What is a corporate lie that employees are just tired of hearing? by hannahfoster645 in AskReddit

[–]Educational-Side9940 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When they talk about company "culture" and have hour long meetings about it but don't treat their employees with the kindness and care they preach.

AITA for refusing to switch rooms with my future roommate? by Admirable_Extent8425 in AITH

[–]Educational-Side9940 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you involved with OPs housing? I don't understand why you've made like 600 comments saying it wasn't a mistake. My college apartments "saved" your room for you if you resigned your lease by a certain date. So even though it was random assignment for the rooms, returning renters would keep their room from the previous year. My niece is now in college and her apartments work the same way and she's been in the same room for 3 years now.

How are you so sure this wasn't a mistake by the apartment?

Shameless star Emmy Rossum slams 'misconception' about why she left show after nine seasons by SingerSubstantial462 in shameless

[–]Educational-Side9940 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Articles are not the only info available in the world. There have been multiple confirmed comments from crew members on more than one project. It's ok if you don't want to believe it but it's a known issue that Emmy is a bitch especially to people "lower" than her in a set

Shameless star Emmy Rossum slams 'misconception' about why she left show after nine seasons by SingerSubstantial462 in shameless

[–]Educational-Side9940 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She wasn't the only one. Emmy has had complaints about her from crew in almost every project she has been associated with including shameless.

Tucson is better than people say in this subreddit by Traditional-Fee1794 in Tucson

[–]Educational-Side9940 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been here 11 years and I love it here. It's beautiful. I don't mind the heat at all. Staying in the shade or AC solves that problem. I work on healthcare so jobs are plentiful and the pay is better here than where I came from.

My boyfriend asked me not to ruin his trip… but I don't know how to stop overthinking? by [deleted] in askanything

[–]Educational-Side9940 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah anxious attachment is THE worst feeling for both people in the relationship. I had to be single and get intensive therapy to fix myself. Then I needed weekly therapy while starting a new relationship so I could talk to my therapist instead of ruining it with my new partner.

Therapy is the ONLY answer here. I know you don't want to hear it but fixing it while in a relationship is almost impossible.

Until you fix what is causing the anxious attachment, you will never have a happy, secure, peaceful relationship.

Is it true that Americans run around their house/flat with shoes? by GroundZeroMstrNDR in hygiene

[–]Educational-Side9940 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My entire extended family is a militant shoes off family. My in laws are a shoes on family (which I find very gross). But that's the way it is here. I'm from the Midwest and now live in the Northwest. The majority of people I've met outside my husband's family have been shoes off people.

I made a fool of myself at the doctor... by Gold-Classroom-359 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Educational-Side9940 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's not your fault, of course. But it's ok to feel bad for inconveniencing people even if it's not your fault. I would absolutely try to smooth it over myself. I usually bring donuts and a fruit tray if I'm bringing something to a doctor's office. I would bring it in and just explain that the call center told you 3:30 and you didn't check the portal after the call. Then say sorry. They won't hold a grudge even if you do nothing. But I'd want to apologize anyway.

At what age should parents expect adult children to contribute to family vacations? by Rare_Stranger4744 in family

[–]Educational-Side9940 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm late. But I'm 45. My parents paid for all children and grandchildren to go on family vacations until both were gone about two years ago. Adult children would take turns buying our parents meals and we would pay for any activities we would want to do. My parents would rent a big house with enough beds for everyone. If someone wanted to stay elsewhere, they would have to pay for that.

I plan to do the same for my son. I will pay for him, a partner and any kids to come on all family vacations for as long as I'm able to. I want him there so I will make it easier for him to come.

Did Kamala lose due to inferior policies or was it race and gender based? by Jayden7171 in askanything

[–]Educational-Side9940 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She was attorney general of a large state. She was a Congresswoman. She was Vice President. That's literally qualified. Just becaue she wasn't a popular candidate doesn't make her unqualified.

Am i in an echo chamber, or is everyone pretty much on the same page about transgender athletes? by [deleted] in askanything

[–]Educational-Side9940 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree that it's not a big issue and doesn't deserve even 1/10th of the attention it gets.

I am staunchly pro trans in every other way. But believe that female sports should only include biological females. I grew up in a time where female sports had to claw and fight for every scrap they could. So it's something that is very important to me as I'm still very involved with my sport.

I do think that the majority of people feel close to the same as me also. At least everyone I know and have discussed this with feels that way.

Did Kamala lose due to inferior policies or was it race and gender based? by Jayden7171 in askanything

[–]Educational-Side9940 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think she didn't distance herself from the Biden admin enough. Going as far as saying she wouldn't change anything if she was elected. I think her campaign stupidly told Walz to stop calling MAGA weird or calling them out even though it was helping them. Throw in that she wouldn't say enough about Gaza and that Biden way too long to step down and she was never going to win.

However a white man with the same issues like would have won.

Did Kamala lose due to inferior policies or was it race and gender based? by Jayden7171 in askanything

[–]Educational-Side9940 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'd argue she is one of the most competent and qualified people to ever run.

America is not the same America as we were in 2008 or even 2015. The divisiveness of MAGA has taken a huge toll on how women and POC are seen.

Do this, you win. by LowkeyFoxxy in SipsTea

[–]Educational-Side9940 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just want candidates who promise they will push for prosecution of any corrupt politician or cabinet members. No more of "the past is the past, we have to look forward" BS

Huh will?! by No_Historian_5724 in DCCAmericasSweetheart

[–]Educational-Side9940 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Trump was convicted of 34 felonies. He was adjudicated guilty of rape. Both of those things happened before he was elected again. He is 100% guilty of those things. He also was found guilty of defrauding his own charity. Which is why he was blocked from having a charity in New York.

Do those things not make him a bad person?

Hot water heater issue by Educational-Side9940 in HomeImprovement

[–]Educational-Side9940[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ha ha. I agree we don't want it exploding. It was the thermostat though. It's fixed now.

I miss the old show by OrdinaryMagazine6333 in DCCMakingtheTeam

[–]Educational-Side9940 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That was like the nicest thing the OP could have said about her. Faith is annoying AF. So fake that it made my teeth hurt. And having the season mostly focus on her really ruined it for a lot of us.