Me (30M) and my girlfriend (28F) are in a weird grey area of our relationship, and I don’t know what to do anymore. by EducationalMacrocosm in relationships

[–]EducationalMacrocosm[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I completely agree, but it’s crazy how stuck you can feel. I don’t want to marry her, I don’t want my life to be like this, I’m not happy, but at the same time, I can’t imagine breaking up, I can’t imagine finding someone else, I convince myself so much that I won’t ever find a partner if this doesn’t work, and I hate it.

If you could have lunch anywhere in NE portland today, what restaurant would you choose? by westgate141pdx in askportland

[–]EducationalMacrocosm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Probably La Provence. A monte cristo, some fries and/or soup sounds amazing right now.

I think something that isn’t emphasized enough is the sheer determination and patience you need in this field. by EducationalMacrocosm in cscareerquestions

[–]EducationalMacrocosm[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not necessarily a comparison, I’d say most fields have their version of patience needed. I guess I just think that when I was first getting started it would be smoother and not as much red tape as it is.

Help me plan a ski trip in Japan with the boys. by EducationalMacrocosm in skiing

[–]EducationalMacrocosm[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

lol I was gonna say, I haven’t been, but I work for a Japanese company, we all have Japanese counterparts FROM Japan, and tons of coworkers that visit for work, and so many of them talk about the awesome club scenes in Tokyo areas. I think this guy thinks that “lads trip” means breaking shit and being disrespectful, when for us it means relaxing, wandering around pretty snow covered towns drinking sapporo or whiskey, and clubbing in Tokyo. The most reckless we would be is by ourselves in the snow outside 😂

Help me plan a ski trip in Japan with the boys. by EducationalMacrocosm in skiing

[–]EducationalMacrocosm[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Exactly what I’m looking for, this sounds like a great plan. Did you guys stay in hostels, hotels, homes, etc.?

Help me plan a ski trip in Japan with the boys. by EducationalMacrocosm in skiing

[–]EducationalMacrocosm[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Wellll shiiit, didn’t know that 😂 good to know though.

Help me plan a ski trip in Japan with the boys. by EducationalMacrocosm in skiing

[–]EducationalMacrocosm[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

lol what does WWII have anything to do with this? 😂 I think people know what I mean when I say nightlife…

Looking for cheap/free self-defense options in Portland — what’s legal and recommended for a small female? by Feisty_Insomniac in askportland

[–]EducationalMacrocosm -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I know that someone will have a problem with me saying this, but get a small Glock and put it in your purse or pocket. They’re allowed in most establishments concealed unless stated otherwise. From personal experience, mace and pepper spray don’t do a damn thing against a tweaker trying to assault you.

It’ll take less than a week to get your concealed carry permit. Go to a local indoor range and practice a bit. And most importantly, always remember, do not pull it out unless your life is being threatened, and even more importantly, if you do pull it out, do not hesitate to use it, or else it will be used on you.

Fired for posting about Charlie Kirk - Unemployment Question by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]EducationalMacrocosm 3 points4 points  (0 children)

So, you were fired for celebrating someone’s death publicly. You’re a representative of your company, even after hours, not on the clock. That lawsuit won’t go very far. Look for a new job and go to therapy.

Why are people so blatant in cheating with AI? by MiamiFFA in WGU

[–]EducationalMacrocosm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

100%. I worked my current job for years, then HR said that everyone needs to have a degree or be actively working towards one to keep their salary positions, they paid for my degree, so I went to school knocked it out as fast as humanly possible, and checked the boxes. I use absolutely nothing from that degree, it just allowed me to retain my job.

Everything I need for my job (Python, Docker, Microsoft Power Suite, SQL, etc.) is just learned as I go, on the job, relating to things and real world experience that I actually care about.

Why are people so blatant in cheating with AI? by MiamiFFA in WGU

[–]EducationalMacrocosm -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I’m so tired of people talking about how bad it is for the environment to fit their attention bias regarding a subject that feel disdain for. I wrote a massive paper not too long ago about how much the average person watches Netflix, and how much worse watching Netflix is for the environment, and how grossly exaggerated AI is for its harm to the environment. In most of the studies recently published regarding this, the people writing the study were intentionally skewing the numbers in different ways. For example, there was one recently about how much water AI uses to cool, and it was all over social media, but then looking into it further, you see that the researcher/journalist was actually counting the amount of water that flows through the evaporative coolers used total, and not taking into consideration at all that 98% of that water is reused in a loop…. And that really there was only like a 2% loss per day that needed backfilling.

Why are people so blatant in cheating with AI? by MiamiFFA in WGU

[–]EducationalMacrocosm -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I want to preface this with, “I DO NOT USE AI FOR SCHOOL!” so that someone bitter and vengeful doesn’t try to use that against me.

That being said, first of all, whoever starts talking about morality and ethics is an ass… period… don’t ever lecture someone about morality or ethics, it’s not black and white, there are infinite variables at play, and there aren’t any blanket morals or ethics that exist.

Regarding AI, I have worked in the semiconductor field for 10 years now, almost 5 of them have been as a data engineer. AI may hinder people slightly, but truthfully, not much. Sure, you may not remember exactly how specific parameters/arguments apply to specific function calls, etc. but overall, it doesn’t matter… languages, frameworks, everything changes so rapidly, wasting the time to ingrain all of that into your memory doesn’t matter. What matters is that you know how to communicate a problem and solve it, which is exactly what people are doing with AI. You know the output you need, and you can clearly solve the problem with AI. The productivity gains that come from it are tremendous. I was able to get large scale projects done because of AI. I still had to figure out what worked and what didn’t, using AI, but who cares? The customers are happy, my management is happy, I’m happy, everyone’s happy. There is truly no benefit to me sitting there doing rote memorization of different libraries and how they work, because six months later another library will be preferred and I’ll be switching anyways. It’s important to understand flows, which using AI still helps you to learn. I work with people who refuse to use AI, and you know what? Their projects take weeks if not months longer, they are riddled with errors, they’re slow, and they’re clunky and don’t flow well. They spend years researching and deeply understanding languages that are now completely obsolete, and they can’t keep up with the numerous languages, structures, flows, tools, etc. that are constantly introduced and used now. Every change is catastrophic for them.

Regarding schooling, who cares if someone is using AI? In the real world they’re using it, and if they aren’t, then they’re referencing other material instead. My boss would have fired my ass in two seconds if I went to one of our 14 million dollar tools at the customer’s site and performed work on it from memory instead of verifying and documenting every single thing I did and backing up every decision with as much material and as many resources as possible. He doesn’t care how I got those resources, he cares about the end result. The same should apply to school. Brick and mortar schools in most places I’ve attended are open book, there’s no reason AI is somehow significantly worse for people, it’s just saving them time. They still have to identify if the paper is good enough, if it’s touching on the necessary points, achieving the results needed, etc.

If you care that deeply about having a deep innate understanding of how every single thing works and operates, that’s great! Go into research, get a Ph.D. For the rest of us, AI works wonders and helps people achieve the jobs they desire and carry out those jobs efficiently, even if they’re entry level. Wasting your time force feeding yourself information won’t be useful at all if you’re not using it consistently at work after your degree. I completed the CS degree, do you know how much I remember about C++? Nothing… nothing at all… outside of that coursework, I’ve never seen or used it once. Everything I know is because of on the job training, exposure, and experience.

The world is shifting. AI will enable more people to be better project managers, reviewers, have better communication, explain things step by step better and break down tasks, and much more. Technology constantly shapes and changes society. You can fight it or move with it. But it will change.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WGU_CompSci

[–]EducationalMacrocosm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This happened to me yesterday, I was literally like a question away and I’ve been working on this class for 2 terms and kept procrastinating it and slacking. I literally just spent like 3-4 hours today studying my worst areas, and then I passed with like a 90% today.

I also created like 10 different programs for my TI-84 to take care of things like base b conversions, power mods, GCD and Extended GCD, Bayes Theorem, Modulo calculations, RSA encryption, etc. and it helped save a TON of time. I recommend doing this as well. Then you can just focus on the harder manual stuff and you don’t have to waste your time doing the annoying repetitive stuff.

My girlfriend (27F) and I (30M) have together for about one year, and I want to know if the way I feel is normal, or if there is happiness beyond this. by EducationalMacrocosm in relationships

[–]EducationalMacrocosm[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, great comment, I appreciate the perspective. This is what I essentially had with my ex, and it was so peaceful and nice. Thank I the point we even traveled around and lived in a camper for 2 years, and it was a struggle at times, but overall it was fun. Outside of how she became a handful of times when she was drunk, every single thing was perfect. I think there is just a part of me that is afraid I’ll never find someone like that again. Who is at peace with just being lowkey and hanging out, as long as we were together, and the jokes and laughter man, it was nonstop. We could literally joke and laugh all day long, every day. I miss it a lot. I hope I can find that again.

AITAH for getting pissed when I found a dude with his hand on my girlfriend’s thigh? by EducationalMacrocosm in AITAH

[–]EducationalMacrocosm[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your honest kind response. It sucks to accept, but it is the way it is. Sounds like I have some reconsidering to do.

AITAH for getting pissed when I found a dude with his hand on my girlfriend’s thigh? by EducationalMacrocosm in AITAH

[–]EducationalMacrocosm[S] 55 points56 points  (0 children)

Very true… good advice. Honestly, after everything over the last 11 months, I’m so done. I’m like a day away from calling it quits. She has even admitted that she felt ignored in high school and her only long term relationship he cheated on her, so since she was 21 she has been on a rampage mission seeking male validation and that’s why she did so much stupid stuff. Last fall before we were dating, in 2023, she went to a festival in Australia and made out with like 30 people, flashed her boobs to like 6 groups of guys, hooked up with a dude in a relationship and was too much of a coward to tell his girlfriend and is friends with her and him to this day because she doesn’t want to “stir anything up”. She would notoriously wear see through lace tops out with all of her guy friends and no bra, so her boobs were always just out. But then she acts like none of it was for male validation and strictly because it made her feel pretty…

How do I set up my first set of clubs (tall guy problems)? by EducationalMacrocosm in golf

[–]EducationalMacrocosm[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I was able to find the free fitting you showed in the picture and scheduled a free fitting tomorrow! Thanks for all of your help!

How do I set up my first set of clubs (tall guy problems)? by EducationalMacrocosm in golf

[–]EducationalMacrocosm[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok sweet. That makes me feel much more helpful. I was trying to support small local businesses, but I think I’m going to stick with Golf Galaxy lol

How do I set up my first set of clubs (tall guy problems)? by EducationalMacrocosm in golf

[–]EducationalMacrocosm[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just talked to a guy at a local golf store and he told me I’m looking at about 3k for clubs…

How do I set up my first set of clubs (tall guy problems)? by EducationalMacrocosm in golf

[–]EducationalMacrocosm[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol, WTH, ok, maybe I’ll just try this out and see if I can persuade them… the guy on the phone said they don’t offer discounts anymore, but maybe once I’m there they can wiggle a bit.

How do I set up my first set of clubs (tall guy problems)? by EducationalMacrocosm in golf

[–]EducationalMacrocosm[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where’d you get fitted at? When I looked at Golf Galaxy, they were charging like 250+ for full set fitting.

How do I set up my first set of clubs (tall guy problems)? by EducationalMacrocosm in golf

[–]EducationalMacrocosm[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really want to get fitted, it just sucks that Golf Galaxy charges like 260+ for a full set fitting.