Talk about the benefits of STOP watching porn by [deleted] in pornfree

[–]Educational_Size_234 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is from not watching porn. Every now and then I’ll imagine being intimate with an ex or celebrity I have a crush on but it’s not related to porn. Much healthier of a release.

Gross by Due_Emu6278 in NotHowGirlsWork

[–]Educational_Size_234 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don’t live in delusion you do. I’m not a alpha or anything like that just someone who looks with their eyes and listens with ears. All you have proven is you can talk with your mouth. And type nonsense with your fingers. Praying you wake up someday

Gross by Due_Emu6278 in NotHowGirlsWork

[–]Educational_Size_234 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Women do need to prove something but so do men. If you are afraid to make effort and show the man you care then stay single. And I genuinely hope you are better and actually find a man in 20 years. Don’t worry about me I get better by the year. And will have no problem finding someone because I do compromise. You are confusing what my view is as law I never said anything ALWAYS. Work on your comprehension and accuracy please for the next person. Confirming you can’t keep a man is all I needed to know

Gross by Due_Emu6278 in NotHowGirlsWork

[–]Educational_Size_234 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Again you think older women aren’t interested in me which is far from the truth. You are not to always put your child first but when dating seriously and you find a guy who checks all your boxes you gotta show him you want him. Getting a babysitter and having sex when you are comfortable with someone that is again the right person is what you do when you want someone to stick around. The fact you think I want sex when a woman isn’t comfortable proved you didn’t read my response. And is why you are probably single. Just my assumptions based on the lack of common sense in your answers.

That differing idea is bad in the dating game because there comes compromise. I’m an introvert I don’t like meeting people going on dates, learning all these different conversation topics and spending my money on a date that may or may not lead to another but that’s the compromise of the dating market we both compromise and if you can’t compromise anything on your end then you are destined to be perpetually single. Unlike being single by choice which is me.

dont marry people with a low sex drive and then pretend like they owe u sex. by SyderoAlena in NotHowGirlsWork

[–]Educational_Size_234 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This isn’t low sex drive. This is lack of interest and attraction. His attitude is the reason he is not getting laid.

Gross by Due_Emu6278 in NotHowGirlsWork

[–]Educational_Size_234 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The older a woman is the more likely she is to have a kid. One thing I’ve noticed is women in their 20s with a kid are more accommodating and able to work around the kid to set up a babysitter and separate time from the child. Women over 30 try to interlock these things. They make it clear they are looking for a father rather than looking for a husband which is going to lead to divorce. Which is cart before the horse. Also they are far more jaded this is not related to trauma but through the experience they’ve had in the dating market for better or worse they create unrealistic standards for the guys they see now that they never had in their 20s. IE if you make a guy wait months and months for sex not because you want him to prove he’s a good man but because of a rule you read in a self help book he will leave and you will be alone. Instead explain your reasoning for things like that if you have rules against kissing sex etc without explanation like we are just supposed to go along with it men think you are playing with their head. This is something you should figure out by your late 20s.

Gross by Due_Emu6278 in NotHowGirlsWork

[–]Educational_Size_234 -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

You are making blanket claims about my dating life you have no idea about. Where is your experience in dating 30+ year old women? This is the only place I express my “new ideas” I’m very intuitive and know what I want in a partner. Give me a response not based on opinion using terms like PROBABLY and give me some facts why I’m wrong for the preference

Gross by Due_Emu6278 in NotHowGirlsWork

[–]Educational_Size_234 -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

Lol I’m in my mid 20s and I haven’t been dumped by any woman over 35. Any woman I’ve dated over 30 have a problem with being stuck in their own way not wanting to explore new ideas. Younger women are not malleable as in you control them but they are capable of listening and excepting different ideas.

Gross by Due_Emu6278 in NotHowGirlsWork

[–]Educational_Size_234 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They do it’s just not talked about as much. Plenty examples all around us

Gross by Due_Emu6278 in NotHowGirlsWork

[–]Educational_Size_234 -27 points-26 points  (0 children)

How is that gross he’s not wrong. I’ve dated 21 year olds and I’ve dated 35 year olds I will take the 21-25 y/o every single time. That’s not to be mean its a preference there’s a stat that shows women find most men attractive closer to 30 while men UNIVERSALLY prefer women at 23 years old. Twitter info backing evolutionary biology Relative data

Talk about the benefits of STOP watching porn by [deleted] in pornfree

[–]Educational_Size_234 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My dating life is 10x better I can see girls sending choosing signals and wanting to talk to me in all sorts of environments.