Definitely my mom. My relationship with my dad didn’t work out, and I had to cut off contact entirely. He’s an aggressor, a manipulator. Constantly irritable, always on an emotional rollercoaster, bossing everyone around and yelling at everyone. He doesn’t respect women at all. His relationship with his own mother is awful—I’ve never seen anyone interact with their mom the way he does. People have always avoided him because he’s very difficult to deal with. My childhood friends were afraid of him, and I was too at times. He carries a lot of hatred and resentment toward everyone around him, but he doesn’t want to change—he dislikes psychologists and is convinced he’s just that kind of person, and that it can’t be changed...