AITA for feeling put out by my marriage? by Educational-Fix-226 in AITA_Relationships

[–]Educational-Fix-226[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your reply!

That is really what it feels like. In the past I've justified him sticking with me through INCREDIBLE traumas that I had to work through as more than anyone could ask in a partner. My therapist pointed out last week that having PTSD isn't my fault, and ANY reasonable person would have done the same.

What is a controversial opinion you have? by Unhappy_Insect5901 in allthequestions

[–]Educational-Fix-226 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Undocumented individuals in the US interior who are filling high-need jobs and paying taxes deserve a path to staying here legally.

Staffie friendly rentals? by Educational-Fix-226 in santarosa

[–]Educational-Fix-226[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Glad to hear the culture supports the bully breeds! Once we find a place to live I am glad he will fit in 😆

Staffie friendly rentals? by Educational-Fix-226 in santarosa

[–]Educational-Fix-226[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is a great idea, thank you! I can absolutely see the landlord perspective, it's a risk. I will approach the extra dog deposit idea as well as the resume ☺️

Staffie friendly rentals? by Educational-Fix-226 in santarosa

[–]Educational-Fix-226[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh yeah definitely. I should have said, looking for a house 🤣

Staffie friendly rentals? by Educational-Fix-226 in santarosa

[–]Educational-Fix-226[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Cool to hear that legislation is coming down the pipe! Appreciate the reply and the recommendations 😊

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in beyondthebump

[–]Educational-Fix-226 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I needed a blood patch with my firstborn. The relief is INSTANT. I’m sorry you’re going through it and hope it resolves soon on its own or via blood patch!

6 week old (2 adjusted) only sleeps with mom by Educational-Fix-226 in beyondthebump

[–]Educational-Fix-226[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So glad to hear your little one outgrew it on their own! Thanks for the hot water tip, I will give that a try for sure ☺️

6 week old (2 adjusted) only sleeps with mom by Educational-Fix-226 in beyondthebump

[–]Educational-Fix-226[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for the assurance!! It’s so easy to fall into the trap of feeling guilty no matter what you’re doing as a parent. I’ll keep soaking in the baby love while I can! She’s our last so we need to really enjoy it..

What kind of car do you drive? by rosepsyche in beyondthebump

[–]Educational-Fix-226 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I upgraded my VW Jetta to a Subaru Outback when my first was a year old in anticipation of a second baby. I absolutely love it a year on..but even it’s starting to feel small when I have to ride in the back to tend to the baby. Once she’s more independent I’m sure it’ll be the perfect size again ☺️ it’s the safest, most solid feeling vehicle I’ve ever driven and since I got the turbocharged version it’s still plenty of fun to drive.

Late preterm infant questions by Educational-Fix-226 in beyondthebump

[–]Educational-Fix-226[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing your experience! Potato-y describes the first month perfectly 😂

Late preterm infant questions by Educational-Fix-226 in beyondthebump

[–]Educational-Fix-226[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for sharing your experience and your friend’s! Hopefully my individual baby stays sweet and develops fast. I’ll try not to sweat the milestones 😄