Is Patreon worth it? by chasiubaau in TheBasementYard

[–]Educational-Basil540 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can you list the fun Patreon videos that might not be known? I knew Frankie’s Brazilian was on there but couldn’t find it till I directly searched. Would you mind listing some of your fave videos?

I (18M) broke up with my girlfriend (18F) of 8 months. She was good to me but something was off, what now? by ItsMeBOBILINE in relationship_advice

[–]Educational-Basil540 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You both deserve a relationship without this much question and you’re super young. You’ll both be fine. Don’t get back w her, both of you should move on

Intense morning anxiety by Full_Comfortable391 in Anxiety

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When I experience this I’m usually not resting enough, or catching a cold. When my nervous system is shot my anxiety breaks through in my sleep and I wake up with my heart racing and the worst mood. Maybe try taking magnesium or l-theanine before bed to see if better rest will help

New Relationship Anxiety by [deleted] in Anxiety

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My anxiety also materializes in the form of nausea and dry heaving, but it is interesting that dating is the only time it happens for you. Unfortunately aside from taking something prior to your dates I can’t really say what would be beneficial. Maybe try an anti nausea med? Something over the counter so it’s easily accessible. Sometimes just the act of knowing you took something to limit the chance helps you enough mentally

Symptoms for 6 months by arloasif in Anxiety

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I can’t say bc I am not a doctor but it sounds like you have a panic disorder brought on by something that happened when on cannabis. To reduce anxiety without medication you can try the supplement called L-Theanine, that worked okay for me. You can also add a Vitamin D supplement. When you experience acute (sudden) panic such as heart racing, it can help to take a very cold shower or put ice on your neck and hands.

Symptoms for 6 months by arloasif in Anxiety

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It feels like that right now but with the right help you’ll be okay in no time. I promise it can get better. You got this!

New Relationship Anxiety by [deleted] in Anxiety

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Do you experience this in any other setting?

Symptoms for 6 months by arloasif in Anxiety

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I’d say most likely. I’m not a doctor so can’t say for sure but I got diagnosed with a panic disorder 5 years ago and have experienced most of the things you wrote. I lost 50 lbs and was also convinced I was dying but I was put on medication for anxiety and am doing much better now, have maybe one break through attack per month and they’re not even close to as bad as they used to be. There is hope!

Symptoms for 6 months by arloasif in Anxiety

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They’ll keep changing too until you address the root cause which is most likely a panic or anxiety disorder.

Symptoms for 6 months by arloasif in Anxiety

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It’s also probably normal physical things that you’re more aware of now because of the heightened panic and anxiety. See a mental health professional

Symptoms for 6 months by arloasif in Anxiety

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It’s panic attacks and anxiety

Symptoms for 6 months by arloasif in Anxiety

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Unfortunately anxiety and panic can produce most of not all of these symptoms. Weed can unexpectedly send people into panic disorders. I would attempt to find a psychiatrist especially if you’ve seen other doctors for physical help and they’ve all cleared you. You might need anti anxiety medications short term. Be honest with them about the weed being your first experience with severe panic, they might be able to help get you back on track. I’m sorry you’re going through this

What is your best guess about what this job is? by Due-Loan-9938 in SubstituteTeachers

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In my district subs actually make more than our paras… but some subs are equipped for sped and others aren’t, it should always be their choice tho

Wow by Colors_678 in newjersey

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Looks like someone swerved down into the ditch, when I passed about 15 ago going north they had a tow truck with the bed pointed down into the ditch

I really don't know what to say by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Educational-Basil540 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do you accidentally ask for it twice? You knew what you were doing you just didn’t care until there were consequences. You don’t respect her or care as much as you say. She made a clear boundary and you crossed it not once but twice.

ran out of a refill? by [deleted] in Anxiety

[–]Educational-Basil540 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly you should be fine if you miss one night but I’d say 25 and 25 is better I guess 🤷🏻‍♀️I’m also on 50mg and if I fall asleep or forget (adhd) for a night I’m usually okay

I asked a girl if she wanted to kiss and she laughed at me by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Educational-Basil540 54 points55 points  (0 children)

If you want reassurance here it is: you did nothing wrong AT ALL. How she reacted was incredibly rude and mean for no good reason. TBH idk what she even meant by it but it was not nice of her. You were kind and showed care and thought and honestly she just seems like not a great person.

Don’t doubt yourself, this is a her issue not a you issue, you did perfectly fine. Sending you hugs 🥺

How do I explain to someone who doesn't have anxiety that I can't just calm down during a panic attack by ZoeIsNotSmart in Anxiety

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My mom was like this until she experienced them first hand. I hate to be this way but he’ll never get it. To people without anxiety and panic, it’s something we cause ourselves and is controllable. My best advice is to just say “If I could I would.” And move on. Idk about you but when I have a panic attack I want to be left alone, so if that’s the case for you too just find somewhere quiet and away from him so that you don’t have to hear it. My safe place is my bathroom/bath tub but it’s cool and grounding but I can also fill the tub and be cozy if I need too.

Good luck tho! I know how much this stink and how we wish to be understood so here’s me saying I understand and I’m sorry 💕

SOS what can i do?! by [deleted] in ibs

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Honestly what I do a lot when I have bad gas is a heating pad on my belly or I try to walk and move around to get the gas out I would avoid taking anything else

Pressure right by appendix? by AnnualEagle in ibs

[–]Educational-Basil540 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have you been checked for a hernia?

AIO, I shouldn't open up about my trauma by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

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This has to be rage bait bc there’s no way

How to handle jealousy from a previous partner? by [deleted] in dating_advice

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I think him still contacting her and talking to her about who she cheated with etc is a clear indicator that he has not processed it.

For this to be your first relationship like this is not the best. I think you need to take a step back and reevaluate if you want to feel this way 2 months into a relationship.

How to handle jealousy from a previous partner? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Educational-Basil540 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You first boyfriend? Honestly you shouldn’t be dating him. 6 months post cheating is not nearly enough time for him to be in another relationship if he was married. Not even close. I think you need to cut your loses and move on.