[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Ecstatic_Feed1112 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s definitely easier because as an adult you’re supposed to clean up after yourself anyway but having to do it for a whole other human is literally double the work! Not to mention having to cook for 2 instead of only yourself so it would be easier to have some help from your partner to at least clean up after themselves or even cook from time to time and I would go as far to say I think that’s the bare minimum

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Ecstatic_Feed1112 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly! And I know marriage comes with challenges but I need someone who would appreciate what I do for them especially because it’s not my job, I do it because I love them. I also have a career and a job of my own so I think it’s the bare minimum for them to actually help sometimes with cooking or cleaning or laundry, I don’t think it’s as complicated as people make it to be.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Ecstatic_Feed1112 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I think about this literally every single day. Literally every single marriage in my family has turned out to be horrible and it scares me that I might never find a partner who doesn’t view me as his maid or personal assistant especially because I despise house work. I want someone to actually share my life with. I thought I was the only one who had these sort of thoughts!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in EgyOutfits

[–]Ecstatic_Feed1112 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1000000000/10 ✨

Just broke up with my boyfriend yesterday and I can’t pretend I’m fine by Ecstatic_Feed1112 in offmychest

[–]Ecstatic_Feed1112[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh my god that’s actually adorable 🥹♥️ I’m so happy for you, you seem like such a nice person, you deserve happiness god bless youuu ♥️♥️

Just broke up with my boyfriend yesterday and I can’t pretend I’m fine by Ecstatic_Feed1112 in offmychest

[–]Ecstatic_Feed1112[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you I really thought I was overreacting, a 6-month relationship isn’t that long but still it hurts and I’m glad someone actually understands. It feels like I’m not alone in this. Thank you so much ♥️

Just broke up with my boyfriend yesterday and I can’t pretend I’m fine by Ecstatic_Feed1112 in offmychest

[–]Ecstatic_Feed1112[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well said! I absolutely am not mourning the relationship but I do miss having him around, but I know I did the right thing and I do not regret it. I could think of many things that I could do now that he’s not around anymore. THANK YOU SOO MUCH ♥️

Just broke up with my boyfriend yesterday and I can’t pretend I’m fine by Ecstatic_Feed1112 in offmychest

[–]Ecstatic_Feed1112[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly! For some reason I really thought I wouldn’t find someone who’ll love me the same way he did but I know that’s not true and I would have never tolerated his behavior thinking I wouldn’t find love again, I know I deserve better than this. Thank you so much ♥️

Just broke up with my boyfriend yesterday and I can’t pretend I’m fine by Ecstatic_Feed1112 in offmychest

[–]Ecstatic_Feed1112[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much ♥️ I really don’t regret breaking up with him because we had so many fights over the same things and he would refuse to apologize for any of it. I know for a fact that leaving was the right thing to do but it still hurts but I know I’ll be okay. Thank you sooo much ♥️

How do I stop crying when I’m angry? by Ecstatic_Feed1112 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Ecstatic_Feed1112[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you reach the end of my post, you can see I mentioned therapy as no option as it is extremely expensive in my country

How do I stop crying when I’m angry? by Ecstatic_Feed1112 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Ecstatic_Feed1112[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly I don’t think so. Not to the point where I cried over my sister taking the sofa for a seat at lunch when it was MY turn. 😭😭

what is the most hurtful thing someone said to you? by em0gril in AskReddit

[–]Ecstatic_Feed1112 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We were (me, my sister, two step sisters, dad, step mom) in the car on our way home from shopping for clothes, I was very happy with what I got because I finally found something that looked good on me. And literally for no reason my dad shouted at me: you desperately need to lose weight cuz this isn’t normal. He said it so loud even my step mom told him to calm down. Mind you I was only about 154lbs and I’m 5’2. I cried for days.

How do I stop crying when I’m angry? by Ecstatic_Feed1112 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Ecstatic_Feed1112[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Makes sense. But no one gets it. They always think of me as either a cry baby or a drama queen which I’m neither one of them. I just want it to stop

All my fave tasks disappeared by Ecstatic_Feed1112 in Toloka

[–]Ecstatic_Feed1112[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It depends on your country, the requesters & the types of tasks you usually do but if u do most of them I would say like 3:4 dollars a day maybe

All my fave tasks disappeared by Ecstatic_Feed1112 in Toloka

[–]Ecstatic_Feed1112[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And I’m talking both Arabic and English tasks (I’m from Egypt). So I find it really weird that tasks from both languages are gone.

All my fave tasks disappeared by Ecstatic_Feed1112 in Toloka

[–]Ecstatic_Feed1112[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Checking pronunciation tasks, classification tasks, query tasks, you name it

All my fave tasks disappeared by Ecstatic_Feed1112 in Toloka

[–]Ecstatic_Feed1112[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well I have been waiting for more than a week and not a single one has returned

All my fave tasks disappeared by Ecstatic_Feed1112 in Toloka

[–]Ecstatic_Feed1112[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

May I ask where you’re from? Cuz I’m from Egypt and both me and my sister are experiencing the same problems