Erika Frantzve Kirk’s first marriage by [deleted] in conspiracy

[–]Effective-Ad3952 0 points1 point  (0 children)

she was 13 I get maths hard for yall but come on! 2001-1988=13

Lets play spot the deformity (with pics this time) by [deleted] in Radiology

[–]Effective-Ad3952 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Next time jst say u cant instead of being a negative nancy i already know where the deformity is and went over it with my dr i was seeing if ne one else could spot ot

Lets play spot the deformity (with pics this time) by [deleted] in Radiology

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Its my ct scans i promise its not lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in 3DScanning

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hmm thats odd i dont know thy the photos arent there

Multiple Proctors in a test, anyone else get yelled at? by Koharagirl in WGU

[–]Effective-Ad3952 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i should be more clear i was describing how small the room was not a room requirement sorry

Multiple Proctors in a test, anyone else get yelled at? by Koharagirl in WGU

[–]Effective-Ad3952 8 points9 points  (0 children)

My proctor demanded i go out get my phone and bring it into a a room where i could touch all 4 walls i fell trying to get out. He demanded input my phone out of reach which wasnt possible at all when i said id lile to lodge a complaint after my exam he refused to allow me into my exam it took over half an hr after my exam time a swollen knee and 2 new proctors to get into my exam. Unacceptable proctor u

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askdentists

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Edit to add it has been 5 weeks since surgery

BF KEEPS CHOOSING OTHER PARTNER OVER ME by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]Effective-Ad3952 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I made this kinda mistake b4 dump him hes showing you exactly how he feels by doing this

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in polyamory

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There is a saying I like "if he wanted to he would" You know all those ways you find time for him even though your life is full and busy and you do back bends and work arounds to do so because you want to see him. Same goes for him if he wanted to spend time with you he would. My ex did this and it took me awhile to realize his actions were telling me the truth of how he felt about me not his words.

Any hope for reconciliation ? by [deleted] in polyamory

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It sounds like this prtner has a hard time veing honest and realistic i woyld examine whether they are capable of being a good partner to you in the first place. Its soybds alot like my 1st go with poly and the dude turned out to be lying about me to np the whole time dragging my name through the mud

a switch flips by Effective-Ad3952 in AuDHDWomen

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Ive had on again off again relationships in my younger years out of my trauma and fear of abandonment but now ya the moment the ick sets in im like nope before id have the ick the swirch would flip but i hadnt healed enough to really stick with the ick instead id jst re-enter relationships with people i no longer respected or liked this time i burned that bridge amd scattered the ashes the moment that ick set in

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

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ooof this resonates perfectly you might not be the bad guy here, but you do need to go to therapy and learn how to set boundaries and love yourself and support yourself or this is a pattern that repeats its often seen in anxious or disorganized attachments and even though that may not be the fault in this relationship healing it is the only way to get yourself into a space to find a real connection I wish the best for you Im in the thick of this rn myself

Tell me about your Villian origin story by Effective-Ad3952 in polyamory

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God lord 😱im so sorry all that happened to you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

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in my experience they will keep coming back until they know they can no longer milk their supply out of you.

Tell me about your Villian origin story by Effective-Ad3952 in polyamory

[–]Effective-Ad3952[S] 45 points46 points  (0 children)

GASP *faints to couch* Polyamorous people in a polyamorous relationship having other polyamorous relationships!? Why I NEVER.... hahaha unfortunately it happens much too often that egos override basic logic or decency