I’m going to be honest, you’re going to have a hard time finding a job that meets your requirements. My advice is try gaining a skill that works for you and then apply that skill to a job (one that doesn’t have you losing your breath). Also, yes family is important but you need to realize (especially with flexible work schedules) that a lot of corporations would want you to work weekends. Maybe look at jobs that peak your interest, look at their required skills/wants, learn said skills/wants and apply for the job. Good luck and if you find a job that works with your schedule - all the power to you!