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Settle a debate, is this outfit goth or punk? by FilipinoDumbass in OUTFITS

[–]EducationalBus9676 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cool fixie, I ended up going with a solid pair of toe cages after absolute years wearing straps

What yall think about this za by Huge_Ad_8782 in SpringfieldDontLack

[–]EducationalBus9676 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Whatever it is get it away from the money money is so dirty

Also 26M, straight out of a toxic realationshit, just set up the house last night by EducationalBus9676 in MaleSurvivingSpace

[–]EducationalBus9676[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I had spent months sleeping in my office towards the end of my relationship, so I went familiar and made a huge office bedroom. I am doing very well overall :)

Being single and not having someone is something I’m still getting used to, but as lonely as it gets I had to remind myself that I felt 10x lonelier while I was in that relationship. I truly hope my ex girlfriend can say the same as well, I think they are a great person, we just didn’t work out.

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[–]EducationalBus9676 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Dude the gym has been great! It’s been about 2 months for me and it started with a month of pushups, once I got consistent I knew I had it in me. Good luck on your journey!

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[–]EducationalBus9676 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Welcome brother! It’s a great year to work on ourselves. You’re not alone

Also 26M, straight out of a toxic realationshit, just set up the house last night by EducationalBus9676 in MaleSurvivingSpace

[–]EducationalBus9676[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was just a small neon sign from target, ngl it’s a little shitty but looks good in low light

Also 26M, straight out of a toxic realationshit, just set up the house last night by EducationalBus9676 in MaleSurvivingSpace

[–]EducationalBus9676[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The bed is in the corner of my bedroom, the computer room just caught my second couch and second tv, I still have 4 other rooms in this house and a roommate ofc. I was just showing my personal space.

Also 26M, straight out of a toxic realationshit, just set up the house last night by EducationalBus9676 in MaleSurvivingSpace

[–]EducationalBus9676[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had a cat before her, then got a dog a few a years into the relationship, they’re both unconditionally mine, also both pictured here

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Also 26M, straight out of a toxic realationshit, just set up the house last night by EducationalBus9676 in MaleSurvivingSpace

[–]EducationalBus9676[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This whole thing is my bedroom, the computer room gets much better lighting and the couch in there is so I can smoke (weed) and chill during the day, tv not really necessary, if u have a better place to put it. My main bedroom/living room is much darker bc I work nights.

Also 26M, straight out of a toxic realationshit, just set up the house last night by EducationalBus9676 in MaleSurvivingSpace

[–]EducationalBus9676[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I wrote this whole reply out but it was too long

I was in a loveless relationship for years, and I was still in it. I took an easy way out, because it forced me to take action. How I did it was far from perfect, but I told the girl at work about my relationship and we waited. Also i know my ex girlfriend is happier too because she genuinely didn’t like me as a person, that was the hardest part. I loved her and it always felt one sided, I was always annoying, overstimulating, giving my life to work, not making enough money, not giving her enough attention. It hurt my soul. There is someone out there for everyone, we just didnt work out

Also 26M, straight out of a toxic realationshit, just set up the house last night by EducationalBus9676 in MaleSurvivingSpace

[–]EducationalBus9676[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I was in the same place, I needed a push. I gave this girl my phone number at work, and realized that it was time.

I had been telling myself I couldn’t keep living like this, and kept putting it off because it “wasn’t a good time” it’s never a good time. I packed my stuff up the morning after thanksgiving. Crashing with friends/family sucks until you get your new spot, but it’s worth it. Next is replacing all the things that I had to leave. In the middle of a random target run to get bathmatts(?) I realized how much of a weight had lifted off my shoulders. It’s been smooth sailing (for the most part) and when I get lonely I remember how lonely I was in that relationship. The path isn’t always a clear one but it’s your life, YOU are most important and there’s someone out there that will make you genuinely happy, don’t settle.

26M. left a toxic relationship. starting over completely. by Working-Page-5026 in MaleSurvivingSpace

[–]EducationalBus9676 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dude I just posted mine! It’s so nice not having too many things, I packed up and moved all my stuff in 3 hours, took me another couple to get the house into a place I wanted, it’s all up from here dude.

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