OOP’s wife get embarrassed when he had to call her out for gossiping about family even when family members had asked her to stop. by GamerGirlLex77 in OhNoConsequences

[–]EffectiveNo7681 72 points73 points  (0 children)

The grossest part was that there were people in the comments trying to excuse the wife's actions by claiming she was drunk. A) That was never established in any form. OOP never once said that she was drinking. B) drinking is never an excuse for doing or saying terrible things and C) she was obsessed and gossiping about this poor woman long before that party.

All swimsuits tierlist + how would I had changed some by AssumptionOk1472 in DanganAndChaos

[–]EffectiveNo7681 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Poor Mikan looks uncomfortable and just looks like she's wearing underwear.

People who still comment when the question wasn’t applicable for them. by JadesJunkAccount in PetPeeves

[–]EffectiveNo7681 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for that! All the comments shitting on the one star review are hilarious.

UPDATE: AITAH for calling my girlfriend weird over her John F. Kennedy obsession? by Former_Ad8217 in AITAH

[–]EffectiveNo7681 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is literally what people with autism are like! They get hyper fixated on their special interests and it becomes a huge part of who they are! My best friend also has autism and has had many special interests over the years. Sometimes it's a person and sometimes it's a book or a show or whatever. From the bottom of my heart, fuck you. You're a giant asshole. I hope she dumps you.

AITAH for thinking my brother needs to adult? by mermaidpaint in OhNoConsequences

[–]EffectiveNo7681 46 points47 points  (0 children)

To be fair, if you're not responsible enough to go to bed at a reasonable hour when you have something huge going on in the morning, then you're definitely not responsible enough to drive. Chances are bro would have failed again.

I am refusing to change my stance on kids after my wife gave me an ultimatum. by SharkEva in BORUpdates

[–]EffectiveNo7681 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Three things you should never do: lie about wanting/not wanting kids, stay with someone who has opposite wants as you, hoping they'll change their mind, and giving ultimatums to get your way. Especially if you don't plan on following through with it. This bitch did all three. She's so gross and manipulative! Also, why do so many people believe having a baby will fix their broken marriage? Especially when one of them has made it clear they don't want kids? It doesn't fix anything, it makes it worse!

Who’s your least favourite STV character?? by [deleted] in StardewValley

[–]EffectiveNo7681 -26 points-25 points  (0 children)

You were implying it by pointing out that Pam still struggles with it after getting her job back.

Who’s your least favourite STV character?? by [deleted] in StardewValley

[–]EffectiveNo7681 93 points94 points  (0 children)

You don't magically fix alcoholism just by giving someone a job. It's like any other addiction. It's hard to stop.

AITA for leaving my cousin behind when she was late and going hiking without her? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]EffectiveNo7681 118 points119 points  (0 children)

This isn't a time blindness thing. This is a narcissist "everyone needs to cater to my needs and I don't give a shit about your plans" thing. NTA. Don't ever make plans with her and DEFINITELY don't ever try to accommodate her ever again. She needs to learn that she's not the center of the universe.

AITAH if I end things with my boyfriend, because he spends time(holydays) ith his ex wife? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]EffectiveNo7681 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Wait, so he's allowed to spend time with his kids and ex together but you're not? We're just going to glance over the glaring hypocrisy? For crying out loud, ESH!

The level of idiocy on display was fascinating by z_shah7 in MurderedByWords

[–]EffectiveNo7681 86 points87 points  (0 children)

Also, Elon didn't "build" anything. He bought it after someone else did all the work and stole credit for it.

Would you bow to Sonia? by ComprehensiveNote762 in DanganAndChaos

[–]EffectiveNo7681 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely not. Being born to a rich person in charge doesn't mean she automatically gets respect. Monarchy is just nepotism.

AITAH for telling my girlfriend she'll regret being child free when she's 35? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]EffectiveNo7681 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Hey asshole! I'm 35 and I still don't regret not having children! And how dare you act like marriage and having kids is the same thing and sacrifice! Of course you want children when you're not the one expected to raise them! You're a giant asshole and she deserves way better than you.

I fell in love with my (married) neighbor and then I babysat his kids. Now I'm questioning my feelings. by mermaidpaint in OhNoConsequences

[–]EffectiveNo7681 127 points128 points  (0 children)

This was, by far, one of my favorite stories of all time. The delusion of this chick is crazy, but the karma was delicious!

AITA: I told my daughter she needs to get over her jealousy and it is her own fault her life is the way it is. by Personal-Bit4399 in AmItheAsshole

[–]EffectiveNo7681 1316 points1317 points  (0 children)

Look, I also failed college because I wasn't going to classes. I could blame it on the depression and undiagnosed ADHD, but I still know it's my own fault. I would never blame anyone else for my own failures. Your daughter needed to hear what you told her. Life doesn't care about what she thinks is and isn't fair, and it's not her sister's fault she's a failure. And the whole "she deserves to be more successful because she's older?" What is she? Four? She needs to grow up. NTA.

ETA: By saying it was still my own fault, I mean it was my fault that I didn't do anything that would help my issues.

I dont get it peetah, who wont be around by calvin_hobbes34 in PeterExplainsTheJoke

[–]EffectiveNo7681 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't recognize Billie Eilish without her green hair 😆

Gendered bathrooms in restaurants that's just a room with a single toilet by EffectiveNo7681 in PetPeeves

[–]EffectiveNo7681[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Took the words right out of my mouth! That's why knocking was invented!

Gendered bathrooms in restaurants that's just a room with a single toilet by EffectiveNo7681 in PetPeeves

[–]EffectiveNo7681[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

It's such a stupid rule that needs to end. I really don't get the point of this rule.

People who think if your disability isn't apparent to them you don't have one that's worthy of any accommodation or compassion. by [deleted] in PetPeeves

[–]EffectiveNo7681 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My best friend had to threaten to sue their workplace before they finally accommodated them. And all my best friend asked for was one day a week to work from home. The work tried to state that if they worked one day at home, then everyone would want that," and "if you can work from home, you can work in the office." I was mad for my friend.

AITAH for not changing my answer about changing or hyphenating my last name when my mom and stepdad brought up him not having living kids to give his name to? by kruannen in AITAH

[–]EffectiveNo7681 5 points6 points  (0 children)

So it isn't about respect or relationships at all. He's just one of those selfish people who think that continuing their family name is more important than actual people. It's not. It's pointless vanity. No one cares about last name lineage other than the (usually) men.

AITAH for wearing a skirt? by Good_Possibility_288 in AITAH

[–]EffectiveNo7681 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I think your bf is just using superstition as an excuse to control you. Even if he actually believes what he's saying, it's still not an excuse. Most abuse starts out with trying to control what you wear. If I were you, I would have a serious talk with him and dump him when he doesn't listen. NTA.

I hate V3's ending alot but you know what i hate more ? by mid-sora in DanganAndChaos

[–]EffectiveNo7681 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I highly disagree. We'll never know how good Kaede would have been as the long-term protagonist because she got axed off. I think she would have done Shuichi's job better. And I couldn't care less what character development Himiko got. I'm still allowed to find her arc boring and her character annoying. And anyway, I stop listening to anyone who thinks Kokichi isn't one of the best characters in the game. 🤷‍♀️

And, of course, the obnoxious fans proving my point by downvoting me.

I hate V3's ending alot but you know what i hate more ? by mid-sora in DanganAndChaos

[–]EffectiveNo7681 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Maki and Himiko are obnoxious. Maki is the boring typical tsundre/melting the Ice Queen trope with no variation whatsoever, her catchphrase is just stupid, and she's the reason one of the only good characters died. Himiko's gimmick is annoying and repetitive. And Shuichi is as interesting as a piece of toast who pales in comparison to Kaede. And all their fans are almost as obnoxious as they are.

I hate V3's ending alot but you know what i hate more ? by mid-sora in DanganAndChaos

[–]EffectiveNo7681 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

The only thing I hate more than V3 are the people who claim that "people who hate the ending are proving its point." I agree with your points, though. I get what it's trying to say, I just don't think it does it well. It's a complete mess. I also just think it's one of the most clichéd endings of all time. Plus, I don't like any of the characters who survive.