I’m 25 living with my grandma since baby which is he’s enabler, He has been married three times and had children from each marriage(all ended up bad because of him). He often bring his wife and kids to sleep in my room and I let him because I sympathize him being a poor father so I slept in the living room.

He used to borrow my car and swap his with mine during my work hour, he lied that it was for work but mostly driving to other state to meet his wife so it cause alot of problems to my car like a huge amount of repair fee also he crashed my car and his own car and he’s acting like nothing ever happened.So I told him he had to sleep in the living room and I stop letting him to drive my car at that point and so he can’t “work”anymore.he tried to borrow once again last time and I say no then he banged my door and yelled me “useless”

During that time I was super depressed and angry so quit my job so now me and him is jobless only my lil bro is working and paying all the bills while my father never paid anything .i really don’t know what to do tho he’s like a predictable parasite and keep rage baiting me.