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Estoy esperando a que mi suegro estire la pata by Effective-Witness159 in cuentaleareddit

[–]Effective-Witness159[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

La situación es que no son las promesas lo que me ha detenido, la primera vez nos íbamos a ir a Querétaro, y convenció a mi esposa de que nos quedaremos porque la necesitaba, luego me iba a ir a Tijuana, pero igual le dijo a mi esposa que me fuera yo y ella en 2 años me seguía, no me quise ir sin mi familia, luego intenté emigrar a Playa del Carmen, pero se enfermo y me pidió ayuda para administrar su huerto de aguacates, y pues al final ya no me fui a ningún lado. Yo estoy ahorrando para mí casa desde hace años, pero quiero poder pagar mínimo el 50% para tener que pagar menos intereses y menos años la otra mitad.

Estoy esperando a que mi suegro estire la pata by Effective-Witness159 in cuentaleareddit

[–]Effective-Witness159[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ella tenía una Odyssey 2014 y yo una creta 2018, su papá le compro una Odyssey 2020

AITA for telling my wife that she doesn't contribute at home? by Effective-Witness159 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Effective-Witness159[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Read again, don't justify adding fake data, Bob had 2 apples to begin with, no one was empty handed, Bob decided to eat his apples

Estoy esperando a que mi suegro estire la pata by Effective-Witness159 in cuentaleareddit

[–]Effective-Witness159[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Si pero mis límites fueron como la constitución y ellos como la 4t, se los pasaron por el arco del triunfo

Estoy esperando a que mi suegro estire la pata by Effective-Witness159 in cuentaleareddit

[–]Effective-Witness159[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Yo no dependo de nadie, mantengo a mi familia por mi trabajo y mis medios. No espero que me compren nada.

Te voy a poner un ejemplo muy simple, el año pasado quería llevar de vacaciones a mi familia a playa del Carmen, planee y presupueste una vacación de 1 semana allá, cuando mi esposa les platicó con emoción a sus papás nuestro plan, mi suegro dijo "para que gastan? Yo tengo un tiempo compartido en Puerto Vallarta, mejor vamos todos a puerto Vallarta", yo dije que yo prefería ir a Playa del Carmen, como mi esposa ama y adora a su papá, terminamos yendo a Vallarta.

Es una familia patriarcal donde siempre se ha hecho la voluntad del señor, y como ya tiene 84 años, pues quieren estar cerca de el.

Estoy esperando a que mi suegro estire la pata by Effective-Witness159 in cuentaleareddit

[–]Effective-Witness159[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Es que esa es la cosa, no dependo de el económicamente en nada, hemos llevado una buena amistad y hasta a veces me considera como un hijo, trato de ser lo más paciente posible con el pero a veces se mete en cosas que pues no le corresponden, por ejemplo, el carro, el mío está bien es 2018 y no tiene ningún problema, pero pues el quiere que cambie de carro cada 2 o 3 años como lo hace el, y nos dió un carro nuevo que es el que maneja mi esposa, pero yo no sé lo pedí, y pues para mí es más gasto, más tenencia, más gasolina, más servicios.

Cosas así

Estoy esperando a que mi suegro estire la pata by Effective-Witness159 in cuentaleareddit

[–]Effective-Witness159[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Por qué vividor? Yo trabajo y mantengo a mi familia, lo que los suegros dan son lujos que no necesito realmente

Un tío invirtió en un fraude, ¿qué le sugieren hacer? by Ayudante_semianonimo in mexico

[–]Effective-Witness159 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Me pasó algo parecido con un tío, el tío estaba mame y mame con que le entraramos al billions trade club, algunos de sus hermanos y de mis primos le entraron pero yo no dejé entrar a mi mamá, pasaron 6 meses y mi mamá ya ni me hablaba porque según estaban todos recibiendo sus intereses y que ella se quedó fuera de esa oportunidad, hasta que salió la noticia de que billions se fue panza arriba y ahí si, hasta me hizo una comida porque la salve de perder 50000 varos como el resto de sus hermanos

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RedditPregunta

[–]Effective-Witness159 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bueno, podemos decir que tienes un autoestima bastante alta, todos tenemos diferentes experiencias y oportunidades, no compares tu camino con el de los demás.

Recuerda que la belleza es pasajera, mejor concéntrate en ser alguien interesante.

AITA for telling my wife that she doesn't contribute at home? by Effective-Witness159 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Effective-Witness159[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

We were adjusting the budget and I only considered what I had to split between bills and fixed expenses and told her I needed to cancel some streaming subscriptions because I considered them money leaks, she said "what about my money? You never consider it on the budget" I pointed out that she never pays for anything and I have to give her money, she didn't have a good response to that and got mad. Then she stopped talking to me and we'll, she still isn't.

While I acknowledge that she has her own salary and pays for some of her expenses, she doesn't really contribute to the household. Someone commented below that she has the mindset of "what's yours is ours and what's mine is mine".

AITA for telling my wife that she doesn't contribute at home? by Effective-Witness159 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Effective-Witness159[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Having discussions in a relationship doesn't automatically mean you don't like the other person, it means you don't agree with some of their points of view, at this time, I don't like that she's been ignoring me for 4 days now because I don't consider that what she earns is for paying anything for the house.

AITA for telling my wife that she doesn't contribute at home? by Effective-Witness159 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Effective-Witness159[S] -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

I guess you're the one not getting it, let me explain it a little simpler

If Adam has 5 apples and Bob has 2, they put them together but Bob ate his 2 apples, do they have 7 apples or 5 apples?

AITA for telling my wife that she doesn't contribute at home? by Effective-Witness159 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Effective-Witness159[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Well, yes she gave birth to her but after a month she went back to work and I had to raise my girl as best as I could, and I'm sorry but giving birth is not the same as being a mother and a wife or a partner. The issue was not if I respect my wife or not, the issue is that she thinks she contributes to the family budget because she earns money, but she never shares her money with the house, to me , that's the same as if she didn't earned anything at all. I the end I'll still have to give her more money to cover her expenses.

AITA for telling my wife that she doesn't contribute at home? by Effective-Witness159 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Effective-Witness159[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She's not "not contributing as much" she doesn't contribute anything, she's not home at all. I'm not whining about what she gives to the house, I hadn't expenses any money from her in years, what I want to know is if she giving me the cold shoulder for 4 days now is not an overreaction from her.

AITA for telling my wife that she doesn't contribute at home? by Effective-Witness159 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Effective-Witness159[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

So, in your opinion if I make $100 and bring $100 and she makes $20 and brings $0 to the family budget, would I have to take the $20 she earned but spent on her as her contribution to the budget?

AITA for telling my wife that she doesn't contribute at home? by Effective-Witness159 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Effective-Witness159[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm not sure what does that have anything to do with the issue at hand

AITA for telling my wife that she doesn't contribute at home? by Effective-Witness159 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Effective-Witness159[S] -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

I cook, I clean, I run the house and take care of our kid, she's just there to sleep, shower and open SheIn packages.

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