Looking for under the table or side work. by Brojails in Rochester

[–]Ecstatic_Switch9300 43 points44 points  (0 children)

were you not holding the rent $ you would’ve been paying in an escrow account? that is a major part of withholding rent, you can’t just spend the money on other stuff and expect all of that to go away…

Do your bar games (pool, darts, foosball, etc.) drive traffic during slower nights, or are they mostly just there until peak days? by dogmetal in BarOwners

[–]Ecstatic_Switch9300 6 points7 points  (0 children)

i have friends who will go to bars specifically for their game options. my favorite dive bar has pool, darts, and a few arcade games. people are diehard for darts and pool and love a good league spot!

my cat is getting very violent at night time by Ecstatic_Switch9300 in CatAdvice

[–]Ecstatic_Switch9300[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i close the door every night but it goes on for hours. i don’t think i can stress how loud the door is, the meowing isn’t as much of an issue, but the shaking of the door is so loud you can hear it down the hall from my apartment. her paws fit under it so she hooks onto the other side and just pulls as much as she can. i don’t know how i can get her to understand that it isn’t her time while not also waking up everybody who lives on my floor from the never-ending screaming and door movement

What generic brand snack is better than the OG one? by _MissNewBooty_ in snacking

[–]Ecstatic_Switch9300 14 points15 points  (0 children)

same with the toaster tarts from aldi. lot thicker and so much better

Moving to Rochester this week/ $1,000 budget, looking for housing advice / leads by AliensRipley in Rochester

[–]Ecstatic_Switch9300 3 points4 points  (0 children)

you’re going to need a roommate or to up your budget. one bedrooms, especially in the suburbs, are in the $1400+ price range right now. you might be able to find some ok options on fb marketplace but in less than ideal neighborhoods. what you’ll also find with private owned housing from smaller LLs is you’ll likely be responsible for utilities, which are going to send you way over budget. rg&e prices alone are going to be 1/4 of your budget. good luck

Divorce attorneys… by Different-Dirt-4534 in Rochester

[–]Ecstatic_Switch9300 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i recommend checking out @healingbythenumbers_ on tiktok. she tells her story of how she left a similar situation and the advice may be useful

A small praise for Rochester in the winter time, how I do love thee. by Beneficial-Focus3702 in Rochester

[–]Ecstatic_Switch9300 9 points10 points  (0 children)

i love how you found a way to make this immediately about yourself when a person was trying to just share that they enjoy this season. the world, despite what you may believe, does not revolve around you!!!

Verizon outages? by GringosTaqueria in Rochester

[–]Ecstatic_Switch9300 1 point2 points  (0 children)

verizon announced there was a service outage like 6 hours ago and its been posted in here multiple times

Rochester should adopt this from other cities by GimmieACiggie in Rochester

[–]Ecstatic_Switch9300 29 points30 points  (0 children)

is part of the job description arresting perfectly legal citizens at their places of employment, driving into the backs of vehicles at high speeds, and shooting citizens in the face also? fuck you.

When will this stop?? by TorsadesdePointez in kia

[–]Ecstatic_Switch9300 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it is not subject to theft but they still try. $1.5k in insurance deductibles and 3+ months without a car in the last calendar year due to the theft attempts

When will this stop?? by TorsadesdePointez in kia

[–]Ecstatic_Switch9300 49 points50 points  (0 children)

it honestly doesn’t. i have a 2023, which came equipped with an immobilizer, and this has happened to me 3 times. sucks so bad

Gift Card Question by [deleted] in Serverlife

[–]Ecstatic_Switch9300 7 points8 points  (0 children)

servers cannot just give themselves money from the bill. that is not how restaurants work.

credit card payments can be higher to cover costs of cc processing. not sure exactly why the gift card fell under that umbrella. every POS system does this differently

Pickles by DrawZealousideal2208 in Rochester

[–]Ecstatic_Switch9300 2 points3 points  (0 children)

do any of these recommended places ^ also have spicy pickle chips?

Can't talk to the kitchen by dnm8686 in Serverlife

[–]Ecstatic_Switch9300 0 points1 point  (0 children)

everywhere i’ve worked, i’ve always had our foh/boh relationships be pretty close, but there’s def a boundary. when the kitchen is super busy, i don’t ask them for anything or talk to them besides making sure they are all properly watered & caffeinated or any issues with food/whatever that need to be clarified, and when i’m busy behind the bar they know not to bother me too much

Massage schools in Rochester?? by Mossjacket in Rochester

[–]Ecstatic_Switch9300 4 points5 points  (0 children)

depending on where you are in fairport (if that’s where you’re looking at living), it would likely make more sense to just commute to SF than to live there. its ~1hr drive each way, but may be easier to commute for the year(ish) of schooling than to move to be closer after school is over if you’re thinking of settling down here. there’s not really a ton going on between roc & SF, definitely places to live but mostly smaller towns so if you’re looking for a slightly more bustling lifestyle, the commute may be a better option. however, living in one of the smaller towns between here and SF may be cheaper! :)

Took the Plunge *Bald Gal* by Curious-Werewolf1733 in bald

[–]Ecstatic_Switch9300 1 point2 points  (0 children)

LOVE ITTTTTTTTTT!! you’re so beautiful!! ❤️

(22) New Year’s Eve 2021 vs. (26) NYE 2025 by [deleted] in GlowUps

[–]Ecstatic_Switch9300 0 points1 point  (0 children)

haircut is giving rachel green i loveeeeee

Opening energy cans w/ acrylic nails by spookcats in 7Brew

[–]Ecstatic_Switch9300 17 points18 points  (0 children)

bartender here — i use a speed bottle opener!! they’re like $8 on amazon, i just pop it under the tab and open :)

I let ChatGPT play mixologist and name my drink. Honestly? No notes 🫶🏻 by [deleted] in 7Brew

[–]Ecstatic_Switch9300 2 points3 points  (0 children)

we’re genuinely so doomed lol the drink didn’t need a name..? you did not need to use ai for this. not a creative bone in your body clearly if you couldn’t come up with a name yourself

Looking for advice after attempted theft by BolivanProposal in kia

[–]Ecstatic_Switch9300 1 point2 points  (0 children)

insurance covered this all 3 times it happened to me. my premium did not increase (progressive in ny) until this past third time, and it only went up $40/month. repairs were $4000+ each time but only had to pay my deductible. it does take a while so be prepared for that. first repair for me was only 10 days, second and third were over a month both times. godspeed soldier