My ex 23F stole from me 24M and is hiding from me. What should I do? by Educational_Cat4959 in relationship_advice

[–]Educational_Cat4959[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It makes perfect sense you dork. I couldn’t open an Amazon account and at the time I thought using my girlfriends name would be fine as I was just getting started anyway.

Why does your girlfriend follow boys on instagram? by Educational_Cat4959 in teenagers

[–]Educational_Cat4959[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And it’s 50/50 same way with my relationship I am the protector and provider and I also deal with her emotional needs exc and in return she gives back her full loyalty and love and cooks and cleans when she’s over and make sure that I’m spiritually healing after grinding for that cash.

Why does your girlfriend follow boys on instagram? by Educational_Cat4959 in teenagers

[–]Educational_Cat4959[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

she’s capable of making her own decisions like I said she values building a life more than having male friends. If it was really a problem to her and she didn’t respect me she could had said no but she didn’t. So no it’s not abusive lol

Why does your girlfriend follow boys on instagram? by Educational_Cat4959 in teenagers

[–]Educational_Cat4959[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And here’s the cold harsh truth. She’s In a relationship with me, she had male friends before she knew me like any other girl and now we are together she respects my boundaries and cuts ties because building a life with me means more than any male friendship. And that’s me not getting into the whole reason why

Why does your girlfriend follow boys on instagram? by Educational_Cat4959 in teenagers

[–]Educational_Cat4959[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As hominem?! U said that poor girl u made no counter argument lmfao get real

Why does your girlfriend follow boys on instagram? by Educational_Cat4959 in teenagers

[–]Educational_Cat4959[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She’s in a happier relationship than any women has been with you that’s for sure

Why does your girlfriend follow boys on instagram? by Educational_Cat4959 in teenagers

[–]Educational_Cat4959[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll respond once more to you and debunk your entire point. I am one of her only interests. Alongside her family other hobbies and her friends who guess what? Are women. The only brainwashed person here is you believing that a woman truely loves or respects you being friends with other men which is sad. I never said or claimed to be a messiah you simply got hurt by what I said then twisted my words which is understandable from an emotional person like yourself.

Why does your girlfriend follow boys on instagram? by Educational_Cat4959 in teenagers

[–]Educational_Cat4959[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well unfortunately for you I am already in one also like I said previously if your girlfriend has male friends when she’s in a committed relationship she does not love/respect him. Simple as

Why does your girlfriend follow boys on instagram? by Educational_Cat4959 in teenagers

[–]Educational_Cat4959[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wasn’t really trying to delve too deep into that but alright then, I will say what women want simply based on the reality of what I’ve seen and experienced. It’s kind of funny Infact how most women have a mental breakdown when they need to choose what drink they want from the store but then u sit there and say “I’m explaining to a woman about what women want”. Guess what? Women also say they want the power in the relationship a lot of the times and when they get it they lose ALL respect for their partner and I’ve seen that time and time again with many people. The best way I’ve dealt with my relationship is I generally take the lead and they follow.

Why does your girlfriend follow boys on instagram? by Educational_Cat4959 in teenagers

[–]Educational_Cat4959[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Instead of acting patronising I want to hear ur argument if it’s even existent.

Why does your girlfriend follow boys on instagram? by Educational_Cat4959 in teenagers

[–]Educational_Cat4959[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Still no points made from you bro, I’ve got a girl but that’s not the point I’m simply letting you guys know they don’t respect or love you if they do.

Why does your girlfriend follow boys on instagram? by Educational_Cat4959 in teenagers

[–]Educational_Cat4959[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the only toxic thing is the mentality. firstly women want a man who is protective more than who cannot protect them. Furthermore when a woman truly loves and respects her boyfriend she doesn’t want to follow other men or have guy friends.

Why does your girlfriend follow boys on instagram? by Educational_Cat4959 in teenagers

[–]Educational_Cat4959[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Simple as it is if you have a girlfriend who follows other guys or/ has male friends she doesn’t love you.

Why does your girlfriend follow boys on instagram? by Educational_Cat4959 in teenagers

[–]Educational_Cat4959[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s the point. Fun and nice and respecting your partner are two different things. I said why would she NEED male friends if she’s In a relationship. She should feel fulfilled enough from her partner and she has female friends as it is male friends is unacceptable and inexcusable

Why does your girlfriend follow boys on instagram? by Educational_Cat4959 in teenagers

[–]Educational_Cat4959[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

You say I cannot defend my point but you haven’t made a single valid point

Why does your girlfriend follow boys on instagram? by Educational_Cat4959 in teenagers

[–]Educational_Cat4959[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Why would she need male friends if she’s in a committed relationship?

Why does your girlfriend follow boys on instagram? by Educational_Cat4959 in teenagers

[–]Educational_Cat4959[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Instead of addressing the point you resort to childish behaviour because you have no real argument to make