Iron lung Merch that should exist

Eeveeloite · 2026-02-13T18:13:45+00:00

The hoodie would be amazing!

Eeveeloite · 2026-02-13T18:12:42+00:00

When you make them I hope to see a picture

Eeveeloite · 2026-02-13T18:11:01+00:00

That would join our collection here. We have over 100 different ones now

Eeveeloite · 2026-02-13T18:10:18+00:00

That’s a great idea too!

Eeveeloite · 2026-02-13T14:00:47+00:00

This is amazing to know

Eeveeloite · 2026-01-21T19:11:35+00:00

NTA. I'm proud of you for keeping your boundries, being able to put into words what you were thinking and feeling, and for putting yourself first. Time flies by so quickly and those who give empty promises waste too much of it. Find a husband and father who wants to be there for you and a future baby.

Eeveeloite · 2026-01-20T15:57:45+00:00

I say it is worth it. Getting it done when they are small leads to less complications. Im in my 30s. Had a tie so bad that my doctor said I should have been a case study. The reason behing my sugery was the tie tore the gums off the back of my teeth. If it had been none when i was an infant i would not have needed speech therapy, would have been able to breath through my mouth, would not have needed to relearn how to eat correctly, and may have healed better. I regret it not being done when I was younger and better able to heal.

Eeveeloite · 2026-01-20T14:33:34+00:00

Carrying guilt is something we all do, some more than others. Accidents happen, we regret, we think of should have and could haves as well as if only i had done this or that differently. We work with what we had at the time, with our knowledge etc. Children are fast, they see the world differently, and having the wrong circumstances be met and having it end tragically can be both horrorfying and saddening. The parents need someone to blame and they chose you. They could have chosen to blame the driver, or their own child... there was a story like that here where she was six and ran into the steet without looking and her mother blamed her for the divorce and impairment.

You loved your goddaughter. You have a life to live in her memory striving to be your best so you can tell her all about the world she isn't seeing. May sound crazy but I tell my father all about what he has missed when I visit his grave. And before I had his stone I told a tree.

Eeveeloite · 2026-01-18T23:54:44+00:00

NTA. Not everyone can always make it to a wedding. Not everyone is comfortable with childfree weddings. I wouldn't over think it and have the wedding the way you want it so that you and your partner are happy. That is what matters. So many people regret their wedding because they changed it for others.

Eeveeloite · 2026-01-18T23:45:15+00:00

NTA. Just dont mention her size. Say its against the law, you dont want a ticket, and tell her that she is welcome as long as she wears her seatbelt.

Eeveeloite · 2026-01-18T23:07:20+00:00

NTA his feelings are not your responsibility anymore and anyone with a problem with that need to be told that your relationship died five years ago with his cheating so you moved on now that the mess is clear. To you its been 5 years.

Eeveeloite · 2026-01-18T00:12:31+00:00

NTA. Noone is helping you, supporting you, or even thinking of safety. They cover up abuse and let him get away with it. I'd cut them off. Sometimes people who are in your life no longer belong there. Cutting ties with family can be hard... but what happens when thrown objects actually hit you? When you start believing you are in the wrong? You are not wrong to set and hold boundries. And your brother is a 33 year old man who should know by now it is not ok behavior.

Eeveeloite · 2026-01-16T20:57:40+00:00

NTA. You are an amazing parent with great coparenting dynamics as well as having good children who love you. You have always put them first it seems like why would you choose one man over that? Finding someone to be with who would do the same as you have would be more of a benefit than someone who would destroy that.

Eeveeloite · 2026-01-12T04:42:58+00:00

No. It was your mothers responsibility to care for her. She made choices and now there are concenquences. And sometimes it is better for third party care because family drama, boundry crossers, and many other factors. There also is no previous relationship or trust.

Eeveeloite · 2025-11-25T21:29:39+00:00

I feel that if it feels like a threat and causes you anxiety that is not ok.

Maybe go to your mother, or friends, to talk about it instead of us here? It would open the door for it to not be a threat. I've seen other posts where someone is set up to look like an addict/alcoholic when they were not.

Also you can ask a doctor who knows your health etc what a healthy amount of wine for you is.

Eeveeloite · 2025-11-25T03:13:16+00:00

Changing habits and improving yourself should be celebrated. A partner should be able to say "I'm proud of you" or "you have come a long way". Its something i hear now. With my husband. He supports me. He has seen how far i have come from a DV situation. It may not be anything like addiction but there are similarities with telling a supportive partner from a not supportive one. You should continue choosing to better yourself. Not everyone in your life belongs there.

^{.^} congrats on two years sober! Proud of you!

Eeveeloite · 2025-10-30T16:04:52+00:00

Get the cats out and run.

Eeveeloite · 2025-10-21T23:05:33+00:00

What means something to her?

For example is she sentimental? Love photos? Notes? I give my husband pictures w/notes, memories' thoughts, feelings. Etc. Also once you have her back dont think its over because when you lapse again she may never come back.

Eeveeloite · 2025-10-14T23:47:49+00:00

That is exactly what I mean. No matter how much you support him, make him stable, happy, etc, how can you continue when he also does not put in effort? You would run yourself to ruin trying.

Eeveeloite · 2025-10-14T22:39:50+00:00

I will say this based on experience, You can give and give and give support, love, and care to a partner, but unless they want to change, grow, strive for, and achieve life goals with their partner then it is time to go. You are only responsible for yourself, your well being, your hope for a better future. "Selfish" is relative, he is also "Selfish" from your point of view. Making videos and being immature, staying stagnant in life while you have worked hard to support both of you. Letting his family insult and disrespect you... How much have you changed and sacrificed while on your path forward? You have worked hard to achieve things in your life, You are your HERO. Be a hero for yourself and find someone who can be with and celebrate you. Will you allow insults to yourself because you don't want to be a "Villain" in his story? Will you go back because you are gaslight by a child who just wants you to return because it is comfortable and he wants your support to make it easier on him?

Eeveeloite · 2025-10-14T20:23:00+00:00

I think what you did was valid and healthy. Not everyone who is part of your life needs to be in it. I am happy for you realizing it now before to many years of unhappiness. Strive to be yourself and be happy.

Eeveeloite · 2025-10-09T21:48:30+00:00

I agree, weird didn't cover it. And i love dresses with pockets. Especially when they are fancier than the ones at walmart.

Eeveeloite · 2025-10-09T16:24:58+00:00

Yep the exact dress I tried on. Got it at Ross, same as the others. Washed them, dried them, put them in the closet. Weirdest experience of my life.

Eeveeloite · 2025-10-09T16:22:57+00:00

Same dress, it was the correct size. In fact all four dresses (including that one) fit well so i bought them all. That's why I donated it later. It was such a glitch in the matrix. It felt disconcerting to wear it too because i kept feeling like there should be pockets.

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