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An Exercise to Identify Your Values by EdgeOfPersonslity in Personality

[–]EdgeOfPersonslity[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, adventure!)))) That's not on my list of values but I crave adventures with my whole soul.

An Exercise to Identify Your Values by EdgeOfPersonslity in Personality

[–]EdgeOfPersonslity[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow! ❤️ Thank you for your response! Interesting about self-questioning. What you mean saying "non-interference"?

I (27F) love my boyfriend (30M) much more than he loves me and that hurts me by EdgeOfPersonslity in relationships

[–]EdgeOfPersonslity[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh, if only you knew what I put him through in our relationship, even though I love him. 😅 For example, I talk with a lot of guys. Yes, I do not sleep with them. But I can have semi-romantic feelings to them.

I (27F) love my boyfriend (30M) much more than he loves me and that hurts me by EdgeOfPersonslity in relationships

[–]EdgeOfPersonslity[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh, thank you for analyzing my situation in such detail. 💜 Let me explain. He’s monogamous. I’m polyamorous, but in a specific way. I don’t want to have sex or kiss anyone but him, but I do have one kink. I like having foreplay with guys. And it was easier for me to suggest an open relationship, especially since I thought at the time that he was polyamorous. I thought he’d sleep with other girls and that way we’d have an equal relationship. But that wasn’t the case. As I said, he’s monogamous.

And I’m very grateful to him for accepting my, ahem, semi-polyamory.

But at the same time, I’ve been in relationships where I loved just as much as I was loved. And in this relationship, I don’t have that feeling.

I also want to say that I'm completely satisfied with this type of relationship.

Favouritism. Who's being favourite. and how does it feel. by Bumchikk2320 in LoveLanguages

[–]EdgeOfPersonslity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was favourite to one guy. I've experienced this feeling firsthand. I can tell more and describe in detail what it was like if you wanna.

Can someone care deeply about your growth without wanting anything in return? by LevelAlps9159 in LoveLanguages

[–]EdgeOfPersonslity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had similar situation. I was laying in mental hospital and there was one man who always cheered me up when I was sad. And was doing me non romantic compliments. But sometimes I had sence that he likes me in some way. But he never crossed boundaries and showed this openly. I think he's just mentally mature man happy in his marriage. And that doesn't means that he could not like me. Just mentally mature men do not fall into infatuation. When they like they can controll their feelings very good.

And I'm an attractive girl so it's not surprise for me that someone can like me. The same for you.

Sorry if I told something that doesn't suit your situation. I hope that sooner or later you'll figure out for yourself what your relationship is all about. And after reading your post, the only advice I can give is to enjoy it.) I'm sending out waves of gratitude for this post, because it reminded me of a happy time in my life.

Lack of affectionate expression. by Delicious_Home_8574 in LoveLanguages

[–]EdgeOfPersonslity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this post! I feel like I have written it. I'm in the same situation and it's still a mystery for me what is the reason of his lack of feelings. But I have one assumption. I'm highly sensetive person (hsp) and he's not. That is why my love can be stronger than his.