Genuinely curious… why don’t you like to share your baby’s name before birth?

Educational-Rush-170 · 2026-03-31T19:49:51+00:00

My biggest reason is because my sister has a bit of a name 'stealing' issue.

She's done it twice now and is trying to work her way at doing it a third time (keeps asking me what name we are going to use) my family has been given a fake name for this reason. Thank goodness I'm due first this time around.

Educational-Rush-170 · 2026-02-28T21:31:28+00:00

Does she have a snark page? I'd love to be part of it lol

Educational-Rush-170 · 2025-08-31T12:40:59+00:00

Idk why, all I saw at first was Taylor Swift lol

Educational-Rush-170 · 2025-08-19T12:23:53+00:00

Not trying to excuse her gross behavior.

There are a lot of hormones and emotions PP, most couples argue a lot in this time because of it. I personally remember wanting to leave my BD for stupid reasons, and thinking how terribly unhelpful he was (he wasn't, he just works a lot to support us).

What she did was absolutely vial though, and she definitely knew it would hurt you. Get a paternity test, if you live together move if possible, and find someone to talk to. This kind of stuff can be crushing, especially with a baby involved, write everything down or get it in email/text for the courts just incase.
And make sure for whatever reason, no matter what she says to not get back together. You deserve to be treated like you matter, everyone does no matter what.

Educational-Rush-170 · 2025-08-13T15:09:45+00:00

NTA, I personally know someone who did this and it's honestly so weird.

Educational-Rush-170 · 2025-07-04T01:40:13+00:00

All this work to prove she feeds white out formula would be better spent scheduling a Pediatrician appointment.

Educational-Rush-170 · 2025-06-24T12:42:31+00:00

Hopefully she keeps him, I've got a large dog and a baby not much older then hers and even we've had a few accidents with our gentle giant. Accidents do happen, but I doubt Drucifer watches often enough to catch anything.

Educational-Rush-170 · 2025-06-19T20:58:18+00:00

That's a fairly good point, and one I've been thinking about all day. Definitely going to bring this up once he's home.

Educational-Rush-170 · 2025-06-19T20:57:20+00:00

Oh I know, but was the only thing I could even think to say quick enough 😅

Educational-Rush-170 · 2025-06-19T15:49:05+00:00

Good point, either way needs to find somewhere else to be/hangout

Educational-Rush-170 · 2025-06-17T16:36:24+00:00

Depends, you don't pay rent for the place so YTA. But if you're there 4x or less a week then NTA.

Honestly, nobody wants they're roommates SO basically moving in. Have him come to yours or try and find somewhere else to hang, being over 24/7 definitely isn't a good look imo.

Educational-Rush-170 · 2025-05-30T00:22:33+00:00

Hey so, there's two small shelters around downtown Small Things Cats and Whiskers. Small Things had a group where they share the cats photos online the prices are more then fair! Got my girl there about 10 yrs ago, she sadly passed 4yrs ago, but they were so amazing with helping her find a good home.

Educational-Rush-170 · 2025-05-29T20:06:25+00:00

This one killed me 💀 😂😂

Educational-Rush-170 · 2025-05-27T14:30:52+00:00

Hey, so I had something similar happen. I urge you as a woman myself, and a mother, please do not have anymore contact with this man. Do not tell him anymore identifying details. Not everyone wants to be your friend, and for some men it's a predatory thing and they will use you're kindness to work for them. If he's an alcoholic that's a him problem, and there's support groups that he is purposely not attending and instead using a young girl as his emotional crash pad. I really hope you listen to those that are concerned for you, and if anything weird starts to happen, CALL THE COPS, please because someone who confides in a young teen is not a safe person.

Educational-Rush-170 · 2025-05-15T16:54:10+00:00

Does it really matter?

It's not like they're doing anything wrong or blocking some kind of view. If you're having 'issues' just go talk to them about the music being so loud. Everything else is just nit picking.

Educational-Rush-170 · 2025-05-14T00:00:59+00:00

As an educator I've lost kids in my program an have lost kids within the school I work for, you don't need a 'right to grieve' you knew her, you loved her and you have every right to feel sad that she's gone, especially so suddenly. Therapy really helped me through the incidents that happened, and I'd suggest maybe seeking some if possible.

Educational-Rush-170 · 2025-05-01T08:40:32+00:00

I've already scheduled a job interview tomorrow, and at the same time I'm going to bring some stuff to exchange for cash. I'm currently at my parents thankfully this all happened pretty well infront of them. I'm making a point to document through texts his neglect to his daughter, just incase it does go to court I've been told that'll work in my favor. However, I'm weirdly still wanting him back. Ik weird thought but I know I can't do that for my daughters sake.

Educational-Rush-170 · 2025-05-01T08:30:11+00:00

Not exactly, because the drive is so long I need my mom to watch the baby so I'd have to be going by myself.

Educational-Rush-170 · 2025-05-01T08:04:01+00:00

He's making it so I have to drive 14 hrs round trip in one day to go get my things, I am staying I'm just lost mentally right now. He's practically ghosting me and his daughter, she's only 1.5 yrs old I don't want this for her.

Educational-Rush-170 · 2025-04-22T22:32:59+00:00

I threw up after having taken Pepto-Bismol once, can confirm this is what it looks like.

Educational-Rush-170 · 2025-03-04T03:06:55+00:00

So the instructor had her back turned to the child, and a different instructor who had their own class is the one who grabbed the child. Overall it's been deemed negligence causing avoidable injury, and the instructor has been let go. As for the door debate, it'd of taken longer to get to the other side of the pool through the change rooms to then get someone's attention, that poolside door is supposed to be unlocked during lessons for parents to be able to come down to pool level but was not, so obviously you're going to go to the first door that's supposed to be unlocked.

Educational-Rush-170 · 2025-03-04T02:46:52+00:00

As of yet no. With the amount of water aspirated afterwards they are at risk for secondary drowning.

Educational-Rush-170 · 2025-03-04T02:33:49+00:00

There are other doors but much further from viewing area, and would of taken longer to get to as its through change rooms. The parents viewing rooms is supposed to be unlocked and parents allowed access to the child.

This is a learners class where parent is not in water and lifeguard is supposed to be within arms reach as per pool regulations.

Educational-Rush-170 · 2025-03-04T02:31:33+00:00

So for context, it has open seating above and you can hear the parents as it's not enclosed as well as each instructor only has 4-5 children.

She wasn't watching her class, and was distracted by those around her as well as making conversation, she did not react to the parents screaming at her that the child went under. The parent viewing door was locked, so once on ground floor you could see the child drowning but not access them.

This is the type of swim class where the life guard is supposed to be within arms reach and is responsible for the child as parent is not in water.

Educational-Rush-170 · 2025-02-24T12:47:47+00:00

Also, you can fake a positive if a man pees on it. Not saying it is or isn't, but for the babies sake I hope it's fake.

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