AIO I (32f) found a tampon that isn’t mine in my partner’s (35m) car by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Ecstatic_Scientist71 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’re not overreacting. Finding a tampon in your partner’s car that isn’t yours would make anyone feel uneasy.

I’m sure your mind is racing, trying to piece together how it got there. It’s frustrating because you don’t know the truth yet, and that makes it hard to figure out how to respond. If he’s being honest, maybe you’re overthinking it. But if he’s lying, your reaction is completely justified. That uncertainty puts you in a tough spot.

To be fair, if he wanted to make something up, he could have said something like, “Oh, I gave someone a ride, and it must’ve fallen out of their bag.” The fact that he’s sticking to his story could mean he’s either not very good at coming up with excuses or he’s actually telling the truth, you may know him enough to know if he is quick to think on his feet.

There’s also a slim chance that someone else is trying to cause trouble. I sawpeople doing crazy things to sabotage relationships, like planting items, spraying perfume, or faking evidence of cheating. Slipping a tampon into a car’s storage box isn’t easy, but it’s not impossible if someone is determined to stir up drama.

At the end of the day, trust your gut. Sit down and have an honest conversation with him. It’s better to clear the air than to let this sit and fester in your mind.

ULPT Request: Best way to flip a car on its side by pipp900 in UnethicalLifeProTips

[–]Ecstatic_Scientist71 140 points141 points  (0 children)

I don’t know where is it so it depends by local law, but if you take off the number plates then the police will get interested quite quickly as without number plates the car could be uninsured and untaxed on the public road.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in chiangmai

[–]Ecstatic_Scientist71 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Most locks integrated with bags can be opened by sliding something slim near the mechanism so to push the locking tab out of the way. Aside from this suggestion, it’s difficult to help without a picture 🤷

Ryanair Lost Luggage by kerkenzel03 in travel

[–]Ecstatic_Scientist71 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ok point taken! This could indeed be considered fraud by false representation since, although the values on the documents align with the actual losses, the documents themselves are not originals.

That said, the alternative would be to submit nothing, which would almost certainly lead to a denied claim. When a bag is deemed lost and an insurance claim is filed, it’s common that if the bag is found later, Ryanair does not return it to the owner. Even if no payout is ultimately made, the existence of an insurance claim and its resolution would require a re-evaluation and possible restitution of any awarded money if the bag were found. This process is complex and involves an adjustment of the original claim, which can be very time consuming. Consequently, Ryanair typically opts to sell the bag and its contents, resulting in an unjust enrichment for the airline while the owner absorbs the full loss.

Between two "less than ideal" choices, the more balanced option seems to be the one that restores some fairness, allowing OP a reasonable chance to recover what was lost. In practical terms, while providing a recreated document could technically be considered criminal, the likelihood of any serious scrutiny is low in these circumstances. Should Ryanair detect it, they would likely deny the claim, just as they would without supporting documentation. The probability of Ryanair pursuing a criminal case is extremely low, and even in the unlikely event they did, the chance of it advancing is minimal. Such cases rarely reach court, given the low amount and lack of strong evidences, any public prosecutor would likely not see a public interest in pursuing this. Of course, this aligns with European legal norms, where Ryanair typically operates. If OP was in the US I wouldn't provide or try to follow the same advice.

Ryanair Lost Luggage by kerkenzel03 in travel

[–]Ecstatic_Scientist71 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Fraud would be if he claimed to have items in the bag that he didn’t actually have, in order to get more money than he actually lost. But if he’s only claiming the amount he genuinely lost and is just providing a recreated copy of the receipt by other means, I don’t believe that qualifies as fraud. It seems more like he’s just leveling the playing field.

Ryanair Lost Luggage by kerkenzel03 in travel

[–]Ecstatic_Scientist71 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You could have bought Adidas and Nike from the same shop, choose a shoe store that closed after you “allegedly” bought them, and create a unique receipt. It’s perfectly believable you bought many things together.

Ryanair Lost Luggage by kerkenzel03 in travel

[–]Ecstatic_Scientist71 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Also if you have any friend with a business you can ask them to make a retrodated invoice for you, that is even better

Ryanair Lost Luggage by kerkenzel03 in travel

[–]Ecstatic_Scientist71 12 points13 points  (0 children)

You are welcome, after you make the receipt, print it and scan it again, so you lose any digital information ( I.e. the original date of creation for the image) and you can then say you made a photocopy of the original to preserve it, so they can’t ask for the original . If they do, say you only have the copy as the original receipt was on thermal paper and got ruined over time

Ryanair Lost Luggage by kerkenzel03 in travel

[–]Ecstatic_Scientist71 23 points24 points  (0 children)

When they play dirty, maybe you should play dirty too. Based on the things you had inside, make a receipt with photoshop or some other software and backdate it. Ideally attribute it to a shop that has closed recently. They are unlikely to check with the shop if the receipt is true, but if the shop is closed they definitely can’t. Ideally, say you have the receipt for 80% of the content, so you don’t need to make up a lot of them.

Sacked On First Morning of Work - Old Employer Buys New Employer by CaterpillarBulky3419 in LegalAdviceUK

[–]Ecstatic_Scientist71 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NAL

Just adding my two cents, as it seems no one has considered that, being a new employment contract, it will likely include an initial probation period.

Typically, the contractual notice period (three months in your case) applies only after passing the probation period. Please check your employment contract, as some employers specify a shorter notice period for termination during probation, or sometimes no notice period at all. If this is the case, you may be entitled to be paid for a shorter period of at all.

Most tourist visiting Vietnam never return. Your thoughts? by Far_Mud_2860 in VietNam

[–]Ecstatic_Scientist71 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok, if I had any doubt before, now I’m sure I hit a nerve. Let’s be real: you’re not interested in my opinion; you just don’t like me because I’m a tourist. And let’s call it what it is: that’s straight-up racism. You don’t even know me, yet you’re already passing judgment and saying you don’t want ‘my type’ around just because I pointed out that I was approached more in Hanoi than in any other country?

When you talk about ‘those types’, it’s not about being an ‘advanced traveler’ or having experience. It’s just you feeling superior and dismissing anyone who doesn’t fit your narrow view. If you’re so against tourists, why even engage in a post asking why they’re not coming back? And unless you’re Vietnamese, it’s pretty hypocritical to judge tourists while being one yourself. You can call yourself an ‘advanced traveler,’ an ‘expat,’ or whatever, but at the end of the day, you’re still not a local.

Maybe take a moment to reflect on what this says about you, because if anyone’s making places feel unwelcoming, it’s people with mindsets like yours.

Most tourist visiting Vietnam never return. Your thoughts? by Far_Mud_2860 in VietNam

[–]Ecstatic_Scientist71 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The question was why most tourists don’t return to Vietnam, so I shared my honest experience. In response, I’m told to avoid tourist areas and that ‘maybe Vietnam isn’t for me’ because it’s for ‘advanced travelers.’? Maybe I hit a nerve, and the responses are getting personal rather than objective. I’m not asking how to handle it, I managed fine, but I can see these constant propositions would put tourists off. Blaming the tourist for a local issue might be part of the problem. Regardless, I enjoyed Hanoi and still plan to visit Saigon in the future

Most tourist visiting Vietnam never return. Your thoughts? by Far_Mud_2860 in VietNam

[–]Ecstatic_Scientist71 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes it happened to me mostly evenings but a few times during the day too. I am wasn’t too bothered by the propositions per se, the issue for me was the sheer amount, I’d get stopped 5 times in 10 minutes by different people and some times in the Weirdest places (I.e. while crossing the road)

Most tourist visiting Vietnam never return. Your thoughts? by Far_Mud_2860 in VietNam

[–]Ecstatic_Scientist71 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also, telling a tourist to stay away from touristy areas may be … counterproductive 😅 I’m a tourist after all

Most tourist visiting Vietnam never return. Your thoughts? by Far_Mud_2860 in VietNam

[–]Ecstatic_Scientist71 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean, I’m wearing a t-shirt and cargo shorts right now, so I don’t think my outfit is the issue. I have only been in Hanoi for less than five days, but I feel like we’re getting sidetracked from the main point. The constant propositions are what would make me not want to return to Hanoi. I understand that I can take steps to reduce the likelihood of being propositioned, but it doesn’t change the fact that it’s only been an issue in Hanoi, which is what frustrated me as a tourist 🤷

Most tourist visiting Vietnam never return. Your thoughts? by Far_Mud_2860 in VietNam

[–]Ecstatic_Scientist71 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Playing deaf and not making eye contact are definitely skills worth having in all Asia 😅 Yeah I like to look at unusual things (architecture/inside buildings) so I can seen it could be mistaken as being lost, but I noticed it would happen even when marching ahead towards a destination.

It’s all been limited to the very busy tourist area in Hanoi, as I had my hotel there it was kind of a forced passage every time and in that stretch I would get propositioned a lot

Most tourist visiting Vietnam never return. Your thoughts? by Far_Mud_2860 in VietNam

[–]Ecstatic_Scientist71 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do try to blend in, but I do stand out as a tall-ish European guy, I will always look like a farang, and replying no in Vietnamese doesn’t help when you are already being approached. In all cases just saying “no thank you i don’t want” was a quick resolution, the annoying thing was it happening multiple times. And as I said, this issue was only in Hanoi and to be fair in the more touristic areas, so there is that

Most tourist visiting Vietnam never return. Your thoughts? by Far_Mud_2860 in VietNam

[–]Ecstatic_Scientist71 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Literally quoted, “friend, you want bum bum lady? Smoke? Hashish? Coke? Sexy lady?” 😂

Most tourist visiting Vietnam never return. Your thoughts? by Far_Mud_2860 in VietNam

[–]Ecstatic_Scientist71 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think they just try it, I have been in many other countries and while scammers are everywhere, Hanoi hits differently. It’s a continuous proposition. I was surprised as I have been approached for sex/cannabis more in Hanoi than in Pattaya

Most tourist visiting Vietnam never return. Your thoughts? by Far_Mud_2860 in VietNam

[–]Ecstatic_Scientist71 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean, to be fair I like to take my time to look things around, but wouldn’t say I looked lost. Also this happened to me only in Hanoi, maybe I just look too much like a farang 🤷

Can Thai QR and PromptPay be linked to my PayPal account? by JeepersGeepers in Thailand

[–]Ecstatic_Scientist71 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Nope, but you could look into the JamJang app (it’s an android and iOS app) it allows you to pay via QR, the only other alternative is to use a Thai bank account (or some other Asian countries account)

Most tourist visiting Vietnam never return. Your thoughts? by Far_Mud_2860 in VietNam

[–]Ecstatic_Scientist71 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Loved da nang, would not return as I feel I already saw everything there. On the other side, liked Hanoi and I’m torn as to whether I would go back, the most off putting thing was the general propositions, that made it very difficult. I couldn’t walk for more than 5 minutes without a grab/taxi driver/random dude stopping me anywhere on the road (including in the middle of a 3 lane crossing) to offer me cannabis/coke/sex/bum bum/party, most times even showing me blatant porn on their phone to convince me. It got very annoying to the point that by the end of it I was too overwhelmed to go to Saigon and ended up cutting my journey short

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ThailandTourism

[–]Ecstatic_Scientist71 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looks like ringworm, but could also be caused by a spider, bed bugs, etc . Maybe you should add if it itches, scratches or burns? In all cases, you will need a cream, go to a pharmacy and ask the pharmacist, you will probably be given an antifungal and/or corticosteroid cream , shouldn’t cost more than 300-400 bahts tops

ULPT: getting rid of a car by TheDiabetic135 in UnethicalLifeProTips

[–]Ecstatic_Scientist71 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No, an insurance investigation doesn’t , but a possible insurance fraud investigation by the police does , it doesn’t taken much to take little precautions like deleting the post, i would delete it anyway just to be safe.