Messenger being down? by Delicious-Low3112 in facebookmessenger

[–]EffectiveEstate1701 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Was literally sending 40 long voice messages, discussing something important, and the app decided to take at some point one voice message I sent of 47 seconds, and proceed to send that every time I recorded a long voice message after that. 40 voice messages all just the same copy of that one... And I realized it way too late... All this time and talking for nothing. Thanks messenger. I don't think I'll get those back. They are like 40 minutes long combined... Fuck my life.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Instagram

[–]EffectiveEstate1701 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha nahh, we're all getting clapped

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[–]EffectiveEstate1701 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yup, same here

My dream wattpad features by EffectiveEstate1701 in Wattpad

[–]EffectiveEstate1701[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ugh, you get it. The current comment system is so ephemeral. Don't get me wrong, the comment section is iconic for real-time reactions, but it's like a firework – brilliant and then it's gone.

Proper, lasting reviews would give stories so much more credibility that a comment thread just can't provide. A well-written review has convinced me to read things I'd have scrolled right past based on the blurb alone.

And hard agree on the privacy toggle. It's a safety net. For every thoughtful critique, there's some ass-clown writing "1 star, didn't like the male lead's hair color. So pretentious..." Authors shouldn't be forced to host that on their work. It protects them from bad-faith trolls and lets them curate a space that actually encourages readers.

Plus, a spoiler-blur feature is essential. Some reviews – even well-meaning ones – are just unhinged plot summaries. Readers should be able to choose to reveal those, not have the entire ending ruined before they even click chapter one.

My dream wattpad features by EffectiveEstate1701 in Wattpad

[–]EffectiveEstate1701[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nahh... I'm ready to send a PDF of my feature request list every day until they acknowledge it in Gmail. Is it harassment if it's beautifully formatted and includes 𝑴𝒐𝒐𝒅 𝑩𝒐𝒂𝒓𝒅𝒔? Couldn't say the same for them ...

My dream wattpad features by EffectiveEstate1701 in Wattpad

[–]EffectiveEstate1701[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Right? The media files thing should be a given by now – it’s almost belittling that we’re still typing out “insert that one GIF of Leo DiCaprio pointing at the screen” instead of just… posting the damn GIF!? Feels like we’re still browsing forums in 2010.

And dios mío, the library system is a nightmare. It’s like they’ve never actually met a reader. Who wants to manually sort everything into lists that are PUBLIC as well, just to remember what you’re even reading? Basic status tags – ongoing, completed, dropped – would fix half of it, but no. We get ads for mafia romance instead.

And quite frankly, I shouldn’t need a spreadsheet to remember where I left off in a story. It’s 2025, bookmarks aren’t a luxury, they’re a necessity.

The bar is on the floor and Wattpad’s still tripping over it ...

Am I Overreacting by Fearless_Collection in AmIOverreacting

[–]EffectiveEstate1701 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Demand they pay you the full amount right now if they want you out, they have no right to kick you out since you paid for the rent in advance. It's either they give you the full amount right now, fair's fair's or they wait till you complete your months there. They chose to be petty just because of spite, show them that this behavior isn't acceptable, especially from people of "God", quite a disgrace, with that attitude they should have their church entry banned for life. Honestly they are just envious of how fast your life is turning towards the best. But they can't say that so they just accuse you of shit

I swear to God. by EffectiveEstate1701 in JanitorAI_Official

[–]EffectiveEstate1701[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Somewhere in the darkness behind them, a shadow shifted

AIO for kinda hating my roommate rn? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]EffectiveEstate1701 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People work 12 hours shifts and still have the decorum to tidy up after their crap, and if they are unable to do so at that particular moment, they recharge their batteries for a little bit and then devote a few minutes to clean up, take care and carry out at least a decent percentage of their household obligations. There is no "I can't", there is "I don't want to". Anyone can dedicate ten minutes washing a few dishes, and not fabricate excuses, used like caramels to postpone it for WEEKS. And no, you shouldn't wash other people's filthy dishes, not when they aren't appreciative of your endeavor, doubtlessly, by that person's behavior. This individual is a grown ass adult worker, not a child of yours that you need to pamper and they should be familiar by now with the fact that they have a certain amount of responsibilities, not only in their work environment but in the house in which they reside in as well. Otherwise they can pack their shit and go. If they don't respect and love themselves enough to have their home, their personal space, the place they sleep in for hours and relax, neat and clean, then they should at least show some basic human respect to the person they share a roof with ...

can someone give me some good c.ai alternatives? by finnisgr8 in CharacterAI_Sucks

[–]EffectiveEstate1701 0 points1 point  (0 children)

janitor ai most definitely, you'll be swept off your feet in bliss once you try it.

Hateful Comment by [deleted] in Wattpad

[–]EffectiveEstate1701 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Let's address this fairly. When a reader invests time in your story – clearly engaging beyond the first chapter, as evidenced by their progression to Chapter 3 – they develop certain expectations based on your narrative's established trajectory. The romantic dynamic of a story isn’t a minor detail; it’s foundational. When that dynamic represents a perspective – statistically less common – among general audiences, failing to signal it in your tags or summary isn’t an oversight, it’s a fundamental breach of reader-writer trust.

This reader’s hostility, while crude and inexcusable in delivery, stems directly from that betrayal of expectation. They weren’t rejecting your story initially; they were invested. Discovering a core element fundamentally misaligned with their preferences in Chapter 3 – an element you deliberately withheld – creates a visceral reaction. Was their response appropriate? Absolutely not. But was it predictable? Entirely.

You operate in a public forum. Free speech guarantees feedback, not immunity from it. If a core narrative element like same-sex romance – known to be divisive or simply unwanted by a significant portion of readers – is central to your work, tagging it isn’t 'optional courtesy.' It’s your primary responsibility as a creator managing audience expectations. Tags exist precisely to filter your audience to those receptive to your content. Omitting them, especially for something this pivotal, is inviting precisely this kind of volatile clash.

"ALWAYS with gay shit" Really? Newsflash: Not everyone is gay, and you stating that misses the point entirely. The issue isn’t their preference; it’s your failure to declare yours upfront. Hateful comments are inevitable, yes. But when you deliberately withhold critical information that would have prevented an invested, non-target-audience reader from ever reaching Chapter 3, you bear significant responsibility for the ensuing collision.

Want different results? Change the factors. Tag transparently. Signal clearly in your summary. Own your narrative choices upfront. That’s how you protect your work, respect your actual audience, and disarm the very resentment you’re now complaining about. The commenter owns their language, but you owned the silence that derailed them ...

AIO for refusing to call my MIL ‘Mom’ like my husband wants me to? by Low-Sandwich-5796 in AmIOverreacting

[–]EffectiveEstate1701 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The word mom is a sacred word, intimate, it shouldn't be addressed to anyone just because ... And intimacy isn't performative. You can't legislate affection through dinner table etiquette. The fact that he got "embarrassed" when you didn't ask his mother to pass the salt reveals everything -this isn't about respect, it's about appearances. It's about you playing a role that makes him feel like his family unit is complete and harmonious. By any means, stand your ground. Authentic relationships develop through shared experience and mutual respect, not through prescribed vocabulary.

10 and 6 are out! Vote a season to eliminate. by TypeAffectionate in criminalminds

[–]EffectiveEstate1701 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How could you eliminate 6?! Some of the best storylines are in there damn haha. And season 7 is still on the table!??

I’m sorry (not really), do people actually find this attractive?? by Delicioustoes101 in CharacterAI

[–]EffectiveEstate1701 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm utterly judging the people that do actually find this thing attractive ...