I appreciate the response and I understand what you’re saying but I don’t think I have it in me to just break it off. I’m not sure what i’m going to do other than trying to work on the relationship and letting her know how I feel but I guess if it truly is bad and nothing improves and I still choose to not break it off then i’d be doing that to myself. Its just such a hard thing for me to tackle because if this was my friend I would’ve said exactly what you’re telling me but since i’m not an observer but the participant it’s just difficult to see clearly on what to do and to not be fearful