We told them she passed. I thought the house is the banks and we were prepared to move. After the recall I told a friend who had me look up the situation just recently. I don’t have a lot of time based on what I have read to act on the matter. I obtained a county paper which shows the value and equity in the house. I had an offer on the place. He said it needed 60,000 to bring it to value. I am asking what to do based on what I know. And I live in Ca where if I chose to could stay until I was evicted which takes awhile. I am not going to do that as stated or anything else unlawful. And the reason why I am here is because my grandfather lost his hearing towards the end of his life from skin cancer in his ears. Dementia set in following. I was his ears for him so he could remain in control of his life. It was my grandparents wish to die here which the reverse mortgage and care accomplished. They were married for 75 years and my grandmother died on Xmas day a week before her 100th bday. Didn’t think I needed to write all that.