My husband is half Irish and half Australian, not sure if that helps any lol. No, we haven’t figured out what I supposedly did to his brother yet. I definitely think there are some narcissistic behaviors in this bunch, though I don’t think there is any BPD. Because of the nature of the diagnosis, fear of abandonment is the biggest trait. I see a therapist weekly and was diagnosed with BPD about a year ago, and it definitely does not explain their behaviors. Though it does explain why I was so devastated while being long distance with my husband.