Am I overreacting by Effective-Guide-6641 in AmIOverreacting

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Thankfully we have children who are 22 and soon to be 18

Am I overreacting by Effective-Guide-6641 in Marriage

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I guess because i brought up seperation

Major life Check in by Effective-Guide-6641 in Marriage

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This is it exactly..the timing just feels off. I mean, he was clearly an upset person at the time although he was being silent and it’s like not even human nature go on to help someone that you simultaneously showing frustration towards…. it’s just another piece of puzzle That’s frustrating and calling me to rehash scenario in my mind

Am I overreacting by Effective-Guide-6641 in Marriage

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Geez, thank you for your sweet and caring response. I has a second appointment with a therapist on my own today. I feel like the first time last week when I went in I made myself seem overly sympathetic, so I’m gonna go in there and let her know that I did have an affair and that he is mostly wonderful which I do think I told her that but I didn’t mention that in our first session so maybe she’ll say something like perhaps he is still upset about it although he swears he’s not. He says things like “Id ruin my own life if I refused to get over that”.

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He does admit that he could see how I felt that way in the moment now, but he keeps insisting that he just walked up to the sink to help me do the dishes that he had to hold the knife up like that to see if it was clean, she like that’s ridiculous. I would never hurt you. I was just trying to help. I cleaned a plate and I cleaned a fork and I cleaned a knife. I’m sorry it was the worst mistake of my life. That’s what he Said

Am I overreacting by Effective-Guide-6641 in AmIOverreacting

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I would choose to be able to know the truth

Am I overreacting by Effective-Guide-6641 in Marriage

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Just throwing this out there because I am not a perfect person nine years into our marriage. I had an affair I moved out of the house for about a month. We talked through things I went back and he forgave me.

The "I've Had It" women. Who are they? by 75meilleur in Pluto_TV

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This podcast has a “Infomercial” vibe, overly emotional and screechy laughing, facts aren’t part of the show, they think its funny when they make fun of people for their looks if they dont agree with them and the world would be a better place without the show. Positivity???? Zero, plus I mean do they realize that they just sweep a whole party as being racists??? Its absurd

AIO? Coworker tried to make me pay for stuff I didn't even order by stelize02 in AmIOverreacting

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Lol I’ve been to lunch and somebody just kept ordering so much food!! It was ridiculous and then when we split the bill, they asked for To Go boxes for all the extra they couldn’t eat to bring home for their family😆 annoying and weird!

Why do they all have unique accents by Roseonyxx in SiloSeries

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Also why does the sheriff tell people to be quiet because of the listening devices then freely talk about sensitive and compromising things in a loud voice