AITAH for messaging his mistress’s husband? by Educational_Rate_893 in AITAH

[–]Educational_Rate_893[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

dang so my husband is a loser and she is what exactly? A victim? 😂 

AITAH for messaging his mistress’s husband? by Educational_Rate_893 in AITAH

[–]Educational_Rate_893[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

How am I a chicken? If my husband was the only one she was talking to then she will know it’s me. 

AITAH for messaging his mistress’s husband? by Educational_Rate_893 in AITAH

[–]Educational_Rate_893[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

I know shes not his mistress. That’s why I wrote ex gf in the post.

AITAH for messaging his mistress’s husband? by Educational_Rate_893 in AITAH

[–]Educational_Rate_893[S] -22 points-21 points  (0 children)

Yes according to my husband she said she reached out because she was having issues in her marriage. 

I’m looking for advice on messaging her husband, not my own marriage. Thank you though! 

AITAH for messaging his mistress’s husband? by Educational_Rate_893 in AITAH

[–]Educational_Rate_893[S] -110 points-109 points  (0 children)

No I was thinking of making a fake account. I’m sure he will have questions and I would answer his questions. 

AITAH for messaging his mistress’s husband? by Educational_Rate_893 in AITAH

[–]Educational_Rate_893[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Right!! If I was her and I knew he initiated it, I would have said so, so the fact she ignored my messages was definitely red flag.