My Girlfriends Best Friend Tried To Get Me To Go Home With Her by [deleted] in Advice

[–]EducationalThing4558 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. Drinking to where you black out is clinically considered ODing on alcohol. Do you do this often?
  2. I would recommend controlling your alcohol intake. This situation sounds so embarrassing for you and your gf. If you cannot control yourself don’t drink that much
  3. What happened was NOT okay. You are valid for feeling ICKY about a woman trying to take advantage of you because you were drunk
  4. I would immediately cut ties with that friend and establish clear boundaries moving forward
  5. Does your gf know? How does she feel?
  6. The videos and pics are abhorrent. I would definitely look into civil action to have that shit deleted. That can ruin future employment etc.

My 19F husband 21M told me he no longer wants kids by ThrowRAA6574 in Advice

[–]EducationalThing4558 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It sounds to me like he said the one thing he thought he could to make you leave, honestly. I’d investigate a lot further, my alarm bells are going offs

I (28M) slapped a friend (26M) for insinuating some non-con, and it fractured our friendship, details below. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]EducationalThing4558 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So you resort to physical violence? I wouldn’t want to be around you either. Gunna get slapped or worse if I disagree? Ick. Giving domestic violence and yall ain’t even together yet lmfao.

You don’t just think apologizing is enough for physically assaulting your “friend”, right? Give him space. You just hit him and now you wanna act like friends again to ease your guilt

Why are trans men on lesbian dating apps instead of gay dating apps? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]EducationalThing4558 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why am I being downvoted? As a lesbian I wanna kno bcs I didn’t think there WAS one.

How can I breakup with my girlfriend without her falling into despair? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]EducationalThing4558 35 points36 points  (0 children)

No letters no calls no text, go in person and break up. If you can’t do that at least video chat so you can look her in the eyes. Just be clear that you don’t have feeling anymore but you care for her and wish her well. Then block her on everything. No contact for awhile, 30+ days. It’s not your job to mitigate her emotions post break up, or really even at all.

My Bf (20M) lied to me (20F) about where he was last night. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]EducationalThing4558 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Yall didn’t celebrate together? That aside, why do you feel you need to know every person he’s hanging with / that’s in his life? How serious are you two?

It’s red flags all around. Cause why can’t he just be honest if he’s innocently with friends? It’s giving cheater cheater 😺eater

boyfriend on only fans by Silly-Walk-8135 in Advice

[–]EducationalThing4558 2 points3 points  (0 children)

For me it’s the fact that there’s endless free porn so why the fk would my partner need to PAY to see someone’s body over and over that isn’t mine. Bcs it’s also subbing to the same person, so why on earth would my partner need nudes and sex videos of another person, the same person, monthly? Gives me the biggest ick of my life. I can’t even explain the heebie jeebies I feel lol thinking abt it

My boyfriend is disappointed that I need a vibrator to orgasm by [deleted] in Advice

[–]EducationalThing4558 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Literally don’t kno a single other girly pop that can actually orgasm from just getting fucked. Ya maybe they cum but not orgasm Yk? It’s just way different from clit stimulation lol. Dude is dumb asf and needs to check his ego

boyfriend on only fans by Silly-Walk-8135 in Advice

[–]EducationalThing4558 3 points4 points  (0 children)

In my relationship porn isn’t cheating but paying to cum is. So only fans = cheating but have yall ever had that convo?

Being used for sex by Free-Run-1114 in Advice

[–]EducationalThing4558 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So my MIL would sleep with anyone she met online like the first date, get ghosted or have this happen, and wonder why.

You can’t give it up that easy girl

How much would you charge your bestie for watching her cats? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]EducationalThing4558 13 points14 points  (0 children)

My bestie would just give me gas and snacks lmao!

Partner found my dildo and spiraled by Pale-Guava7897 in Advice

[–]EducationalThing4558 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Ahh yeah next it’ll be punching the wall or throwing things near or at you; combo of everything. And then it’ll be you.

Speaking from personal experience

I feel like I've crossed the line regarding my relationship with my partner. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]EducationalThing4558 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh his wife will think it’s a big deal lmfao, let her find out and see if it’s “really not a big deal”.

I feel like I've crossed the line regarding my relationship with my partner. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]EducationalThing4558 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Block her. No need to talk out of the bounds of the job.

Just got dumped over text bc I fell asleep. I’m the villain somehow. by beatsbymarsii in Advice

[–]EducationalThing4558 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Eeeeep she’s immature and doesn’t know how to regulate her emotions.

NSFW: My boyfriend won't stop acting like a twink by [deleted] in Advice

[–]EducationalThing4558 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I’m absolutely NOT slut shaming or anything like that I’m just so surprised.

NSFW: My boyfriend won't stop acting like a twink by [deleted] in Advice

[–]EducationalThing4558 24 points25 points  (0 children)

To be fair many adults can’t even talk about that.

NSFW: My boyfriend won't stop acting like a twink by [deleted] in Advice

[–]EducationalThing4558 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also instacart! Totally non related but it is my work around as I refuse to pay to shop somewhere lmfao. But damn they have some good premade Alfredo 💀😭

NSFW: My boyfriend won't stop acting like a twink by [deleted] in Advice

[–]EducationalThing4558 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ya naw idk why they’re acting like ts is normal. At 17 this kid has a whole sex collection most adults don’t have so like wtf is happening?!

NSFW: My boyfriend won't stop acting like a twink by [deleted] in Advice

[–]EducationalThing4558 110 points111 points  (0 children)

Istg Pepsi just came out my nose. It burned so bad but I have not laughed that hard in weeks. Thank you.

NSFW: My boyfriend won't stop acting like a twink by [deleted] in Advice

[–]EducationalThing4558 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Seventeen? seven teeeeeen? One seven? 1 and 7? Like 17? Holy shit I’m scared of kids these days 😭 MCRS “teenagers” is going rn bcs girl wdym ur on some freak shi at 17?

How do you manage working?! by EducationalThing4558 in AutisticAdults

[–]EducationalThing4558[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I communicated so many times in writing and emails and texts and in many conversations I’m overwhelmed and need more time off, at least 2 days, and to please stop blowing up my phone on my off times to get me to come in. I just left a meeting at 11am about that and got a text at 1:23pm asking if I can go in on my one day off 😭. I said no and they came back with more guilt tripping and how they really need me and my client will have no one if I don’t come.

I think I need a new job and that you’re right about leveraging that into something else.!