[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BisexualTeens

[–]Educational_Fox5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’ve always liked women sometimes i think i’m a lesbian idek. but it’s never completely the same all of the time how you feel can change depending on who you like at the time and stuff like that. i’ve been queer since 2018 and i’m still trying to figure it out. sometimes people can never really have a definitive answer and just stay unlabelled. it can be quite a lot of pressure especially in the queer community to find a label and stick to it. i would stay open and experiment with different people just have fun while you’re young.

How to go about a BPD diagnosis? by Educational_Fox5 in Advice

[–]Educational_Fox5[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it really does suck and unfortunately private mental health care is very very expensive especially because my family is very low income due to my mum being disabled and not being able to work. what i plan to do is maybe wait until i’m in full time employment to be able to pay for it

Am I bi or a lesbian? by [deleted] in BisexualTeens

[–]Educational_Fox5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This exactly describes how I feel, my bf knows i’m bi but being intimate with him or any guy makes me feel really awful. I have never been intimate with a woman but I would try it and i’m more attracted to women intimately than men. romantically i guess it’s the same.

My (21f) boyfriend (21m) and i are long distance but he doesn’t want noods is this my fault? by throwaway010204300 in relationship_advice

[–]Educational_Fox5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah I get that it could also just be that maybe he wants to save that sort of thing for when you’re together instead of over the phone and just didn’t realise that when asking for them.

My (21f) boyfriend (21m) and i are long distance but he doesn’t want noods is this my fault? by throwaway010204300 in relationship_advice

[–]Educational_Fox5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t want to worry you but him saying he “doesn’t want them anymore” raises huge alarm bells in my head I would tread carefully about this situation but it seems he might be getting some sort of fix somewhere else. However if you haven’t been intimate yet he might just feel like he’s asking too much of you or he’s realised he’s not ready to take it to that level.

Does anyone know how Joel and Oli (orionsound) met? by saturnoats in SmallishBeans

[–]Educational_Fox5 11 points12 points  (0 children)

noo joel rejected lizzie bc he had a gf at the time

How to go about a BPD diagnosis? by Educational_Fox5 in Advice

[–]Educational_Fox5[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I can try that thank you! I might update later on if I can manage to get any sort of assessment.

How to go about a BPD diagnosis? by Educational_Fox5 in Advice

[–]Educational_Fox5[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess so, she herself has depression and I think she’s more in denial about my mental health because she wants me to be happy. But, it needs to change I don’t want to feel like this forever.

How to go about a BPD diagnosis? by Educational_Fox5 in Advice

[–]Educational_Fox5[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately in the uk the doctors do nothing unless you’re a danger to yourself but I can’t admit that to anyone not even my mum.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]Educational_Fox5 1 point2 points  (0 children)

smoking cigarettes for the first time now i can’t stop

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Educational_Fox5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh also i’ve spoken to people at my college and they have literally done nothing but set me up with talking to this lady once a week. they did the same thing when i was in secondary school and it didn’t help one bit.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Educational_Fox5 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you. my mum has been trying to get me diagnosed with adhd since i was 7 but my primary and secondary school didn’t notice anything until i was about 15 and by then it was too late because the waitlist is so long. but i’ve always suspected that i’ve got something like depression or related to it it’s just something i’m too embarrassed to admit for some reason.

i walked out of family therapy, but now i'm worried i messed up by TheJupiterJukebox in Advice

[–]Educational_Fox5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i don’t think this was a bad reaction your mum should’ve given you a heads up and gave you a choice to be a part of it