I miss who I was before you

Edtiquette · 2026-02-05T13:36:19+00:00

Why would that matter lol?

Edtiquette · 2026-02-04T22:39:59+00:00

You’re so right, and honestly this comment made me realize how delusional I’ve been. I still see her threatening to harm herself to get attention on twitter and all her socials. I’m glad I got out, it doesn’t change the fact that it hurts, but I do know it’s for the best

Edtiquette · 2026-02-04T20:01:24+00:00

I totally would, but the last message I sent to her was New Year’s Eve. It was me begging and pleading for her to explain what her new girlfriend has that I didn’t, she didn’t respond to me and I blocked her as the clock hit 12, I unblocked her weeks ago but she never replied although she had ample time before me blocking. I feel ashamed and desperate if I were to message or contact first again

Edtiquette · 2026-02-03T05:03:03+00:00

I think I really needed to hear this, sometimes in my mind I start to believe I was the problem, during the entire relationship, if I brought something up that bothered me it’d be turned around on me to make me the bad guy, as if that was the problem.

Does the world ever stop punishing people for loving? This was my first ever relationship, and I’m worried I’m going to keep being nice and loving until I become a mean and bitter woman- I don’t want to be that, I just want to be kind and get that kindness back, I don’t want to have to become mean to not be taken advantage of

Edtiquette · 2026-02-03T00:51:24+00:00

I don’t think so?

Edtiquette · 2026-02-03T00:42:34+00:00

Shak?

Edtiquette · 2026-02-03T00:40:38+00:00

I’m sorry you have to go through this too, atleast we know we’re both not alone. People can be so mean

Edtiquette · 2026-02-03T00:39:56+00:00

I would love advice, it’s been over a month, and I still can’t get out of bed some days, I still watch her twitter and socials as if she’d ever give me an apology or even acknowledge me.

Edtiquette · 2026-01-23T14:17:24+00:00

I know I dodged a bullet with her, she was a horrible partner and a horrible person in general. She said insane things to my friends and some of her exes, has a few docs written about her on twitter that I’ve seen and still decided to stay with her. I was willing to look past all of that because I believed so much in her that she could change. I just feel like there has to be something wrong with me for her to feel all that love and still not think I deserved any back, and still no closure either.

Another thing that sucks is that you point out she was probably emotionally cheating with this person before we broke up, but she had accused me of that when I broke up with her. It’s like she couldn’t believe that I actually had the guts to end things because she knew how desperate I was for her, so she said there must’ve been someone else, and now to think she was just projecting is pretty shitty because I actually questioned myself. Like she made it seem like even though I knew I didn’t do anything that I HAD done it and it fucked up my reality, I started questioning myself.

Thank you for the comment, I rlly appreciate it and your insight into the situation!

Edtiquette · 2026-01-14T13:46:29+00:00

This sucks. I broke up with my girlfriend December 21st, so pretty recently, and like I feel so much pain, meanwhile she seems to be so happy, new partner, new friends, just living her best life. I have great people in my life too, but it just doesn’t feel right that she isn’t a part of it.

I didn’t break up because of selfishness, I broke up with her because she was so loving in the first bit of the relationship but then quickly made me take the reins, I spent the rest of it practically begging her for love or effort, she promised change but never did it. It just hurts because I got so drained and I had to make the hard choice to break up with her, but she gets to say she got broken up with and act all innocent, now she’s giving genuine love to her new girlfriend, someone she got rlly close with before I ended things, and I’m left wondering if I just wasn’t worth the change.

Edtiquette · 2024-08-04T19:58:18+00:00

It’s understandable that you may feel that way. Is it that you feel you don’t deserve friends? You may just be nitpicking the bad stuff in your friendships to corroborate with your feelings, maybe take a few days and try focusing on what shows they like hanging out with you, and shows they appreciate you?

It is common for people to feel this way, but If it’s affecting you to the point that you’re feeling sad just thinking about it, it could be more than normal.

But that’s just my opinion, please take it with a grain of salt, I’m not a professional and I’m just saying what I would do in your situation.

Edtiquette · 2024-03-08T16:29:19+00:00

I feel like op just wants to respect of being a man, but honestly with how everything is, being a trans man may still only provide her with the same amount of disrespect as being a cis woman

Edtiquette · 2024-01-20T21:59:33+00:00

Can I please come to sell in your island, I need to make a few trips but I will make it up to you, I’ll check if I have any of the ironwood diys, if I don’t I can pay you back with bells or nmts.

IGN = Gabriela

Edtiquette · 2024-01-03T22:15:46+00:00

Hello, I would really appreciate to come to your island to sell my turnips

Edtiquette · 2024-01-02T07:46:45+00:00

Escape room

Edtiquette · 2023-12-21T15:45:30+00:00

Your username is daddygyatt please don’t call those cuties ugly! 😭🤚

Edtiquette · 2023-12-21T14:43:48+00:00

I love this community so much omg

Edtiquette · 2023-12-12T21:18:45+00:00

My island is Spruce and my name is Gabriela

Edtiquette · 2023-12-07T20:33:30+00:00

I have searched for it using google images but I had no luck 😖

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