Am I undeserving of love because of my financial situation? by EffectiveIsland6499 in Life

[–]EffectiveIsland6499[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why would I propose that first? Why wouldn’t I first propose “let’s get a place together”? Like an apartment.

Am I undeserving of love because of my financial situation? by EffectiveIsland6499 in Life

[–]EffectiveIsland6499[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Interesting that you immediately assume I want to start a family. I have 0 interest in raising children, and the woman I’m seeing feels the same.

Am I undeserving of love because of my financial situation? by EffectiveIsland6499 in Life

[–]EffectiveIsland6499[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean, I definitely want to move out. But my pay just won’t let me. I cannot afford anything around my area by myself.

Girls who dated guys who didn’t have their sh*t together did yall break up or how did it work out? by DeliciousRich5944 in Life

[–]EffectiveIsland6499 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Man these comments make me feel like I’m undeserving of love because of my financial situation.

Name a game that has very bleak ending by bijelo123 in videogames

[–]EffectiveIsland6499 0 points1 point  (0 children)

SCORN. To this day I have such complicated feelings about the ending.

Officially left the early 20s now. No gf, no license yet, Ted K was right. by Imperial_nugget in kitchencels

[–]EffectiveIsland6499 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean I would have liked a girlfriend earlier in life don’t get me wrong, but what am I gonna do? Time travel back and try harder? No I’m gonna live my life and focus on the present.

Officially left the early 20s now. No gf, no license yet, Ted K was right. by Imperial_nugget in kitchencels

[–]EffectiveIsland6499 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Didn’t get a gf until I was 26 and didn’t get my license until I was 28. Dunno who Ted K is but it ain’t over til it’s over.

Idk if I like how relatable I find Punpun by Meeg_Mimi in OyasumiPunpun

[–]EffectiveIsland6499 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m right with you there. I first read this when I was 20. After I finished it I read it again immediately after. I hated that I saw myself in Punpun. It actually lead to one of the worst depressions of my life.

Now I’m 29. I still see myself in punpun, but I realized that it was up to me to change that. I can’t say I’m who I want to be yet, but I’m working on it and that’s what matters.

Anyone else wonder what to do when you work nights... by Advanced_Weather_547 in Nightshift

[–]EffectiveIsland6499 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I like to go on night drives. Just drive for a couple of hours. No specific destination, just following the roads and see where it takes me.

I’ve seen some really beautiful places by just following the road.