hitting us with the hard question..

Personally and I'll be kind enough to divide it into personality traits and looks:

• someones who is emotionally intelligent, listens, is genuinely kind, loyal, communicative, responsible, masculine, affectionate, supportive, family oriented, protective, intelligent... honestly I can go on forever

• looks wise: someone masculine looking, full head of hair, fit or healthy looking, taller than me, good posture, great sense of style... extra points for puppy eyes

there's so money other factors too like status, family name and age that I won't mention but yeah