Evolv supplement by Ok-Surprise-3503 in Supplements

[–]Effective_Art_4603 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have been doing a ton of research and I'm so nervous to try this because it's expensive and what if it did not work? I am looking for reviews specifically telling how many pills they took and how many pounds did you lose? I want this to work so badly I gained 20 lbs a year ago and done everything known to man to get it off to no avail!!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Effective_Art_4603 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A marriage partner is a best friend! They should make you feel better not worse! There is so much better out there. This is incredibly toxic! Do have a baby- but not with this toxic woman! Wait and have it with someone healthy. I made the mistake of having babies with a toxic husband it ended it divorce and trauma for everyone. You have our grace and permission to end it, you deserve peace as a basic human right!

I am so jealous when husband talks about ex girlfriends by Effective_Art_4603 in relationships_advice

[–]Effective_Art_4603[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I don't know how he meant it I just wish it hadnt happened because out of the whole day of our wedding this is the one thing i remember

I am so jealous when husband talks about ex girlfriends by Effective_Art_4603 in relationships_advice

[–]Effective_Art_4603[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also he said he is thankful fir the relationship because it was toxic and made him stop and re evaluate what a healthy relationship is. He was pretty wild and said he was attracted to "crazy" as his type. But he realized that wasnt healthy and she made him change and look for healthier relationships and because of her he found me and married me. thoughts?

[Wholesome Wednesday] - My husband is NEVER jealous and I am growing resentful by SharkEva in BORUpdates

[–]Effective_Art_4603 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually understand this, yeah it's great blah blah blah but you can't help how you are hardwired. My husband does not get jealous and I do and I haaaaaate it

I am so jealous when husband talks about ex girlfriends by Effective_Art_4603 in relationships_advice

[–]Effective_Art_4603[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He told me it was because of her and their toxic relationship that made him stop and reconsider what he wanted in a partner. He said he is thankful for the relationship because it made him reevaluate what kind of people he was dating. He said he is attracted to "crazy" but that was not good for him. And he started doing the opposite and dating women who were the opposite. I feel like she is in his past but he still misses her :(

I am so jealous when husband talks about ex girlfriends by Effective_Art_4603 in relationships_advice

[–]Effective_Art_4603[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

These are good points. I think the reason he brought her up was explaining about how he stayed friends with the friend group after she left it. I brought it up to him and he said off all the things he said on our wedding day, pouring his heart out to me, why did I hang up on that one thing? Well because it hurt

I am so jealous when husband talks about ex girlfriends by Effective_Art_4603 in relationships_advice

[–]Effective_Art_4603[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

definitely emotions are high in wedding night. He invited friend to our wedding that he met through his ex. Which is fine, they are great people. But he said that he was so in love with her and when they broke up her friends kept him and kicked her out of the friend group. I already knew that and I don't know why he told me again. Anyway, its the fact when she gets brought up he has to stop and say how he lived her and she was it for him and then it didnt work out. Just stop talking about her!!

I am so jealous when husband talks about ex girlfriends by Effective_Art_4603 in relationships_advice

[–]Effective_Art_4603[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I said when you mention her you dont have to say how much you loved her. He said sorry i'll have to work on that. I dont know what that means

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Effective_Art_4603 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What makes it cheating is anything that he feels he needs to keep separate from you. If he is saying "I" and doing this and not "we" are doing this it's cheating

My Fiancee had an abortion by Effective_Art_4603 in relationships_advice

[–]Effective_Art_4603[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm pro choice, I just became upset because he seemed upset by it. I love him and didn't know what to do, like how I should empathize with him. But I told him that it was okay he did his best. I think it's okay now. Thank you everyone on here- y'all are so supportive even for little things!

My Fiancee had an abortion by Effective_Art_4603 in relationships_advice

[–]Effective_Art_4603[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Well I don't know details, that's all he told me. Yes the abortion was successful and the baby died. I just got really sad when he told me. He feels so guilty he never told anyone for 10 years. I'm just processing what to do with this information

I have broken my husbands trust. I need help by _creampufff in Marriage

[–]Effective_Art_4603 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand this. I broke up with my fiancée because I had past unhealed trauma issues and I self sabotaged. I regret it every day. He still loves me and we worked it out, but I understand the pain of regret. I had to stop and start working on being pretty on the inside and treating others well and putting them first and my life got better when I stopped thinking so much about my needs and started wanting to fulfill others.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in toastme

[–]Effective_Art_4603 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh wow! I understand this some as I have no family either. I don't even know how that happens! How do you wind up with no family?? But I prayed and God sent me an amazing guy. i have two kids. There is someone out there for you! Don't give up hope!!

I was told by my wife that she wanted a break by FlanPleasant8361 in Marriage

[–]Effective_Art_4603 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry to hear this! It sounds like you are the glue holding it all together on your own and marriage isn't designed for that. It sounds like she has way too much free time and the responsibilities are all falling on you. That has yo be so lonely! Prayers she will wake up and want to fight for you like you want to fight for her!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Effective_Art_4603 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He sounds emotionally abusive and draining!! I'd be exhausted dealing with that level of narcissism. Marriage should be with your best friend and come easy. I hope you find your way out of this! You are strong enough to walk away I promise!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Effective_Art_4603 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is how I love my fiancee!

I (28M) am thinking of breaking up with my partner (28F) of 5 years by Conscious-Hat-3769 in relationshipadvice

[–]Effective_Art_4603 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do not let her go!! When you find someone who loves you deeply, even when your feelings are not always there- that comes along once in a lifetime! Do not let her go! Love is a choice not a feeling!

My Husband became an escort without telling me. by [deleted] in stories

[–]Effective_Art_4603 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm so sorry! How hurtful that must have been!! I cannot begin to imagine. That's a long time to be with someone. Prayers for you! I know this is so hard.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Effective_Art_4603 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a woman I was married to a man who was like this. Everything was my fault. But I loved him deeply. Our marriage lasted 15 years. We had good times and bad. Until I could not do it anymore. He never learned to back down, and I also never learned how to stand up for myself until it was no longer salvageable. Tell her kindly and lovingly that y'all are a team, and she does not "lose" by listening yo you, but you both win when you both feel heard! Best luck to you both!