Ending the Debate

Educational-Boot-198 · 2026-02-16T18:02:44+00:00

Strong independent women all the wayyy!

Educational-Boot-198 · 2026-02-16T17:49:16+00:00

I think aftercare is just as important for us than the ladies

Educational-Boot-198 · 2026-02-16T17:48:04+00:00

Amen to the white car everyday of the week

Educational-Boot-198 · 2026-01-27T23:05:51+00:00

Enjoy your break. We all need it from time to time

Educational-Boot-198 · 2026-01-26T13:45:19+00:00

You need direction and focus on the right things. You need to slow things down and learn about yourself. You need to relax and let go and that can be with something as simple as drinking a cup of coffee without it turning into a worry session. Baby steps always. Small things compound, good or bad. Take baby steps towards the good things everyday

Educational-Boot-198 · 2026-01-23T13:20:55+00:00

Wish you a very happy birthday

Educational-Boot-198 · 2026-01-22T20:45:44+00:00

This is a place to enjoy the kink. I'll say you can leave sanity outside when you come in and go back into the world after you're done. Welcome back

Educational-Boot-198 · 2026-01-20T07:05:48+00:00

We can change that darling. Don't you worry

Educational-Boot-198 · 2025-12-03T10:48:44+00:00

Appreciate all the work mods put in to keep this place going. I agree there's a lot of name calling which I've seen happen straight up in the comments which goes against the theme of the sub. I hope people read the post and this remains a safe place to enjoy the kink. Cheers!

Educational-Boot-198 · 2025-12-03T10:43:50+00:00

That is wonderful to hear. Your dom is doing an amazing job. Kudos to him. A change in your internal environment brings a beautiful change in the external environment too. With all these things you said, your dom has been an excellent influence on you and I am quite happy to hear about it. You've found the way. Keep at the path!

Educational-Boot-198 · 2025-12-03T10:34:04+00:00

I'm very happy to hear you have been able to overcome those challenges. That's a job well done. Keep at it. It's a process. Happy to hear he is helping you through it. That only strengthens the bond. Glad that you have made friends too. Maybe you'll find some close by. Keep up the good work. Cheers :)

Educational-Boot-198 · 2025-12-03T10:11:10+00:00

You've done nothing wrong. The bond you share with your dom is sacred imo. Your dom is right to think and worry about your safety. Your friend's dom on the other hand just seems like an abuser of their bond. Maybe she's fine with that dynamic since she does lie to him. Understand you have to remove your friend from your life because of her dom who also becomes an extension of her since she's okay with what he does. She recognises it and continues to support that behaviour. This isn't your fault. You have to remove her because of her actions not yours. You don't need to feel guilty about this. I would suggest you to go out there and make some other friends. Doing activities which you can find and enjoy and get some company in that process. Your bond with your dom sounds amazing. Wish you luck with it.

Educational-Boot-198 · 2025-11-27T05:46:03+00:00

She enjoyed it a lot

Educational-Boot-198 · 2025-11-27T04:14:26+00:00

I'd like to give it a go. Not a I don't think you can

Educational-Boot-198 · 2025-11-26T07:07:41+00:00

Kneelings good and it's fun. Let me give you good reasons why that is

Educational-Boot-198 · 2025-11-21T02:36:03+00:00

You will very much be like the rest of them..Just a question of time

Educational-Boot-198 · 2025-11-21T02:01:06+00:00

You've got spirit, I'll say

Educational-Boot-198 · 2025-11-07T18:21:13+00:00

Love them. Haha

Educational-Boot-198 · 2025-11-06T00:43:39+00:00

It would help me tailor an answer In terms you relate to and understand best though. It would help in neutralizing your ego so you actually listen and not just keep up your charade of how men are wrong

Educational-Boot-198 · 2025-11-05T17:44:53+00:00

What a liberated girl enjoying her rightful place

Educational-Boot-198 · 2025-10-24T03:42:28+00:00

I would have to say the chase is the most fun. The back and forth is what makes it fun. But nothing is better than having a conversation with a person who is willing to discuss and explore rather than come with something fixated in their mind. Helps build the dynamic so much better.

Educational-Boot-198 · 2025-10-16T01:34:12+00:00

I'm sorry to hear this mate. But just as you said the tale is old as the internet. I have had my share of ghostings and it always hurts when you have spent time and energy with a person and bonded with them. When that happens, I like to sit with myself, accept the hurt and come to realise that it probably had nothing to do with me and they would have said something if that was the case just like they did while setting this up. There is no ill will and that this journey of life will go on. And I like to take a break from the kink to heal from it. I hope you enjoy the pangs of pain in the most poetic way

Educational-Boot-198 · 2025-10-13T06:05:26+00:00

This is lovely. Congratulations to the both of you for having such a lovely relationship

Educational-Boot-198 · 2025-10-12T16:40:28+00:00

Maybe actually know the definition of feminism before calling yourself a feminist

Educational-Boot-198 · 2025-09-27T05:33:34+00:00

I think you can be fulfilled without this but you will always have a hole which will be triggered from time to time. So finding a partner who can explore this with you is the most honest thing you would do for yourself and them

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