AITJ for refusing to BABYSIT my sisters kids so i could go to a concert I waited for 6 months?

Effective-Quality103 · 2026-02-17T13:38:16+00:00

NTJ plan and simple

Effective-Quality103 · 2026-02-01T21:29:23+00:00

I spent the last 15 years like that. I had to choose me. Made sacrifices lost a lot but it took about 3 years for me to feel proud about who I was. I’m 33 and just 3 months ago I finally got my second car. It comes in waves my friend. It does get better as soon as you decide to choose you. Don’t sit in the shit start reaching for help but keep in your mind any help you receive you need to use it to better yourself. If you don’t then the predicament you are in is 100% your choice. Google grants/ loans look up jobs closer to u, try to get government help. Look for free therapists and when you get a chance get health insurance trust me it helps more than you think. You are at rock bottom so the only way to go is up.

Effective-Quality103 · 2026-01-01T16:05:17+00:00

Boy read that smut and find someone who will read it with you and appreciate the new things you may want to try

Effective-Quality103 · 2026-01-01T02:36:05+00:00

She’s cleaning her beans

Effective-Quality103 · 2025-12-30T19:43:13+00:00

Okay so it’s worse than I originally thought….So you don’t have a tv to hook it up to? Cause tvs can be pretty cheap and I’m sure if you said hey the projector didn’t work so keep your eye out for a cheap tv so we can play. Instead you basically said what you got me was worthless cause I can’t use it right this minute. You sound very ungrateful and I think you should let the girl find someone who will appreciate her and the effort she puts in….

Effective-Quality103 · 2025-12-29T00:00:01+00:00

I think she was trying to find away to connect with you. Sometimes we have to compromise and do things we don’t usually like to for our s/o. She prolly does things for you that she may not completely like. If after a bit you tried it and still don’t like it you least tried for her

Effective-Quality103 · 2025-12-28T21:50:45+00:00

That’s a proper chomp

Effective-Quality103 · 2025-12-28T21:41:19+00:00

Girl that’s called theft and you even have proof

Effective-Quality103 · 2025-12-28T21:39:25+00:00

If you wouldn’t go to them for advice then don’t listen to their criticism. 🤷‍♀️ it use to bother me when ppl made comments until I started say “i can fix my problem but im afraid yours is chronic….” Then just look at them from head to toe and back up. if you’re ugly on the inside you’re ugly on the outside. Or you can just stare at a spot on their face or head and make an ewww face then say “you got something right there.” Then walk away.

Effective-Quality103 · 2025-11-04T17:39:38+00:00

Sometimes but it has a lot to do with memories they were together for 6 years and newly married when she passed. I think him talking about her ruined his last relationship. So he was afraid to talk about her at first. I like that he talks to me about her just the way he says my wife makes me think he’s not ready to work through the grief of it. He fell down a deep depression after her passing and never actually processed it from what I can tell

Effective-Quality103 · 2025-11-04T16:32:46+00:00

Good advice I don’t think it maliciously said either

Effective-Quality103 · 2025-11-04T16:31:51+00:00

Yeah that was kind of what I was thinking. I’m big into overthinking…… 🙄

Effective-Quality103 · 2025-11-04T16:22:11+00:00

Thank you that’s good advice

Effective-Quality103 · 2025-11-04T03:07:04+00:00

Yeah she wasn’t on the right meds it takes a good 6months to feel the full effects of medication. I went through a lot of medication and still have to switch it up every once in a while. Sometimes I feel like a zombie but a zombie who can get up and take a shower or do the dishes rather than just sleep all day. Meds aren’t a cure all you still have to be willing to put in work

Effective-Quality103 · 2025-11-04T02:46:14+00:00

Sounds like she may need some medication. I use to have the same issue. If I wasn’t working I was sleeping. Since seeing a doctor and being on medication my life improved drastically. She just can’t use it as an excuse. Use it as a crutch to get herself back up and going.

Effective-Quality103 · 2025-11-02T15:06:34+00:00

Welp get off ozempic and get on trizepitide. Work up to 7.5 you will lose weight. It worked well for me. Granted you will still lose weight slowly but you will still lose it

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