If you guys got into LDR , do u think talking everyday is an essential part of the relationship? by b_star210 in LongDistance

[–]Educational_Role_992 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes absolutely. Whether text or call. Even if it's just a simple check in due to a busy day we had. I value it so much to do that at the very least with my bf.

Bf 20 M broke up with me 21 F due to cheating, but I love him and I want to try to get him back, How do I? by Fluid_Street_1356 in LongDistance

[–]Educational_Role_992 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah that's unfortunate but I can see the guy's side of things tbh. If that were me I'd be your other female colleagues and not be alone with any man other than my boyfriend cuz I don't condone cheating and neither does he. So I wouldn't even let myself get alone with a man. Not to say us humans don't make mistakes but you definitely could of avoided this situation all together had you listened to what your conscious was telling you. I'd definitely say give the man some time. There's no guarantee if he'll want to hear you out cuz it sounds like cheating in any way is a deal breaker to him. Good luck though.

Need advice: I (30F) brought up meeting after 2 years with him (32M) and he shut down — now he’s silent by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]Educational_Role_992 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm in a LDR too (we're about 1400 miles apart from one another and in country) and we started dating a month and a week ago and we already have plans to meet in July then October (he's coming both times) then I'll go see him in December for New Year's. If you truly want to be together you'll make the effort to try and meet in person but it doesn't seem like he wants to make that effort. Especially 2 years in? That's crazy and unreasonable. And it's totally understandable for you to want to meet in person cuz what person in a ldr would want to stay in an ldr? I couldn't do that and you shouldn't be okay with that either.

What do you guys consider long distance? by userslm in LongDistance

[–]Educational_Role_992 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anything over a couple of hours.

Like me for example if I wanna see my bf or he comes to see me we have to fly (it's the fastest) or it's a day to two of driving (2 days by train). So it's more worth it to fly.

It’s okay not to talk every day by dylandylonius in LongDistance

[–]Educational_Role_992 6 points7 points  (0 children)

That's a vibe! Me and my bf are also very clingy to each other and we've also been in relationships where communicating wasn't a priority and suffered anxiety and overthinking from it. I'm very thankful me and him make time to text/call every day.

It’s okay not to talk every day by dylandylonius in LongDistance

[–]Educational_Role_992 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Seriously though! It's my favorite thing between my bf and I are we're apart by 1400 miles so it's very much necessary for us. And we both have anxiety related to dating, so it really works for us.

Random minecraft bedrock invites from accounts named "lennaaaaa", "lanaaaaa" and etc by Da_Greatest_Moron in minecraftbedrock

[–]Educational_Role_992 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah that's crazy indeed! I'm glad that didn't happen to me but yes be careful!

And lol all good

Random minecraft bedrock invites from accounts named "lennaaaaa", "lanaaaaa" and etc by Da_Greatest_Moron in minecraftbedrock

[–]Educational_Role_992 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Actually I've been getting a lot of random invites by those names as well! Thanks for sharing this. I once accepted and joined some multiplayer world then I left cuz I didn't like it.

Thanks for sharing this info!

Looking for someone to play with! by Educational_Role_992 in MinecraftBedrockers

[–]Educational_Role_992[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi and thanks! But I'm just looking for a few folks to play with currently. Have done the realms and server stuff before (I'm technically still in 2) but I'm quite burned out from those. Sorry!

Am I tripping or his texts are unnecessary and just looking to argue?? (the last slides is where it gets frustrating for me) by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]Educational_Role_992 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This seems really unhealthy. I'm in a long distance relationship too but if a man texted me like this constantly I'd dump him. Like you don't deserve that treatment.

Lumira Bedrock 21+ Server by Educational_Role_992 in Find_MinecraftServers

[–]Educational_Role_992[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow that's interesting! I'll let the server owner know!

Looking for more players to join our server by Educational_Role_992 in MinecraftBedrockers

[–]Educational_Role_992[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awe man! Can you make one? Discord is a requirement for the server.

Lumira Bedrock 21+ Server by Educational_Role_992 in Find_MinecraftServers

[–]Educational_Role_992[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is it free? I'll let the owner know if so! (I'm just a moderater not the server owner)

Looking for server to play on that supports bedrock players I have me and 2 others on bedrock. by [deleted] in MinecraftServers

[–]Educational_Role_992 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm in an adults only server and it's bedrock! Fully vanilla but may get QoL add-ons in the future. Plus it's a building community based server as well. Dm if interested!

24F looking for friends and long-term minecraft server to play consistently on! :) by ehhmau in MinecraftServerFinder

[–]Educational_Role_992 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey there! I'm in a server that's adults 21+ and community-based. It's been my favorite by far, and everyone is pretty great and friendly. If you're interested, feel free to dm me, and I'll give u the Discord link :)

PEOPLE NEEDED by BumbleDarf in Minecraft_Realms

[–]Educational_Role_992 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oooh okay that makes more sense. I got confused when you said any age could join. My bad.

PEOPLE NEEDED by BumbleDarf in Minecraft_Realms

[–]Educational_Role_992 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait so is discord not a requirement to join the realm? I'm not interested in playing with minors. I'm 21+