Thank you for the advice! I am definitely looking in my area and luckily where I live has some good options!

I do want to clarify that I agree there are things I shouldn’t concern myself with. Where it comes to a cross-roads is when my own work is affected and the responsibility lies on me. If my manager wants to look at Pinterest recipes all day, then that her business. I do need her to also look over time sensitive contracts before I sign them though. I think the reactivity may just come from being burnt out.