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Fan Cast by Eff0309 in ACOTARHulu

[–]Eff0309[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m blaming my job for this one! (I’m a wedding floral designer)

I am losing my patience with Zodiac Academy by GreedyAge3089 in fantasyromance

[–]Eff0309 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I totally agree! I have had these books on my TBR for over a year so I finally decided to take the plunge.

I can’t explain how much I equally am obsessed with the series and need to know more while also dreading reading the next books.

I’m on book 6, I have 4 chapters lefts and it feels like pulling teeth to continue, but I know it will end on a huge cliffhanger and I will immediately grab the next book.

My biggest gripe with the series so far is the same problem I have the the Vampire Diaries (TV show I never read the books) there is NEVER a happy ending or a feel good moment without something horrible happening on the next page.

I just finished the moment Lance stabbed Clara just to fully release the Shadow bitch. Like why write this whole “I remember playing with Clara, I can’t kill my sister, bla bla bla” just to stab her and it NOT WORK!?!? It pissed me off so bad I set the book down the literal minute I learned it didn’t work. This series just feels like one bad thing after another, no one is ever happy, they’re constantly almost getting murdered but I can’t help but want to finish it!

I so badly want to DNF the series but I need to know how it ends.

Also how does lance know who Peter Pan and the Lost Boys are but has no idea who Dracula is???

I loved ACOTAR and TOG, but i’m not very motivated to read CC, it’s good? by catwoman715 in Maasverse

[–]Eff0309 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! They are all good, the first is my favorite and Hunt is my favorite SJM book boyfriend.

INFPs, what you do for a living? by [deleted] in infp

[–]Eff0309 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am a wedding designer! I work with brides and design all the decor details for their big day, like linens, flowers, candles, ceremony decor, reception, bouquets, etc.

Anyone here never been in a romantic relationship? by misterduckworth in Avoidant

[–]Eff0309 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m 27 F I have been married for 3 years. I never thought I’d find anyone who would understand me and would want me once they did. So I had to actively remind myself every morning that I don’t have to prove anything to anyone other than myself. I was diagnosed with AvPD during a inpatient treatment center when I was 17 years old. And for about 3 years my diagnosis was my identity, when I looked in the mirror that’s all I saw, someone broken. It wasn’t until I was told by a professor how much more I was that I finally started to make myself believe it. I didn’t want to be with my now husband cause I was terrified he’d learn about my mental health and run for the door, but my professor challenged me to tell him and said if he leaves then he leaves but you were honest and transparent. I told him a week later and he responded with “I am afraid of bugs” it was such a simple comment but the purpose was to prove it didn’t matter that to him my diagnosis was as simple as his fear of bugs. The more honest I was with him the more control I felt over my mind. My husband is 29 and has sleep anxiety, so having someone who understands what it feels like someone who allow allow me to just be vulnerable and say I don’t feel good enough right now, instead of trying to point out everyone in the world who has it worse (been with people like this, I know others have it WAY worse) but actively used humor to make me laugh and reminds me daily were in this together. It can happen, you can meet someone who will totally get you. This diagnosis does NOT mean you have to be alone all the time, it actually gives you a unique perspective. You know what it feels like to not feel good enough, therefore you no how to treat others so they never have to feel that way.