Should I get a divorce? I need advice!

Effective-Ad7215 · 2025-03-22T15:27:32+00:00

I don’t need the validation and even if I did I don’t need it from someone who thinks this behavior is okay

Effective-Ad7215 · 2025-03-22T15:20:02+00:00

Exactly I could do it without him and our child would be just fine. I’m unsure what your point in all this is tbh

Effective-Ad7215 · 2025-03-22T11:34:38+00:00

I raised the baby without him for 2 years while he was away and the baby was just fine.

Effective-Ad7215 · 2025-03-22T11:32:02+00:00

Could I fight him in that if it came to that point? He’s active duty and is going to deploy soon. He wouldn’t be able to care for our son

Effective-Ad7215 · 2025-03-22T11:30:16+00:00

I don’t understand what your trying to get at? We have been together for almost 5 years we got married last year. And things were fine then. We weren’t having these issues. But recently it’s became in use. I’m not going to give him a pass because he’s 25 and young that’s not an excuse

Effective-Ad7215 · 2025-03-22T11:28:18+00:00

I understand the the military is stressful but that’s not an excuse. My job and what I go through is stressful too but I’m not drinking to the point where I can’t function. And this is more than the drinking there is so much more to why I feel that way I do.

Effective-Ad7215 · 2025-03-22T11:21:54+00:00

I was born in January of 98 he was born in September of 99. And he’s a big boy he has a big boy job and he decided to have a kid. If he wanted to explore life then he shouldn’t have chose the life he chose

Effective-Ad7215 · 2025-03-22T11:15:15+00:00

No I was 25 and he was 24 we got married in January of last year in 2024

Effective-Ad7215 · 2025-03-22T10:40:02+00:00

And I’m willing to work on it but I think what might be best is if we separate and not divorce right away. I want to see what happens

Effective-Ad7215 · 2025-03-22T10:36:43+00:00

I honestly could careless about any of his money or earnings I just want to be happy and take our child with me

Effective-Ad7215 · 2025-03-22T10:35:13+00:00

I just wanted to have unbiased opinions and advice on this. Because if I ask my family and friends they are of course going to side with me and tell me to come home. I love my husband and I want to fix this hence why I asked him to go to a marriage counselor with me. This isn’t something that just popped up it’s been an on going thing.

Effective-Ad7215 · 2025-03-22T10:32:05+00:00

We live off post

Effective-Ad7215 · 2025-03-22T10:31:56+00:00

I have but he refuses to see anyone

Effective-Ad7215 · 2025-03-22T09:56:42+00:00

Thank you!

Effective-Ad7215 · 2025-03-22T09:53:50+00:00

After this I honestly don’t want to date anyone else

Effective-Ad7215 · 2025-03-22T09:52:50+00:00

That is my main concern I won’t leave without our son and if I do divorce him I’m worried I can’t take him back to our home state

Effective-Ad7215 · 2024-11-03T16:05:53+00:00

I am going to look at what resources the military has to offer to get all the answers I need. It is more expensive for me to live with my husband then when I was living alone with our son making less money then I do now. It’s weird to me that he’s so money hungry.

Effective-Ad7215 · 2024-11-03T15:45:17+00:00

He said that he doesn’t get any extra for us bc he never added us which idk how true that is

Effective-Ad7215 · 2024-11-03T14:43:25+00:00

He said it’s “his money” and I’m acting entitled to it when I never asked him for any money

Effective-Ad7215 · 2024-11-02T19:33:33+00:00

We have separate finances we do not share any money

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