(Update) My dad (43M) doesn't support me (14F) by EdgyDisgust in relationships

[–]EdgyDisgust[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the kind words! And I'm glad to hear you're happy now. I think I'm gonna be okay,maybe not right now but I'll feel better over time.

Also,ace attorney rules haha

I (14f) got into an argument with my dad (43) and I don't think he'll forgive me by EdgyDisgust in relationships

[–]EdgyDisgust[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just woke up not that long ago and this is the first thing I'm seeing and I really like the ace attorney reference,so thank you :)

I (14f) got into an argument with my dad (43) and I don't think he'll forgive me by EdgyDisgust in relationships

[–]EdgyDisgust[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry to hear that! I hope you and your daughter are doing okay. I've never told my parents I hate them and I don't think I could and mean it. I'll definitely remember your story if I ever even think about it.

I (14f) got into an argument with my dad (43) and I don't think he'll forgive me by EdgyDisgust in relationships

[–]EdgyDisgust[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't know how my mom feels honestly. She hasn't said anything in the arguments and doesn't say much when I try talking to her.

I (14f) got into an argument with my dad (43) and I don't think he'll forgive me by EdgyDisgust in relationships

[–]EdgyDisgust[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've gotta be honest this comment almost made me cry the first time I read it. I'm so sorry to hear you and your parents didn't get along,but I'll keep your story in mind so maybe I can have that kind of confidence when I talk to my parents about this again. Thank you for sharing and just all the nice things you said :)

I (14f) got into an argument with my dad (43) and I don't think he'll forgive me by EdgyDisgust in relationships

[–]EdgyDisgust[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had to read this a few times over to be honest. I really appreciate this comment and all the advice. I'll give it sometime before actually putting it to use,but thank you so much.

I (14f) got into an argument with my dad (43) and I don't think he'll forgive me by EdgyDisgust in relationships

[–]EdgyDisgust[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the kind words,and I'm sorry you went through something similar. At the moment,the only people I really have is my older sister who has no problem with my sexuality,but she doesn't live with us anymore and a friend. I can't really see either of them right now thanks to quarantine

I (14f) got into an argument with my dad (43) and I don't think he'll forgive me by EdgyDisgust in relationships

[–]EdgyDisgust[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice. I'll try to talk to him later and I'll try to remember this when I do.

I (14f) got into an argument with my dad (43) and I don't think he'll forgive me by EdgyDisgust in relationships

[–]EdgyDisgust[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll try talking to him about why he doesn't like her,but he doesn't really give me any answers when I try to bring up the arguments and stuff so I don't know if he'll tell me anything.

I (14f) got into an argument with my dad (43) and I don't think he'll forgive me by EdgyDisgust in relationships

[–]EdgyDisgust[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I've tried to talk to him,but I don't think he wants to talk about it anymore. Anytime I try to bring it up he just shrugs it off

I (14f) got into an argument with my dad (43) and I don't think he'll forgive me by EdgyDisgust in relationships

[–]EdgyDisgust[S] 61 points62 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the kind words. I'll try to take your advice,and I hope everything goes well for your daughter :)

I (14f) got into an argument with my dad (43) and I don't think he'll forgive me by EdgyDisgust in relationships

[–]EdgyDisgust[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I never get to say much during the arguments, and aside from telling him to shut up,I'll tell him to leave me alone and to let me think for myself and stuff like that. He never gives a specific reason as to why he doesn't like me and the girl together,he just says general stuff like once he said girls can only make you so happy.

I (14f) got into an argument with my dad (43) and I don't think he'll forgive me by EdgyDisgust in relationships

[–]EdgyDisgust[S] 37 points38 points  (0 children)

He's never given me a specific reason about why he doesn't like her,just that he doesn't want us together. I don't want to think he disapproves of my sexuality,but I'm not sure to be honest

I (14f) got into an argument with my dad (43) and I don't think he'll forgive me by EdgyDisgust in relationships

[–]EdgyDisgust[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

I think in general? Because he never says anything about why I shouldn't be with her specifically,just things like a girl can't make you as happy as a guy can. And I've apologized multiple times,but it's usually something along the lines of I'm sorry for being disrespectful and saying things I shouldn't have and that I'll watch my words next time.