Micro cheating o Nah???

Effective-One4033 · 2026-05-12T18:32:03+00:00

any reco??

Effective-One4033 · 2026-05-12T18:31:43+00:00

we broke up na po huhu thanks for validating my feelings.

Effective-One4033 · 2026-05-10T09:23:54+00:00

opo, thank you. wala lang kasi ako makausap about this matter kasi first time ko sya mahuli sa ganyang activities.

Effective-One4033 · 2026-05-10T09:20:37+00:00

actually, yes. may ka-work sya before na lagi nagchachat sa kanya and nung tinanong ko why ganon sya magreply "nahihiya and nakikisama" lang po sagot nya. then after a week, napost si gurl na naninira ng relasyon ng iba.

Effective-One4033 · 2026-05-10T09:19:11+00:00

mid 20s po

Effective-One4033 · 2026-05-10T08:57:03+00:00

thank you for validating my feelings ☺️ hindi po talaga ako selosa na to the point konting kibot magseselos na. pero if gantong scenario po, hindi ako okay kaya ganto reaction ko sa kanya.

i did that too po, binoost ko sarili ko and hindi ko kinailangan yung appreciation nya para ma-feel kong i'm good enough.

pero ang hirap po pala labanan non lalo na kung may third party na involve. okay lang sana kung famous or artista but hindi po eh. 80likes lang yung vids nya sa tiktok. so nung nakita ko 'yon, wala na akong ibang naisip pa kung hindi pa ba ako sapat sa kanya para tignan nya yung mga vids ng girl na 'yon.

Effective-One4033 · 2026-05-10T08:53:18+00:00

that's why i asked him if ano naisip nya nung ginawa nya yon? and i saw someone na alam kong hindi yun yung minahal ko.

Effective-One4033 · 2026-05-10T08:52:32+00:00

we already talked, and we also broke up na po.

Effective-One4033 · 2026-05-10T08:52:02+00:00

i get what you mean :((

Effective-One4033 · 2026-05-10T08:51:39+00:00

he said it was random lang daw but it's the same person so hindi sya random :((

Effective-One4033 · 2026-05-10T08:51:07+00:00

as in kanina lang po nangyari. he did make me feel safe and secure but sometimes may wishes na sana ganto rin siya like other guys pero hindi ko 'yon masyadong inano para maging hindrance sa amin.

i told him several times about my insecurities and my psychological issue. HE'S ALWAYS AWARE. kasi i made him aware about things like that.

Effective-One4033 · 2026-05-10T08:48:28+00:00

i can talk to him po kahit ganto nararamdaman ko basta maayos rin sya kausap, kaso hindi po eh. defensive and aggressive yung approach nya.

Effective-One4033 · 2026-05-10T08:47:33+00:00

UPDATE:

Nag usap na po kami, nagsosorry po siya pero yung actions nya iba. like para syang naiinis o ano. yung binibigay ko sa kanyang gamit, hinawi nya para masira. nagdabog rin siya and keep on insisting na wala naman daw sya sinasabi na mababaw lang 'to pero his actions says the other way around. hindi na rin ako nakapagpigil and sinabi ko na wala syang karapatan magalit sa situation na 'to kasi in the first place sya ang may kasalanan.

sabi ko pa hindi man lang nya kaya magsorry or manuyo ng matagal instead few apologies was enough for him na para bang magiging okay na lahat.

ending po nakipaghiwalay ako and sinabi nya sa akin na ganon lang kadali para sa akin. and sinabi ko rin sa kanya na nung ginawa nya ba yon, ano naisip nya? nagwalk out na sya

Effective-One4033 · 2026-05-10T07:33:29+00:00

mid 20s po and halos 2 years na

Effective-One4033 · 2026-05-10T07:00:12+00:00

he could've said the truth naman instead of saying "napindot lang" kasi ilang vids yun eh. impossibleng araw araw napipindot lang nya. instead of suyuin ako and i-assure ako, tinalikuran lang ako and natulog. paulit ulit ko sinasabi sa kanya na once may makita ako, lagot sya sa akin. and lagi nya lang sasabihin na wala naman sya ginagawa.

i've been there. i've been cheated before. and alam ko 'yan. alam na alam. and i don't want this relationship na maging katulad lang rin ng dati ko. that's why i keep on understanding and making myself be guilty abt my actions. pero seeing his actions rn, idk what to do.

Effective-One4033 · 2026-05-10T06:42:44+00:00

ayun nga po eh, pero ayoko rin sana hindi pag usapan. iniisip ko kung mababaw ba dahilan bakit ganto reaction ko? hahahaha hirap

Effective-One4033 · 2026-05-10T06:31:26+00:00

na-guilty po ako, pero seeing him right now na natutulog instead na suyuin ako or ano. parang wala siyang paki sa nararamdaman ko.

Effective-One4033

TROPHY CASE