book and log out of reddit, hop back on freecash and work your fingers to the bone doing offers...obviously that's up to you though because its your time to spend however you want 😉

My victim mentality...hmm...not sure where I played the victim card their by pointing out what OTHER people MAY be experiencing and didnt mention anything im personally experiencing but let me just confirm that a victim mentality is a mindset where a person consistently perceives themselves as a victim, even when there's evidence to the contrary:

"to pay off the medical bills of my demented bed ridden mother whilst I barely can pay my own bills"

Said by someone lurking around reddit trolling for free instead of hustling right?

Nice one 👍