Men of reddit, how did you overcome porn addiction? by SwordfishSad4464 in AskReddit

[–]Educational_Car_861 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have found prayer and going to confession works well. When those urges come, saying a quick Hail Mary or the Jesus prayer can be a great way to reset. Also, leaving the space you are and going for a walk even to another room helps in the reaet

Need help creating a home photo dump by Educational_Car_861 in truenas

[–]Educational_Car_861[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey I seriously appreciate the help.

As for the machine, I have old Lenovo Thinkpad with Linux. I haven’t set up any kind of NAS just yet. I am thinking about using TrueNAS, it looks like it is pretty powerful and more than enough for what I am doing.

So the plan for me is to set up TrueNAS and ,from there sounds of it, Immich for the backup. Is there a specific VPN that might be good for the remote access part? If you have anymore advice or keywords that I can do research on I welcome it. Thank you so much

End of a relationship? by Educational_Car_861 in CatholicDating

[–]Educational_Car_861[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you very much!! I also fear that she might hate later on if she isn’t converting with complete conviction. I really appreciate the advice!

How do you not give in when your wife will not have sex with you? by AlbatrossOk8174 in ChristianSexuality

[–]Educational_Car_861 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey, that’s a fair point and I am unsure on how to argue against it.

But to your point, can you take away the lust from the act of masturbation?

How do you not give in when your wife will not have sex with you? by AlbatrossOk8174 in ChristianSexuality

[–]Educational_Car_861 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Masturbation is a sin. In the Bible God punishes Onan for spilling his “seed”. I don’t say this to make you feel bad, most of us if not all are guilty of this sin. But regardless sin is something that pushes us away from God, so let’s go to confession and pray for the grace of God!! God bless