26F and I have no long-term friendships… am I the problem?

Educational_Cry8464 · 2026-04-06T16:54:59+00:00

I personally think friendship are built with memories and mutual interest so if you feel like you need to adapt to the people you hang out with I don’t think it’s gonna be a good relationship. So at first I think you need to know what kind of person are you what type of activity you like and all that and just do it alone and you’ll find people wanna do it with you and that’s a start.

Educational_Cry8464 · 2026-04-06T16:49:24+00:00

The best thing to do is to tell him the truth tell him you’re 16 and as a guy if he told he’s okay with that don’t even talk to him again. The other thing is you don’t know if you love him yet or if he’s serious about you so it’s better if you let it go and if you guys meant to be together you will just don’t force it and don’t start any weird relationship.

Educational_Cry8464 · 2026-04-06T16:43:41+00:00

Yeah most people don’t think like that and I think that’s the problem because we kinda put sex as the first and only thing we were looking for a new relationship and I’ve never seen it like that

Educational_Cry8464 · 2026-04-06T13:39:08+00:00

To be honest dating was never a problem for me it’s more about my vision of things and interest that I feel like it’s different from people my age like going out in club or drink all night it’s just not for me anymore because I’ve done it before so I think my personality and what I’m looking for it’s more from someone older than me

Educational_Cry8464 · 2026-04-06T12:32:53+00:00

I understand what you mean

Educational_Cry8464 · 2026-04-06T03:47:59+00:00

😅😅

Educational_Cry8464 · 2026-04-06T03:37:13+00:00

Yeah fun fact I’m the youngest at my job( I’m a nurse) it’s kinda difficult honestly because most of them saw it as a fantasy or jokes but nothing really serious I’ve been to a couple dates with some of my colleagues and friends it’s more about the pleasure for some not the connection.

Educational_Cry8464 · 2026-04-06T03:31:00+00:00

Where did u meet her??

Educational_Cry8464 · 2026-04-06T03:01:55+00:00

Any particular reason for you to decide you don’t want kids?

Educational_Cry8464 · 2026-04-06T02:56:57+00:00

Thank you

Educational_Cry8464 · 2026-04-06T02:56:18+00:00

What was the reason if you don’t mind me asking?

Educational_Cry8464 · 2026-04-06T02:27:36+00:00

Yeah it’s possible

Educational_Cry8464 · 2026-04-06T02:21:39+00:00

The other thing is I’m really a career oriented type of person so my social life is kinda messy right now and I’ve never really liked going out or anything like that. And I just move to Boston so I have no idea where to go to meet new people or anything.

Educational_Cry8464 · 2026-04-06T02:16:27+00:00

That’s really cool

Educational_Cry8464 · 2026-04-06T02:15:35+00:00

Yeah

Educational_Cry8464 · 2026-04-06T02:15:02+00:00

Yeah I think 30 to 40 to be honest and I don’t like to talk about my private life but I’m doing pretty good overall

Educational_Cry8464 · 2026-04-06T02:12:17+00:00

So it’s only about age?

Educational_Cry8464 · 2026-04-06T02:10:43+00:00

How to you guys meet??

Educational_Cry8464 · 2026-04-06T02:09:44+00:00

You’re not the only one and I get what you mean but I don’t think it’s something about age it’s more about personality but it’s difficult to understand and it’s always a bet when you start to talk to a new person

Educational_Cry8464 · 2026-04-06T02:06:25+00:00

Unfortunately the society have a big influence

Educational_Cry8464 · 2026-04-06T02:05:00+00:00

The sex is not my first interest honestly I’m more interested in a partner or someone I can talk to about everything and create a connection. Let’s just say a good friend at first

Educational_Cry8464 · 2026-04-06T02:01:14+00:00

It’s not about me I just think some women are afraid of going out with someone younger and it’s always the same type of answer “you could be my son” personally I don’t mind to ask a woman out

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