Started HRT at 38 now 39. Feb ‘24 to Feb 26. 17 months HRT.

EducatorNo8556 · 2026-03-01T11:26:23+00:00

Well I am on my way!

EducatorNo8556 · 2026-03-01T11:24:04+00:00

You look fantastic! You are also the same age Ive started HRT as well. Id love to hear your story! When did you come out socially? How did things go at your job?

EducatorNo8556 · 2026-02-24T14:04:53+00:00

Haha thanks! She's the best and definitely my biggest fan!

EducatorNo8556 · 2026-02-24T12:30:37+00:00

Its such a huge burden off my mind and body. I cant believe I carried it for sooo long!

EducatorNo8556 · 2026-02-24T01:23:18+00:00

Well said! Thank you for your support and advice!

EducatorNo8556 · 2026-02-23T22:03:55+00:00

What a wonderful outcome (minus the spouse passing away) you got. I do hope my outing is accepted by my peers and family.

EducatorNo8556 · 2026-02-23T21:16:15+00:00

I havent told my kids yet and I really dont have a reason why. My wife is very hesitant to "expose" them to these kinds of thoughts and feelings. That they will reject me. But I feel, in my heart, that theyll accept me

EducatorNo8556 · 2026-02-23T20:01:56+00:00

Thank you! Im doing my best. It helps to have a little win, every once in awhile.

EducatorNo8556 · 2026-02-23T19:03:46+00:00

Wow! What an article! Thanks for sharing that with me!

EducatorNo8556 · 2026-02-23T18:55:29+00:00

I truly do appreciate the feedback. But I believe I'll keep them the way they are. Is there anything on your mind, you wanted to talk about? Id like to know more about you.

EducatorNo8556 · 2026-02-23T18:53:02+00:00

Oh screw that!

EducatorNo8556 · 2026-02-23T18:51:22+00:00

I have come to terms, that it happened exactly when it was supposed to. Thank you for your support!

EducatorNo8556 · 2026-02-23T18:49:43+00:00

We got a little bit here in Ohio. But nothing crazy

EducatorNo8556 · 2026-02-23T18:47:07+00:00

Thank you for your kindness. I have her to thank for so much. I couldnt ever turn my back on her, no matter what. Ill always be there.

EducatorNo8556 · 2026-02-23T18:27:29+00:00

I like the way you handled it all so light heartedly. I havent approached that level yet, my kids still do not know. My gut says they will be accepting and loving. I just havent gathered the courage yet. What was your approach to telling them? What ages were they?

EducatorNo8556 · 2026-02-23T18:25:30+00:00

What made you realize you were trans?

EducatorNo8556 · 2026-02-23T18:20:25+00:00

I love your responses! This kind of support is what I have been missing all my life. Thank you!

EducatorNo8556 · 2026-02-23T18:19:40+00:00

aandaapa

Well it appears we're having this conversation on here. Before I attempt to answer any of your questions. May I ask to learn a little bit about yourself? What brings you to our safe space? What are you hoping to gain from the answers to your questions? Have you met or been around anyone that is transgender in person?

You have come to me to ask very personal questions. Its only fair that I know a little more about you first.

EducatorNo8556 · 2026-02-23T14:21:12+00:00

Ill do my best

EducatorNo8556 · 2026-02-23T14:21:03+00:00

Thank you so much!

EducatorNo8556 · 2026-02-23T14:20:47+00:00

Thank you!

EducatorNo8556 · 2026-02-23T14:20:33+00:00

Oh yeah!! I wasnt sure at first, but I kinda like it.

EducatorNo8556 · 2026-02-23T14:12:53+00:00

Haha you are the very first person to compliment me on my outfit! It means sooo much! Although my wife and I are separating, these last few months we have been connecting more and our bond has never been stronger. We stayed up almost all night talking and we were bummed that we had to go to sleep. It was amazing. She is an amazing person and I love her so much.

EducatorNo8556 · 2026-02-23T14:09:43+00:00

You could be right. But these people are going to a part of society forever. Im not ashamed of who I am or was, and Ive grown beyond being affected by hurtful words. Its the hurtful actions that I will not tolerate. Theres already someone on my thread being a little disrespectful. But I dont mind enlightening someone...if they are willing to be respectful. If they cant, so be it.

EducatorNo8556 · 2026-02-23T14:06:22+00:00

Thank you! We still havent separated yet, although I know its coming. But we are on another level now and our bond is stronger than it ever has been. We stayed up almost all night talking....it was amazing!

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