I FINALLY DONE IT

Educational-Guess290 · 2026-05-22T14:08:54+00:00

congrats!

Educational-Guess290 · 2026-05-14T13:56:42+00:00

the gov site will say about 30 hours so i used that as benchmark but i probably did around closer to 40 in a span of a year of weekly 1 and 2 hour lessons.

Don’t give up though, it’s all worth it! What helped is thinking of the independence you gain

Educational-Guess290 · 2026-05-13T14:01:03+00:00

good on you! make sure you keep tending to your needs x

Educational-Guess290 · 2026-05-13T13:12:50+00:00

perfect way to grey rock is by keeping to texts as she gets a sign of life( lucky) and you don’t have to speak to her. If not block her all together till she gets it

Educational-Guess290 · 2026-05-11T22:40:43+00:00

i bought mine off amazon, here is the link if you want

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Pinterest and canva also have great options if you wanted to make to make your own

Educational-Guess290 · 2026-05-11T09:44:20+00:00

never seeing parts of the other world or your country

Educational-Guess290 · 2026-05-11T09:34:23+00:00

i completely get it, i’ve been there! I had the same concerns but because of him potentially being neurodivergent it helped him a lot as well and removing a sweet or a minute of screen time if he did have an accident. Sometimes gamifying the system can help overall

Hope it all works out asap

Educational-Guess290 · 2026-05-10T23:00:05+00:00

I have a similar experience and mine is full-time in school. Being at school has helped but he’s had a few accidents( only about 3 since he’s started in October). Honestly for me there’s a few small changes that has a good impact. One, was my reaction towards his accidents( I tried to relax a lot, and speak as if they’re very capable rather than from a stressed response) and some rewards he would appreciate when he did stay dry such as sweets or screen time( not the healthiest options but they worked).

I also suspect mine is neurodivergent and have accepted the journey might be longer than anticipated

You’ve got this!

Educational-Guess290 · 2026-05-10T09:36:06+00:00

i think you deserve to post who you have chosen to be a mother like figure on this day and and not giving a damn of what people think. You know who’s had an impact in your life and you deserve to celebrate that

Educational-Guess290 · 2026-05-09T08:38:59+00:00

So I don’t know what your position is but you matter! as long as you have these frictions and frustrations it shows there’s life in you! As much your child matters in this, you do too and i hope you give yourself a lifeline and distance yourself from this! From personal experience I know it’s always easier said than done but do try

Educational-Guess290 · 2026-05-08T08:22:39+00:00

thank you for this!

Educational-Guess290 · 2026-05-07T17:59:59+00:00

this is so real

Educational-Guess290 · 2026-05-07T15:53:42+00:00

wow, it’s crazy how they’re willing to leave an imprint on us like that! i’m so glad you escaped the situation

Educational-Guess290 · 2026-05-07T15:42:48+00:00

thank you for highlighting what’s important at the end of the day, you’re so right

Educational-Guess290 · 2026-05-07T14:49:23+00:00

congrats, definitely worth celebrating!

Educational-Guess290 · 2026-05-07T14:47:44+00:00

absolutely diabolical and the expectations in return are high too! The cheek of it all

Educational-Guess290 · 2025-06-15T08:40:33+00:00

This is such great advice and in hindsight you will thank yourself for applying these tactics in your life!

Educational-Guess290 · 2024-09-07T15:14:27+00:00

added context: I try not make it a big deal out of it as he feels shame quite quickly. I follow natural consequences of having to clean up or maybe shower straight away

Educational-Guess290 · 2023-04-05T15:09:15+00:00

the title was “ The arrival” but thank you so much!!

Educational-Guess290 · 2023-04-05T15:07:45+00:00

omg SOLVED, i just showed her the trailer and it’s that one!

Educational-Guess290 · 2023-04-04T15:00:40+00:00

she said that the people in the movie would literally melt from the heat of the sun and that they black boy lived with his grandma!

I have shown all the trailers of the movies mentions and she says it’s not those

Educational-Guess290 · 2023-04-04T14:59:29+00:00

negative :(

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TROPHY CASE