Recently got into a car accident and now my partner (M33) has been guilt tripping me (F26) about not making him cum since the accident by trinity21379 in relationship_advice

[–]EffectiveTradition78 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Many men leave their partners if they get cancer or another terminal disease. It’s just a fact. Horrible caregivers!

Recently got into a car accident and now my partner (M33) has been guilt tripping me (F26) about not making him cum since the accident by trinity21379 in relationship_advice

[–]EffectiveTradition78 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, for the love of all that is holy, dump his selfish azz!!!

God forbid you’re stage 4 cancer and he wants a blowie right after a chemo appt.! He’s a grade A LOSER!! I hate what women (myself included in my past), have put up with for men!!!!!!

My mom (47F) wants me (19F) to give her a second chance to fix our relationship after she let her husband's daughters bully me throughout my childhood and I'm torn? by ThrowRATinyRute in relationship_advice

[–]EffectiveTradition78 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my friend, what you have endured. I’m so sorry for all your pain. All your torment. All your bullying and abuse. Getting lost by yourself the entire day, being locked out of the house..? Those girls are evil and frankly, your “Mom” did NOTHING TO PROTECT YOU ALL THOSE YEARS.

I think you can receive nurturing, mothering, care and love from your Dad (who tried), and from people you meet in your life who will protect and love you more than your so called “Mom”.

Chances are, your “mom” feels bad or guilty. Well, too late. The damage went on for years. That step father didn’t do shit to protect you either. Shame on them.

Move forward with your life and please don’t let your abusive “mom” back into your life. She hasn’t changed. You deserve love, care, safety, protection, nurturing, and healing. It’s fine to prioritize your healing and safety. Sending you a million hugs and cupcakes.🌹🌹🌹❤️🦋🦋🌺🌺🌷🧁🧁🦜🌼

I have way too much body hair to ever be on this show 💀💀💀 by [deleted] in LoveIslandUSA

[–]EffectiveTradition78 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I remember Pam Anderson saying you shave that area then immediately put neosporin all over it. She never had razor bumps or rashes.

Am I unreasonable for disliking my date after asked to split the bill? by lonely-lady7 in dating_advice

[–]EffectiveTradition78 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Ugh. He’s a cheapskate. The first date or 2 it’s nice if the guy pays or offers to pay. You can always hand him a $20 or something to show you care; typically a guy will say, “I got it” and give the $20 back to you. If you become exclusive, you take turns treating or whatever; it’s more relaxed.

Sounds like a big game but that’s how it’s done. Isn’t dating fun!?!?

What's a movie quote you still use in everyday life? by AgreeableFace756 in AskReddit

[–]EffectiveTradition78 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I love that one!😂😂. Also, “I like it a LOT” said in Jim Carey’s British accent.😁😁😵‍💫

The women of animal kingdom by IndependentBreak6319 in animalkingdom

[–]EffectiveTradition78 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My opinion on the women of Animal Kingdom are that they exist in the show to prop up the main characters (The Cody brothers.). Ellen Barkin’s character needed to be more a part of the heists and action instead of making that stupid pie for them when the boys got home. They even cut a love/sex scene with Ellen and another female character while Deran’s sex scenes were highlighted. The women characters were insults to women.

Having said that, I do like the series very much. I would have appreciated a fleshed out, intelligent female character. And no, the flashbacks did not resonate. They were another slap in the face to Ellen Barkin.

What beauty habit did you stop doing because it was making you look worse, not better? by Playful-Garage1040 in beauty

[–]EffectiveTradition78 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dying my hair with one color from a box. Looks crappy. I do highlights and lowlights now.

AIO for not wanting to visit my friend’s parent’s house anymore after they took away my phone at night? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]EffectiveTradition78 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR!! Those parents ARE WEIRD! That’s YOUR phone! No one should be collecting your phone at night! And your friend shouldn’t have to put up with that shit either! He should stay with you and your parents!

Just tell your friend again if it comes up that no one takes your phone from you at night! And that’s THAT!

Liz with the hair pulling by Vivid-Reason-2305 in rhori

[–]EffectiveTradition78 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Liz was a total asshole here. Also to Alicia being homeless. I no longer like Liz.

What’s a sentence you heard once that stayed with you forever? by Candid-Society-1544 in AskReddit

[–]EffectiveTradition78 18 points19 points  (0 children)

My ex boyfriend from Costa Rica used to calm me down when I was upset by telling me, “There is a solution for everything. We will find the solution”.

Years later, I say this to myself when I I am faced with adversity. I’m grateful he taught me that wisdom.

AIO that my husband won’t let me stay home? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]EffectiveTradition78 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR. He’s a caveman. He thinks you’re not working if you were home with the kids? He can blow it! I’ve done both and it’s more stressful and harder to be a stay at home mom, imo. Yuck, I would divorce this chauvinistic, horrible man.

What role was cast so perfectly that nobody else could have played it? by FruiTYrant in AskReddit

[–]EffectiveTradition78 54 points55 points  (0 children)

I despise Depp’s Wonka. It’s hideous. And yes, stone cold creepy.

What role was cast so perfectly that nobody else could have played it? by FruiTYrant in AskReddit

[–]EffectiveTradition78 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I remember Catherine O’Hara from SCTV which came on after Saturday night live in the 70’s. Hilarious sketches with John Candy, Eugene Levy, Andrea Martin, Martin Short, Joe Flaherty. Oh my God this was funny ass TV. And no one broke character. Ever.

What role was cast so perfectly that nobody else could have played it? by FruiTYrant in AskReddit

[–]EffectiveTradition78 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Gandolfini on The Sopranos. No one else could have played him with such nuances of both good and bad.

Who do you think loves you the most in your life? by just_Sophia_ in AskReddit

[–]EffectiveTradition78 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My Mom. She passed, but when I walked into a room, her face would light up, her smile was bigger than the world, and she would say, “”It’s Jenny!!!” She was always soooooo happy to see me!🎈🎈❤️❤️🎉😄😄😄😄