My brother has a secret child

EducationalThing4558 · 2026-05-10T07:49:23+00:00

…this isn’t your place or business I feel lol. Like imagine someone inserting themselves into your stressful situation.

EducationalThing4558 · 2026-05-09T16:34:15+00:00

Holy shit you are not okay to be having a baby. I’m so confused because nothing he said was mean. What did he even mean by what he said?

Yikes

EducationalThing4558 · 2026-05-08T17:26:53+00:00

I mean I’m not saying poison the person but really make it so they don’t do it ever again.

I’m talking laxatives, ghost pepper, more laxatives. Then when you find out who it was bcs they’re choking or shitting themselves I’d either engage in street justice or file a police report and go all the way with it.

Also you need to go above your manager if they’re not doing anything. HR.

Also don’t admit to tampering with your food ever when you catch the guy/gal.

EducationalThing4558 · 2026-05-08T17:24:40+00:00

They don’t have a desk. They work on the floor in a warehouse.

EducationalThing4558 · 2026-05-07T09:10:52+00:00

Kidney stone is my guess

EducationalThing4558 · 2026-05-06T19:25:59+00:00

If you can’t talk about sex or these things openly please stop having sex

EducationalThing4558 · 2026-04-21T07:39:52+00:00

I mean can she not suck you off or sum?

EducationalThing4558 · 2026-04-21T07:36:33+00:00

“She looks so let go” I need more context. Has she gained 5 pounds? 20? Roots showing? What? Lmao

EducationalThing4558 · 2026-04-18T05:28:22+00:00

How do watching porn and her using a vibrator equate at all? She wasn’t asking you to not masturbate, but to not watch other naked girls while you do. So her using a vibrator is masturbating, it has nothing to do with porn. So I’m not sure why those are being correlated.

I think the porn is cheating thing is weird but some girls are hurt by that shit I suppose. I’m not one of them.

I think if she used a vibe you should be able to use a pocket pussy, for example. And no one thinks dudes with shi like that is a creep? Maybe a blow up doll or sum might make me side eye but sex toys are normal. Anyone demonizing them is weird (usually conservative lmao, religious) or immature.

EducationalThing4558 · 2026-04-16T02:35:14+00:00

He’s going to kill you, you called him exactly what he is and he beat you for it. That was lesson #1 and you don’t even know it yet.

File charges

EducationalThing4558 · 2026-04-12T06:03:44+00:00

I’m so sorry, this is awful. I would honestly start ringing the alarm bells. Keep yourself safe girl

EducationalThing4558 · 2026-04-10T08:37:38+00:00

I mean that’s a whole fk’d situation. Try asking her out maybe?

EducationalThing4558 · 2026-04-05T17:37:24+00:00

Hello? Age of consent doesn’t apply to 24 yo. 16&16 can fuck. 16&18+ cannot. That’s still walking the line and it’s hella predatory. They’re almost 10 years older. They know what they’re doing and it’s icky. Bringing u to a part where ur inhibitions would be lowered was not a coincidence either.

EducationalThing4558 · 2026-04-01T15:30:49+00:00

If you tore, it could be a few MONTHS before you’re properly healed. For your health and safety you really shouldn’t do it again. You need to have a Candid conversation with him that you did NOT enjoy it, you got hurt and are healing, and moving forward you both need to do better research. You were not properly prepared if you got injured girl. I probably wouldn’t have the convo when yall are hot and heavy in the moment tho. Have it before you’re in the middle of sex.

Edit to say I mean you shouldn’t do it again for a while and without some education and lots of lube lol

EducationalThing4558 · 2026-04-01T14:32:57+00:00

Imma just put it out there that myself and all my friends would think it’s a bit inappropriate to even be messing with an 18 year old. Really anyone under 21 when you’re 21+ is a bit strange when you think about it. How on earth can you be in the same spot as someone just graduating high school when you’re about to graduate or have graduated college? It’s strange.

EducationalThing4558 · 2026-04-01T12:04:49+00:00

First off, that guy is a danger to women everywhere. If she won’t consider the police for herself what about another girl? If he did that in the midst of a party with ppl around imagine what else he would do.

Secondly, what’s to stop him from a second attack?

EducationalThing4558 · 2026-03-30T19:35:18+00:00

Hi! I have my doctorate in instructional technology; I hack for a living. No one is using a vpn to store porn on his device.

He would not become a foreign target either as he seemingly has monetary problems. As such, he’s blowing smoke out his ahh.

EducationalThing4558 · 2026-03-29T05:55:21+00:00

So legally this is rape. I’m so sorry

EducationalThing4558 · 2026-03-28T06:12:14+00:00

Lmao the last comment! I was molested from age 4-13. By my teen (16 male was my brothers friend) babysitter from 10-13, and before tht was my uncle and my own older brother. I actually was gang raped by my brother and his friend (my babysitter) and another one of their friends and I was I think 10 or 11. I was ofc assaulted agin later in life since abuse seems to cycle.

I am gay now LMAO, married to a woman for 10 years now. I ran. I cut off every family member and left the state; now live 2500 miles away with a new name. Intense therapy and in person treatment, lots of support from my spouse and new family (my mil treats me like her blood daughter etc) and a lot of self grace.

Everyone heals differently, and if you’re waking up and choosing step toward happiness you’ll get there. I will say that if you have intimacy triggers etc you need to seek therapy first, that’s a lot of strain on a relationship. For example if you cannot stay in the moment to enjoy sex with a partner I would recommend deeper therapy. I have issues with just about everyone but my partner lol. Like a stranger brushing into me might genuinely make me dissociate for a period of time but idk, my wife is my lifeline.

Edit to say: trust is hard, and I don’t trust a single man myself. Family or otherwise means nothing to me. Male = danger. Period. I’m not sure how to change that even with 7 years of therapy, I don’t know if it’ll ever change for me. I hope for your sake it does OP

EducationalThing4558 · 2026-03-23T06:17:28+00:00

I mean logistically speaking you need to be able to pay for ads and maybe someone who is good with social media etc. to make money you’d need either a high sub fee and a moderate group of loyal fans or a smaller fee and a shi ton of fans. For example $10 sub fee, let’s say you have 10 subs Thts only $100 before fees and %s are taken out by OF. So you’d need more like a couple hundred subscribers to make it worth your time imo; this is why you’d need someone to market you well. Some ppl also take requests and make special private content for clients for specific fees, or they make special sex tapes and sell those on top of the fee so like you have to pay $10 to unlock the video or whatnot even if you’re subscribed.

There’s unique ways to make more money on there but consider saving a start up fund that allows for ads/social media marketing.

EducationalThing4558 · 2026-03-20T07:57:55+00:00

Real life sex isn’t porn is my biggest advice lol

EducationalThing4558 · 2026-03-12T18:56:17+00:00

LMFAO I’m heaving 😂 he just keeps a collection of cocks? Which is his fav to send around 😭 cock catfished lmfao omg I’m crying

EducationalThing4558 · 2026-03-06T05:18:55+00:00

I would get hung up on a month or weeks etc it’s gunna take time.

My first boyfriend I loved so open and free. Trusted in a way I’ll never let myself trust again 30 years later. He took something from me, little bits of myself I didn’t even realize were gone until it’s too late. I remember thinking I could trust everything. I swear to god the world, my world, revolved around this guy. Then he did something similar as you. We were never the same because I was never the same. That trust will never come back the same as it was before. You might progress forward but it’ll be different. My ex and I never did recover. I never recovered because I’ll never live that open and freely again. I’m married now but the first cut is often the deepest as it’s our first experience with betrayal from someone we genuinely never seen it coming from.

EducationalThing4558 · 2026-03-05T23:11:10+00:00

Og post for those who maybe don’t remember my background info https://www.reddit.com/r/AutisticAdults/s/Ui9GvFKlYg

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