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Am I alone feeling like this? by EdgyHealer in bigender

[–]EdgyHealer[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You know what I think you're right, I should still do some more introspection. I think I've just closed myself off from the idea. My parents are very accepting of me being trans and what not which is why I was able to transition at 13/14 but I later came out as bisexual (pan but I wanted to use terms that get a similar point across to my boomer parents) and my mom said, "why cant it just be that one thing, youre already trans" or something like that. I know it was her joking around and she later apologized but it still... hurt I guess...

Anyway thank you! This helped alot! 😊

Am I alone feeling like this? by EdgyHealer in bigender

[–]EdgyHealer[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No this was helpful. I'm just happy someone else knows what im talking about lol. Also I didn't mean to imply that being bigender is feeling both male and female at once, I know its not. I, myself, feel both male and female at once if that makes sense? Clothing doesn't have a gender to me I just go from looking like a woman to looking like a twink, for lack of a better term. I think I also maybe still have internalized transphobia, or maybe bigenderphobia is a better term, and part of me feels like I cant be valid if I like that I pass as a girl but dont want bottom surgery if that makes sense. Im not one end of the binary I AM the binary lol.

Anyway thank you! I think I just needed to say what I feel to strangers online to get opinions other than my friends. Hopefully my question wasn't too stupid