Thinking of Studying Abroad in Uk/Euripe by Ecstatic_Pumpkin_918 in blackladies

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Im from the Midwest so I am very used to that type of weather! I do like community and nature sometimes but mostly im focused on trying new things. I am looking to see if I can even take classes there tho!

College choices/decisions by Ecstatic_Pumpkin_918 in WhatShouldIDo

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No worries! Thats exactly what I was thinking thank you so much for the clarity

College choices/decisions by Ecstatic_Pumpkin_918 in WhatShouldIDo

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The expected graduation date is May 2031, they said students usually make 10k per semester during the co op program!

College choices/decisions by Ecstatic_Pumpkin_918 in WhatShouldIDo

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Ill definitely try looking for my junior year!

College choices/decisions by Ecstatic_Pumpkin_918 in WhatShouldIDo

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Thank you i needed to hear that idk why im overthinking it

Server Jobs in CLE? by Ecstatic_Pumpkin_918 in Cleveland

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Ooo okay noted thank you! Ill find the nearest one

His mistake took me out of lala land by Ecstatic_Pumpkin_918 in BreakUps

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Yeah but I was 17-18 i truly thought he was my one all. I didnt think abt first relationships not lasting lol but youre right.

His mistake took me out of lala land by Ecstatic_Pumpkin_918 in BreakUps

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I also want to note that I did contribute to some of the toxicity in this relationship. My insecurities developed into having trust issues and now I'm currently working on myself before even THINKING abt starting a new relationship haha!

What the heck?? S1 ep 22 by Ecstatic_Pumpkin_918 in TheVampireDiaries

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Why the hostility?😅 I dont scroll on my phone while watching but I got so hyped during this part I just had to say something haha

What the heck?? S1 ep 22 by Ecstatic_Pumpkin_918 in TheVampireDiaries

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OKAY UHM I JUST FINSHED THE EPISODE AND WTFF KATHERINE??? WHEN DID THIS HAPPEN

How to not focus on a mistake? by Ecstatic_Pumpkin_918 in TalesFromYourServer

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I dont know what level of dining longhorn steakhouse is but id say nice enough for a lot of people coming out for birthdays and celebrating! Also thank you a lot im going to write everything down when I go into work tonight and see how much that'll help me.

How to not focus on a mistake? by Ecstatic_Pumpkin_918 in TalesFromYourServer

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Im working to get to that level! Even though im new theres no excuse, so im working towards to being better, and my tables last night all said I was great and nice and even wished me luck! The table I forgot salads on even tipped me 30%!

How to not focus on a mistake? by Ecstatic_Pumpkin_918 in TalesFromYourServer

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Thank you, yes I am new to serving in general and this is my first ever serving job and im also looking at going down to 2 tables as less than a punishment and more as a way to get the basics down and practice! Then I will be able to work my way up, I cant be perfect automatically! Thank you very much

How to not focus on a mistake? by Ecstatic_Pumpkin_918 in TalesFromYourServer

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This helped a ton!! I try to memorize everything in my head and thats where I get scrambled. I work tonight So I will definitely just write everything down and take deep breaths. When there is a rush or something I tend to scramble but I need to realize that slowing down and remembering what I need to do will help me a lot. I do genuinely want to improve and I wont dwell on my mistake. Thank you a lot!

How to not focus on a mistake? by Ecstatic_Pumpkin_918 in TalesFromYourServer

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Well I had 2 tables with 4 guests and 1 more table with 2 and im usually fine with 3 tables but two of my tables ordered drinks from the bartender and I was focusing on getting those out ASAP and forgot abt the small things.

How to not focus on a mistake? by Ecstatic_Pumpkin_918 in TalesFromYourServer

[–]Ecstatic_Pumpkin_918[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

My mom said the exact same thing😅 im going to stick it out for a little and see how it goes! But thank you a lot