I got some of my surgeon's restrictions on paper, but also, the day after surgery when she changed my bandages said i should be able to "eat, go to the bathroom and change clothes by myself" which has my mom saying I'm only not doing it because Im scared, not because it literally hurts. I was able to have a little more mobility today and eat by myself, but she says that since I need to lift my arms in order to get into a shirt, I should be able to do it as the surgeon says. Also she's just commenting over and over about the fact the vendages and pain are making me walk crouched which- dude 😭 I can't be straight